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Oct 08, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 705 · Topics: 18
oddball73 said: "just be single for a while. Find out who you are again"
Thanks for your insight. I actually am single, have been single all of my life. Occasionally getting to know men does not make me "un"single. No man nor my experiences with being with men has ever interfered with any other areas of my life. If being single for a while and finding myself again is for the hopes of me finding my happily ever after, I will pass. I'm not interested in anything long term as far as working towards it.
I have no intentions of putting time or dedicating my life to becoming a Michelle McKinney-Hammond or Juanita Bynum. I'm not perfett, but no one is. NO ONE! And, I am not all screwed up in the head as everyone wants to believe, perhaps by you all's judgmental standards but not by my own or that of my family's, friends or co-workers.
I enjoy coming here, discussing zodiacs and relationships, I don't come here for head shrinking, what you see is what you right now get. I will evolve naturally or at least in my own pace, not through a consensus need among my peers. I'm not trying to sound ungrateful. But, if my releasing the things that goes on in my head/life/heart upsets anyone, it's not intentional. I'm just purging.