If you could get your virginity back.....
"If you are brought up with such a belief that you are a worthless piece of wh0re after your first love didn't work out to a marriage, your pain of losing your first love compounds with the belief of how a worthless wh0re you are now can drive a sane person insane."
If this is the case .. and women believe this to be true because of their society .. then I say, "Where's my surgical gloves. I'll attach a few myself for them, so these women can feel worthy of themselves."
If this is the case .. and women believe this to be true because of their society .. then I say, "Where's my surgical gloves. I'll attach a few myself for them, so these women can feel worthy of themselves."
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Ok...I guess one risk of opening up and expressing out ur deepest views is to risk being sounding like a pessimist....but i would actually call it the process of facing the hard facts and not assume that all is rosey all the time. I think sags are deep thinkers...but only when they are alone and away from the crowd...when amongst people we tend to picture ourselves as happy go lucky kinds...who can take any amount of crap from anyone and shrug it off with a smile 
One of the most important lessons i have learnt in my life, through the hard way, is that i cant please everyone and be in the good books of everyone. However, although i do realize it, my natural disposition is to act like a smiling clown and it hurts when its not taken in the right spirit or appreciated.
I guess i wouldnt have had this period of deep self introspection and thinking if everything would have been fine...i would have continued pleasing the crowds then. the problem is that i have to fight myself to stop doing that against my natural tendency.
One more thing...Archer mentioned in some thread that sags like to play dumb to find out if anyone else is dumber enough to believe we are actually dumb
But if i can twist it around...i don't think there are many people who can figure out if we are smarter than we really are
And therein lies this deep long and desire to search for people whom u can connect with or who understands u...and we hit a deadend in most of the cases with that.
One of the most important lessons i have learnt in my life, through the hard way, is that i cant please everyone and be in the good books of everyone. However, although i do realize it, my natural disposition is to act like a smiling clown and it hurts when its not taken in the right spirit or appreciated.
I guess i wouldnt have had this period of deep self introspection and thinking if everything would have been fine...i would have continued pleasing the crowds then. the problem is that i have to fight myself to stop doing that against my natural tendency.
One more thing...Archer mentioned in some thread that sags like to play dumb to find out if anyone else is dumber enough to believe we are actually dumb
But if i can twist it around...i don't think there are many people who can figure out if we are smarter than we really are
And therein lies this deep long and desire to search for people whom u can connect with or who understands u...and we hit a deadend in most of the cases with that.
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***Is it ok to question everything and then try to put a label on it?
NO SIR (but when we are sick at heart we tend to do it)***
Man...those are the most authentic words i have heard in a long time!
Now tell me how did u deal with it when u were there?
NO SIR (but when we are sick at heart we tend to do it)***
Man...those are the most authentic words i have heard in a long time!
Now tell me how did u deal with it when u were there?
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Hurts badly tho! 
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oh my God!!!! this blog is great. I have been married to a libra man for 4 yrs. we are now separated we have been for a year now. We have 3 small children.I am really excited about fininding this blog. I am not really in the whole signs thing but everytime I read a blog or message about a libra man I really think that this is my ex you ladies speak of.. I think to my self i wonder where they live is this the women thats is sleeping with my ex. I know so typpical of a virgo to have those thoughts lol. Ok. I met my ex Libra in aug 03 and we married in oct 03. It was fast. I was really young I was 20 (virgo) and he was 24(libra).up until we got married I was so excited about being with him. then when we moved in together it changed I started to want more of an connection and I was not getting that. 3 months after we married he went to iraq everything went down hill from there.I cheated.please dont judge me for I have lived to regret that. my libra man found out about it and he decided to work it out (so he says). I tried everything to prove to this man that I was sorry but nothing worked.I knew in my heart I would never cheat again.But a pointcame that I would just couldnt make him happy. we stayed married for another 4 yrs I was miserable. My main reason for staying with him was because of the children. We moved for va to cali. I am from va. once we moved to cali I started to see the eal him. It seemed like everytime I got pregnant thats when things would be the worst.but after each child once I got a job he would seem to be somewhat happy.. He would be so direspectful to me.he would tell me I am not good enough.I would tell me I didnt deserve anything.I started to believe him.This was so unlike me to loose my confidents. calling me all kinds of names.I was hurt.we would talk about divorce often then we would come to an agreement then BOOm!!!! from nowhere things would change. It seem everytime I thought we were on the same page it would do or say something that would just hurt me.then it would be my fault.I got pregenant with my last child my son and here we go. my libra started cheating. we he started he say he couldnt stop. he gave me herepes while I was pregnant with my son he also gave me chylamidia. he palyed the games. I tried to give him his time but it was killing me Ithought I deserved it because I had cheated on him 3yrs earlier.He thought that i should have just let him be because even tho he was cheating He was still paying all the bills.
cheers starfish, i definately hope so!