Your shallow, "non-negotiables" for a potential partner?
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Posted by Boots1313I feel you on that. My gbff used to make those comments.It's hard though when my friends have strong opinions on it and "can't understand why he is 'never' around". But that's just them, not any reflection on us.click to expand
I finally was like, boo you are way different than me in a relationship. You loved to be all loved up and have them around 24/7 (ironically he is an Aquarius). That isn't me, I like to have space...so does my bae. As long as I'm happy with how it is, be happy for me yes?
After we had that convo he got a bit better on interjecting his unsolicited opinion.
I would just say be careful about bitching to these friends about your relationship. Cause if they only hear the negative they are gonna be negative towards him in how they talk. And thats hard to hear.
Posted by starlordLol she is a friend that's a girl!! I'm straight.. 🤣🤣🤣Posted by WateryGemPosted by starlord
Anyone?
Is it a thing or just a coincidence, that they are younger? What do you like about them? What do you think it says about you? And what have been your experience with it - dating, relationships, reaction from friends and family and so on?
How young are we talking?
My Libra gf has always gone for younger guys, she is now married to one 14yrs younger. That's too much of an age gap for me...however this guy is more of an old soul.
She is your girlfriend but married to a guy? Or you just mean girl-friend like friend?
How old is she?click to expand
She is 42yrs old.
Posted by TurnedOnHow old are you?Posted by starlord
Anyone?
Is it a thing or just a coincidence, that they are younger? What do you like about them? What do you think it says about you? And what have been your experience with it - dating, relationships, reaction from friends and family and so on?
I like cougars.click to expand
Posted by JammerwheelsAww lol too bad. Mine wasnt working as well and I had to verify my emailPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by JammerwheelsPosted by GemgyalPosted by Jammerwheels
You are not together. He is keeping his options open.
What did you tell him in your last date when he said that he wanted you to be more than friends?Did you tell him that you wanted to be his girlfriend too?
Nope. I did not. Because I know he is talking to other girls. I did tell him at our last date for the (first time) that I like him more than FWB. And he said okay we will see how it goes( as im going through some personal stuff) and after that personal stuff he said we will see how we will continue.
We aren't speaking atm. Because we had a fall out. I apologized for it, he ignored it. After that i apologized again he did reply but it was really cold and distant. I know he is now talking to the other girl.
Also when I'm keeping my options open and dating other guys he gets angry? But like really mad. So I was like a bit shocked and said maybe we should just be friends and he doesn't want that either. He is so confusing one day he will say he wants to stay FWB, then another day he will say he wants to be with me but has a hard time trusting me and then another day he will say we are not in a relationship so he can do what he wants etc.. but when I do it all hell breaks loose.
I'm so confused and hurt. so I'm just keeping my distance for now....
What is confusing? He likes you. He told you. That is why he doesn’t want you to be with other guys. You cannot be his girlfriend because of personal issues. And he doesn’t trust that you are serious. Until then he will keep his options open
So because I'm going through personal issues that is an excuse for you to keep your options open. But when I do it? there is a problem. I dont get it? He likes me but doesnt even bother to ask me how I'm doing or how I've been? Nope. How can you expect someone to be loyal to you ( what I've been) but he doesnt even believe it. But you're not loyal yourself?
If he really likes me, why isn't he just straight about it or tell me I dont like you dating other guys.
Do u know what I think? He is just juggling different girls at the same time.
How does he expect me to be serious, if he is not giving me anything to be serious about? He is always 'keeping his options open'
We arent speaking anymore. And I see now all of a sudden he is totally invested in that girl atm. So it is what it is.
You expect him to wait for you when he doesn’t trust you and you don’t want to be with him?
No, offcourse not. I do want to be with him. But without trust how can we be? I can’t make someone trust me if he just doesn’t? I’ve always been loyal and never been with another guy since him. I’ve told him this multiple times. But still no, like so now its like I have to prove my worth to him?
But now he is acting real sneaky, deleting our convo’s and that sort of stuff. So i guess he is serious with that girl
I am trying to show you how he thinks. Not trying to be harsh.
Right now you can’t be with him. Time will tell. You were not even together. That girl is probably giving him what you cannot.
Sorry you are having a hard time with it.
Thanks. I needed to hear that. I wasnt trying to be rude or anything. But I get it. I'm just hurt and having a real hard time with this. But time will pass and I will heal. So you suggest me leaving him alone? Its not like we are speaking but still
If he is with the other girl is not much you can do right now. Just concentrate in yourself and your personal issues and when you are 100% you can be with him then talk to him. If he wants you like he said, then he will live any girl for you if he knows for sure that you want to be serious with him.
Take care 😘
Btw i inboxed u did u get it?
Sorry something is wrong with my DM 😬😤click to expand
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Posted by NotmyrealnameNo worries lol. I wasn't being that serious about it...kinda poking fun. LolPosted by LostinmyMind11
Everyone's always quick to throw us leo mooners under the bus cause it's an attention seeking thread but none of you notice that it clearly states next to her name...she is a virgo sun and MOON... Taurus rising.
Kthanks ...ya assholes 😜
Haaa I feel bad but I literally just assume people have the wrong birthtime sometimes, cancer or virgo moons could easily be mistaken Leo moons.... like @neno for exampleclick to expand
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. Just be honest with her and tell her you're willing to be patient. Dont worry over this, just talk to her, she has no reason to lie to you.
Thank you !!
IT feels ..Like im..wasting my time ..and Like i do the right Thing ...its so very hard for me !
I cant sleep Well ...im all in my head ...
Her eyse was Sparkling ..at that kiss.. Moment ...and she was cuddling with me ..so sweet ...
Could.you do that ... without having ..Feelings ?????
Probably not. I'm sure she likes you, shes been honest with you, she probably does just need time and a slower speed. Be patient.
My gut instict ..tells me ..shes the one !
But i absolutly dont .. understand .. how she Sees time ...i mean ...time gos by diffrent ...for Taurus !? ...If shes ..really ...Just playing ...than she forgatt ...that WE See us @ Work Sometimes ,...that wouldnt be so smart ...
But shes ...acting arrogant Sometimes ...by Nature ! ...i can Look arrogant to ..^^ ..but she omg ..
That's cute. I suggest just be honest with her, be consistent. Taurus is a slow moving sign, they're not usually players. Just spend time with her and see where it goes.
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I dont think i will apologize ... because..in my mind i did nothing wrong
..and i already told her ...that i was Like that ... because ..i was thinking we are exklusiv
And she told me ...yea she recognize ..it ...🤔
You know ? .. because ..i dont want to say sorry ..for Something ..i did because i was Feeling that way! ... because if shes ..Not
IT helps ...so much ! ...you cant understand ...how IT IS ...to See her ..at Work ...😣
The only Thing i did "wrong" ...maybe was ...to Talk to much about. .. relationship ...i mean ..Not in my mind ...but in hers maybe ...
Anyway ...i didnt do anything Bad to her ...
Otgerwise ...she wouldnt Talk to me at Work ...
You right ...i have to ..go Back to normal ..
Maybe i should Just Play IT "cool" ...
And If the Situation ..is optimal ...i will Talk Just a Lil Bit ..about ..her ...maybe to Show her ...that ..i know ..her...that i recognize
Yea she has her Wall Up .....and shes beein Hurt before ..100% ...Big Times ...
I ask her ...she told me No ...but im Sure ...shes beein Hurt !
Strange way to Show Love ...🤔
Can you suppres Love ...🤔🤔🤔
Tbh ...i never beein Hurt before !
But now i can imagen how IT feels 😣
It must be the answer ...!! All other Situations ..makes No sense ...my Tempo got her scared ...and she was rememberd ...to the old Feelings ..!? ...maybe she thinks
What Happens fat ...will end fast !?
Taurus have a hard time letting go of emotion, good or bad.. I know i was hurt before and now am not trusting of men. I take my time to make sure they're there for me and not gonna leave. It takes time.
I would Love to belive that ! ....WE Had a amazing time ! ...and she told me ...2 Times that she Likes our Dates a Lot ! ...
Now she put time and distans ..between us ...thats Not good for Our " relationship"
.i can Tell you that !!! ..i mean shes Not lieng ...but ppreciate the honesty and it'll save you time guessing what happened. Just be direct, Taurus like direct and clear communication.
They Like clear cummunicatetion ..🤔🤔
But cant 🙄
Yes o have to do that ! ... because ..its a dead end Road ! .....but ..i dont understand ...why she wont ... cummunicate ! ...
I mean cmon ..you would Just Tell me ...If you need time or Space or what ever ...
I swear...i want to Talk ..nice with ...her ..but..in the other Hand i would Like to ignore ..her Lil ..
Not Mad or so ...just "cool "
..at First she Had No Idea ...that i liket ..her ..and thats why she was intresstet !
You can sit here all day and think what if but the easiest is to ask her directly. you have nothing to lose. its only stressing you out now, so just talk to her when you can and be like "hey this is how i feel, this is what you did and how it made me feel, whats next". After that you will know how to proceed
Yes absolutly ! ...
The Problem is ..i dont know ..when i See her at Work ..next ! ...and If there will BE ...agood Situation ...
Maybe i send her a voicemail. ..i dont Like IT but ..she can listen ...to IT ...in her own Tempo
I will Tell you the füll convo ..If U dont mind ^^
Me: hey can i ask you Something ...did i do or say anything wrong ...?!
She : looking with Big eyse and very understanding ...No U did nothing wrong !
Its Just my Situation ..its all in my head now ..
Me : i dont wantet to give you the Feeling of presure ..or pushing Something ..
She : i didnt feel Like that ..! No worrys .
Mr: after that nice Kissing Moment ..i was so Sure we think the Same way ...and it was Just ME ...i totaly forgat ..that ..there is 2 o us (:
She: Smiling yea ..after that Moment ...i Just realized where its going ...and i am so confused !
Me : i would be Not unlucky If WE ..Finish at this Point ...and If U think WE should give time and get to know us better ...than yes ...thats perfect !
She : yeah i need time ..and we should get to know better ...but i was thinking U lose intresst ..me: !? I was Just giving you Space and time ... because i was confused !!
She !? ..lol thats fail of cummunication
She was laughing because we did Talk before ...and she told me ..that shes more available now ...and its all diffrent and stuff
So at this Point im better now ...i must Listen to her ..and dont overthink everything ...i never meet a Person Like her ...shes the Most Honest Person ...and i confused IT with beeing Fakeclick to expand
Posted by Phantom_DangusI'm not teaching disrespect but to command your own respect. I never disrespected my boss but I ain't kissing her ass either..
Why are you teaching people to disrespect you when you become a boss? Seems dumb.
Anyway, this is true with any manager. They don't own you, and there is a limit to what they can do. If you're confident and don't over-explain yourself, you're much more likely to get to do what you want.
I've had crazy managers of both genders. The most emotional was a woman, but the worst by far was a dude. He was such a dumbass.
And I don't wanna be anybody's "boss", I wanna be a leader. Big difference in my opinion
Yes!
Get yourself a nerdy lady! Unless yer also not into Marvel/DC/sci-fi/action movies.
Even tho my sun&venus sign loves the mushy stuff, I cant watch romantic movies often. They make me puke....
Get yourself a nerdy lady! Unless yer also not into Marvel/DC/sci-fi/action movies.
Even tho my sun&venus sign loves the mushy stuff, I cant watch romantic movies often. They make me puke....
......please do tell. You can keep it short and simple. I have someone’s sun and mercury on my 8th house. You as the planet person did you feel intensely for the house person?