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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
So I get this email from the roommate yesterday requesting that he and I talk. Turns out that he hates the fact that I help myself to walking through my fiance's front door instead of knocking. My fiance' knows when I'm coming over; I didn't realize I had to clear it with the roommate. Also turns out that he will "accommodate" me when I am at my roommate's house. WTF...accommodate? I have spent the last 9 months accepting and respecing him despite him being a total asshole to me and I'm so lucky as to get accommodate...His tone was so condescending and hateful. It was one thing for me to gripe about him and not understand why he hated me before, but he's now dead to me. I know that sounds harsh, but I've tried very hard in the last several months to try to include him in things we do and include him with dinner, etc. I'm done trying after our discussing. My fiance' asked him to try to find a resolution in our tension; he instead too the opportunity to point a lot of fingers at me for things I had no knowledge of. His intent was not to resolve, but rather to accuse.
**Stepping down from Soap Box**