Need insight on this libra sun, cap moon, libra Venus man!!
I don’t know about the Venus in Libra but My father has a libra sun and Capricorn moon, so I’ll speak to that.
He’s a quiet person and doesn’t like to be pushed. Not sure what your sign is, but given your response, you’ve probably got one of the masculine signs (Aquarius, Aries etc). Libras are feminine signs. Taking gender equality out of the equation you have to remember those dynamics.
There was nothing wrong with what you said and I applaud you for speaking your mind. But to him, he probably felt: you didn’t need to say it, didn’t have the authority/right to say it, and he didn’t like the way you said it.
So now you’re in chopping block mode. He’s not ready to cut you off because he might view you as his potential next date, but you fucked up in his mind. Hence the cracked open door mindset.
I also will say this...friendship? 🤔 if that was the case, you wouldn’t have bothered to look up his Venus! Venus is for love. If it was a friendship thing, Mercury would be more important since that’s his thought process.
OP- you like him. And that’s totally ok. But you can’t cover those feelings in a pretend friendship.
My best advice would be to cool the energy. We can sometimes get caught up in our emotions and not realize, especially when we have a sign that’s masculine and double the case when it’s in our moon, that we are putting out “pushy” energy.
You haven’t earned the right to critique him yet. And he’s already raw coming out of a relationship with an aries.
I’d suggest backing off a bit, get back to the light heartiness for a while and keeping, unless it’s a serious violation, your more serious thoughts to yourself. He’s going through a process of the ending of a relationship. Libras don’t like to be alone and love and need relationships. So you have to keep all this in mind with timing.
Good luck OP! 🤗
He’s a quiet person and doesn’t like to be pushed. Not sure what your sign is, but given your response, you’ve probably got one of the masculine signs (Aquarius, Aries etc). Libras are feminine signs. Taking gender equality out of the equation you have to remember those dynamics.
There was nothing wrong with what you said and I applaud you for speaking your mind. But to him, he probably felt: you didn’t need to say it, didn’t have the authority/right to say it, and he didn’t like the way you said it.
So now you’re in chopping block mode. He’s not ready to cut you off because he might view you as his potential next date, but you fucked up in his mind. Hence the cracked open door mindset.
I also will say this...friendship? 🤔 if that was the case, you wouldn’t have bothered to look up his Venus! Venus is for love. If it was a friendship thing, Mercury would be more important since that’s his thought process.
OP- you like him. And that’s totally ok. But you can’t cover those feelings in a pretend friendship.
My best advice would be to cool the energy. We can sometimes get caught up in our emotions and not realize, especially when we have a sign that’s masculine and double the case when it’s in our moon, that we are putting out “pushy” energy.
You haven’t earned the right to critique him yet. And he’s already raw coming out of a relationship with an aries.
I’d suggest backing off a bit, get back to the light heartiness for a while and keeping, unless it’s a serious violation, your more serious thoughts to yourself. He’s going through a process of the ending of a relationship. Libras don’t like to be alone and love and need relationships. So you have to keep all this in mind with timing.
Good luck OP! 🤗
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