Taurus bf confusing me!

Posted by saggurl88

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend Craig for a year and this problem seems to be bothering me more and more, rather than getting better.

I met him when I was 20 and he was actually the first relationship I have ever had. He, on the other hand, has had a number of relationships in the past, and began seeing one of them when he was 17. Craig is now 24 and says that I am the one and that he would like to spend his life with me but I can't stop thinking about him having been with his exes and can't seem to get over it. Knowing that he has been so intimate with people, some of which he didn't even really know very well, sometimes makes me even think I might be happier if I left him. For me sex is something extremely intimate and having never been with anyone else myself makes me wonder whether I can accept his past and move on.

I try and talk to him about it but he says to stop being silly as he doesn't think about them anymore and that he loves me.

What makes things worse is that Craig still sees one of his exes, since after they were in a relationship, they became friends and shared a flat together. This other guy was apparently very jealous of me though because he still had feelings for Craig, who no longer felt anything for him. But once I was looking at some of Craig’s photos on his laptop and found rather intimate photos of them from when they were together. I asked Craig about it and told him it made me unhappy that he still had these photos but he told me that he didn't want to erase his past like that and delete them.

I trust that nothing is going on, but I don't know if I can get over the fact that Craig has been with other people in the past. I want to live my life with him and I love him, but don't know if I can be truly happy. I have already read loads of blogs and gossip sites about getting over your partner's exes, but none of them seem to help. I think the main reason is that Craig is the only person I have been with, and for me sex is something I couldn't do unless I was in love, while some of the times Craig has just done it to 'have fun'.

I would be very grateful for any advice you may have that could help me to move on.

Posted by poeticseraphim

Isn't it weird how you are attracted to the moon in a sign but not the sun in a sign???

I wonder why.

Posted by snowballer

Posted by SagInTheSun898

I hope you don't take it personally. It sounds like he has issues with drugs and sex you could of been anyone and I bet it would end the exact same.

You deserve a functioning adult

I think so too but it's like abandoning a puppy who is staring at you from the window while you're driving off.

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Posted by snowballer

Posted by Romz-

Posted by snowballer

Posted by SagInTheSun898

I hope you don't take it personally. It sounds like he has issues with drugs and sex you could of been anyone and I bet it would end the exact same.

You deserve a functioning adult

I think so too but it's like abandoning a puppy who is staring at you from the window while you're driving off.

🤨 so you’re idealizing toxic relationship dependant on drugs and clingy behaviour to pull at your heart strings?

Lol 😂 what kind of lonely person feels like they’re driving away from a lost cute puppy, when in reality they’re escaping a narcissistic meth head that cheats on them.

This lonely person 😢

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Posted by tiziani

Wouldn't be the same without Rom blowing things out of proportion

Isn't this great

the band back together

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Romz-

Posted by tiziani

Wouldn't be the same without Rom blowing things out of proportion

Isn't this great

the band back together

😎

Here let me take a crack at Leeb advice

“When the meth floats, so do the dreams....sometimes ya gotta just dream of floating and then you’ll become aligned with his chakra”

= 1000 likes, 30 reposts, 40+ quotes of adoration

let's be real, we all know the "it sounds like your ex was a narcissist" is the low-hanging fruit response on this site

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