If you could get your virginity back.....
hehe, My veus is in cap and my north node? I belive. Im a cap at heart it seems.
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oh my God!!!! this blog is great. I have been married to a libra man for 4 yrs. we are now separated we have been for a year now. We have 3 small children.I am really excited about fininding this blog. I am not really in the whole signs thing but everytime I read a blog or message about a libra man I really think that this is my ex you ladies speak of.. I think to my self i wonder where they live is this the women thats is sleeping with my ex. I know so typpical of a virgo to have those thoughts lol. Ok. I met my ex Libra in aug 03 and we married in oct 03. It was fast. I was really young I was 20 (virgo) and he was 24(libra).up until we got married I was so excited about being with him. then when we moved in together it changed I started to want more of an connection and I was not getting that. 3 months after we married he went to iraq everything went down hill from there.I cheated.please dont judge me for I have lived to regret that. my libra man found out about it and he decided to work it out (so he says). I tried everything to prove to this man that I was sorry but nothing worked.I knew in my heart I would never cheat again.But a pointcame that I would just couldnt make him happy. we stayed married for another 4 yrs I was miserable. My main reason for staying with him was because of the children. We moved for va to cali. I am from va. once we moved to cali I started to see the eal him. It seemed like everytime I got pregnant thats when things would be the worst.but after each child once I got a job he would seem to be somewhat happy.. He would be so direspectful to me.he would tell me I am not good enough.I would tell me I didnt deserve anything.I started to believe him.This was so unlike me to loose my confidents. calling me all kinds of names.I was hurt.we would talk about divorce often then we would come to an agreement then BOOm!!!! from nowhere things would change. It seem everytime I thought we were on the same page it would do or say something that would just hurt me.then it would be my fault.I got pregenant with my last child my son and here we go. my libra started cheating. we he started he say he couldnt stop. he gave me herepes while I was pregnant with my son he also gave me chylamidia. he palyed the games. I tried to give him his time but it was killing me Ithought I deserved it because I had cheated on him 3yrs earlier.He thought that i should have just let him be because even tho he was cheating He was still paying all the bills.
cheers starfish, i definately hope so!
They keep being jekyll & hyde .. the secret is what GeminiFox does .. you're suppose to just smile and fill them full of kisses and hugs, and tell them and the whole world, "I adore you, I adore him"
Then he's satisfied that no matter how much of an ass he is, that you will honour and adore him ... his temper tantrums should wain to just a minimal after that.
Alls he really wants is to be center of your attention ... your world only turns because he is the king of it .. show him that at all times, and he will be happy.
good luck
Then he's satisfied that no matter how much of an ass he is, that you will honour and adore him ... his temper tantrums should wain to just a minimal after that.
Alls he really wants is to be center of your attention ... your world only turns because he is the king of it .. show him that at all times, and he will be happy.
good luck
Mata Hari said: "i shall say zis only vonce."
You have no idea how much you helped me understand some things. I have two Scorpio males. One just left, after a long night of passionate sex that ended this morning. We argued, he got dress and left so he's mad again.
History: Platonic for 3yrs (w/a long break in there). Sex the first time Feb 29th. Right after I asked where did he see our friendship going, he freaked out. I tried communicating. He totally pulled away. I let him be.
It was the best sex I've ever had, never wanted it to stop. So, having the house to myself wanted to be with the best and text him, he came over. Awesome as usual. Me being me, I started screwing with him annoyingly with the "I love you, do you love me" stuff. I know he has feelings for me, he told me the first night we made love and then shut his mouth to anything else, which is when the pulling back began but I didn't get that until the out-of-presence communication failed. Anyway, I was hoping to get the Scorp to reveal feelings. He is a homebody, anti-socialite like myself. We could belong to each other only no worries. That's what I see as perfect, apparently he doesn't.
Second Scorpio, young guy 25 (I'm 32). I fancy and think he fancies me. I want a relationship with him but because he's so Laboratory Sexy I know he's really popular with women. I don't want to fight that battle. However, it's been over a month and I dream of being with him really strong.
History: Saw him on a personals site. Peeped his profile and he mine. He's looking for his soul mate, someone family oriented, to build his life with. Perplexed as to why HE hasn't found her.
Found him on MySpace, sent him a message. He sent Friend's request and we've messaged on there a handful of times. Two weeks ago I suggested we meet and go for a drive to get to know each other, he said it sounded nice, asked when. I told him it's up to him and gave my number. It's been 10 days and he hasn't called. He has peeped my personals ad twice. Once before I updated it again and once after. I figure being on his radar is a good thing so I haven't peeped at his profile again so it doesn't clock me as having done so. Besides I have his Myspace page. 
Mata Hari, taught me that silence after disagreement is a bad sign (1st Scorpio) but that silence and opportunity to let the Scorpio think on his feelings for me and my giving him this space to do so is a good thing.
You have no idea how much you helped me understand some things. I have two Scorpio males. One just left, after a long night of passionate sex that ended this morning. We argued, he got dress and left so he's mad again.
History: Platonic for 3yrs (w/a long break in there). Sex the first time Feb 29th. Right after I asked where did he see our friendship going, he freaked out. I tried communicating. He totally pulled away. I let him be.
It was the best sex I've ever had, never wanted it to stop. So, having the house to myself wanted to be with the best and text him, he came over. Awesome as usual. Me being me, I started screwing with him annoyingly with the "I love you, do you love me" stuff.
I know he has feelings for me, he told me the first night we made love and then shut his mouth to anything else, which is when the pulling back began but I didn't get that until the out-of-presence communication failed. Anyway, I was hoping to get the Scorp to reveal feelings. He is a homebody, anti-socialite like myself. We could belong to each other only no worries. That's what I see as perfect, apparently he doesn't. Second Scorpio, young guy 25 (I'm 32). I fancy and think he fancies me. I want a relationship with him but because he's so Laboratory Sexy I know he's really popular with women. I don't want to fight that battle. However, it's been over a month and I dream of being with him really strong.
History: Saw him on a personals site. Peeped his profile and he mine. He's looking for his soul mate, someone family oriented, to build his life with. Perplexed as to why HE hasn't found her.
Found him on MySpace, sent him a message. He sent Friend's request and we've messaged on there a handful of times. Two weeks ago I suggested we meet and go for a drive to get to know each other, he said it sounded nice, asked when. I told him it's up to him and gave my number. It's been 10 days and he hasn't called. He has peeped my personals ad twice. Once before I updated it again and once after. I figure being on his radar is a good thing so I haven't peeped at his profile again so it doesn't clock me as having done so. Besides I have his Myspace page. Mata Hari, taught me that silence after disagreement is a bad sign (1st Scorpio) but that silence and opportunity to let the Scorpio think on his feelings for me and my giving him this space to do so is a good thing.
lol
littlelibra81 said: "I am very confused by all of this, I mean is there something wrong with me?? Maybe I am doing something wrong since I seem to scare men away from me for just being me."
I feel the same way, How much earth do you have in your chart? I am curious if that may be the key to why. I push men away often by "just being me". They all agree, I'm beautiful, smart, nice, fun, yadda-yadda... but when I take that as "You're perfect for me" then they pull away as if they're saying "Hey, yes all of that is true, but I didn't say that's what I wanted".
Men can be so stinky.
Another DXP'er once brought it to my attention that some men know that a woman they want to be with is the perfect girl for him but that they size her up to see how she fairs against certain things such as the ability to cheat on him. I really believe a man would not move forard because they think a woman might stray based on how close to a 10 she ranks.
Nevertheless, don't worry about (ooh just got dejavu) what it is about you that makes men pull away. There are some smart and strong men out here who can handle us in all of our many aspects. Knows a good thing when he sees it and won't let it get away. Like you stated, he is in a LDR (in under a week) with another Libra and plans to be single for life. I think that speaks volumes about his insecurity and only feeling safe when someone is at a distance. It may be a while before he is able to trust that you are not going to let "love make a fool of him" (song verse). Just be patient. It's amazing who a Scorpio will be with and the reasoning behind it. They do follow their hearts at times but man it takes a minute. Hold in there girl.
I feel the same way, How much earth do you have in your chart? I am curious if that may be the key to why. I push men away often by "just being me". They all agree, I'm beautiful, smart, nice, fun, yadda-yadda... but when I take that as "You're perfect for me" then they pull away as if they're saying "Hey, yes all of that is true, but I didn't say that's what I wanted".
Men can be so stinky.Another DXP'er once brought it to my attention that some men know that a woman they want to be with is the perfect girl for him but that they size her up to see how she fairs against certain things such as the ability to cheat on him. I really believe a man would not move forard because they think a woman might stray based on how close to a 10 she ranks.
Nevertheless, don't worry about (ooh just got dejavu) what it is about you that makes men pull away. There are some smart and strong men out here who can handle us in all of our many aspects. Knows a good thing when he sees it and won't let it get away. Like you stated, he is in a LDR (in under a week) with another Libra and plans to be single for life. I think that speaks volumes about his insecurity and only feeling safe when someone is at a distance. It may be a while before he is able to trust that you are not going to let "love make a fool of him" (song verse). Just be patient. It's amazing who a Scorpio will be with and the reasoning behind it. They do follow their hearts at times but man it takes a minute. Hold in there girl.
P-Angel, I missed you.
littlelibra81 said: "Just dropping him is going to be so hard for me, especially when I don't get attached to people like this very easily or often."
I really don't think you should. I am about 6yrs older than you but I've learned in my many conquests that you don't kill a good thing. Sure, he may not be where you want him to be RIGHT NOW... but heck those feelings are good feelings, just take a break or sit back and relax and watch this play out, and believe me it will. Then be the safety net that Scorpios rely on when they feel their world is filled with people they can't trust.
*****
littlelibra81 said: "Don't come crying to me when you get hurt by your ridiculous actions."
I see you haven't done your Scorpio homework. You'll never know if he got hurt. NEVER!!!!
I really don't think you should. I am about 6yrs older than you but I've learned in my many conquests
that you don't kill a good thing. Sure, he may not be where you want him to be RIGHT NOW... but heck those feelings are good feelings, just take a break or sit back and relax and watch this play out, and believe me it will. Then be the safety net that Scorpios rely on when they feel their world is filled with people they can't trust. *****
littlelibra81 said: "Don't come crying to me when you get hurt by your ridiculous actions."
I see you haven't done your Scorpio homework.
You'll never know if he got hurt. NEVER!!!!he tought because he was paying bills I should just be cool. he was always acting confused about wheter he still wanted to be married. I mean if u saw us in the streets you would have thought we were the happiest couple. I hated that. I was a wreck. but he seemed to have it all together. we would go back and fourth. he would tell me he cared about me but he just was not there. He said he it was not about me. he said it was him. so I told him to get counseling but he wouldnt. I didnt help the sitution by always lashing out at him. I was sooo hurt I didnt know what else to do. Itold him if he couldnt make a choice then he needed to leave but he never would leave.I was on an emotional roller coaster. it was like I was bi polar.I saw thru his phone he was at it again but he would tell me he didnt know what he wanted. So I saw that he was not going to make his mind up . so I pushed for him to send me back to va. I had a 4yr old a 1yr old and a 8 week old.. I went on an air plane all alone. he did make sure all my expenses were paid. we I got to va I moved straight into an apartment. he paid for everything. and he still does pay for his finacial obligation. but he still plays these game. At 1st when I moved here I was not talking to him Iwould text everynow and then but I was done. but then he started saying things like I dont talk to him anymore and he tries to talk to me but I dont. So I begin to chat with him. that was the worst because I fell back into it. He came to visit in jan 08 and I let him stay at my house. everything went well I didnt nag. I just let things flow. he stayed for 2weeks about a wek in2 his stay he started texting me stuff about us . Now I didnt start this convo. he wold tell me what if he changed. and just a lot of b.s. I fell n2 it once again. He said I had given him something to hope for and we would build from that I agreed. he went back to cali and we talked and talked I felt like we were connecting again. but then I started checking his my space and he was talking to women. I couldnt do it. I could not believe he was serious to think he could build with me and still talk to other women. Just another time I think we are on the same page and he does something to change it. he agreed that we would stay married for finances he is in the army . He said he would help me out well I am in school. but now that has just recently changed .. now I am to the point where I am just drained. Ilove him but I dont want him. I tired of c=goin