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May 12, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 682 · Topics: 23
I was married to a Gemini and we were together for five years in total. He had a lot of Gemini - Sun, moon, venus, mars and I'm Leo Sun, moon venus, mars. There was an instant attraction and we fell in love very quickly. We were married within 10 months. Too fast in fact because I was so in love I failed to see what was there all along. He was self-centred beyong belief. He was horribly selfish with money - spent all of mine whilst shovelling his away in a secret bank account with his widowed old mother. Even told me once that I should only flush the loo after several No. 1's or after a No. 2 because I waste water!!!!! He was compulsively organised - I could write a book on his wardrobe, car, cupboards etc. - he even had mental checklists when locking the car...window, handbrake, window, lights....
And then the obsession with me - I couldn't even go to the hairdresser on my own!!! This obsession eventually earned him a court restraint once the divorce went through! He would take the Bible out of his wardrobe on a weekly basis and make me swear on it that I'm faithful - when that got too much I told him to do the same thing - he couldn't. Turned out he'd had two brief flings.
But none of this came close to the MIND-GAMES. A master of mind-games. Mind-games that have you in tears every morning of every day.
So yes I hear Geminis and Leos are a good match but personally I beg to differ. There were many similarities in my relationship before him - also a Gemini.
I could never mutilate my soul like that again - I completely side-step Gemini men now. Gemini females - BBF!! Love them!