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OP, you seem to have a problem setting up proper personal boundaries with this person. Are you the same with other friends?
I don't know of any rational-minded person who would readily agree to be a 3rd wheel and go along with someone to meet their fuckbuddy.
I don't know of any rational-minded person who would readily agree to be a 3rd wheel and go along with someone to meet their fuckbuddy.
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Fellow Cancer moons, how is this affecting you?
I have had a crazy restless day, battling feelings of insecurity, worry, anxiety and of course very crazy mood swings have given me headaches. Then I decided to cook, and now I'm as chill as fukn ice. Hahaha
What's your observation?
Placements : Cancer ASC 3°. Leo Sun 22.55°, Cancer Moon 11.30°
Ps: I have Sun, Mercury and Jupiter right smack in my 7th right now. My hubby and I don't know what is happening to us. I feel so crazy.
I have had a crazy restless day, battling feelings of insecurity, worry, anxiety and of course very crazy mood swings have given me headaches. Then I decided to cook, and now I'm as chill as fukn ice. Hahaha
What's your observation?
Placements : Cancer ASC 3°. Leo Sun 22.55°, Cancer Moon 11.30°
Ps: I have Sun, Mercury and Jupiter right smack in my 7th right now. My hubby and I don't know what is happening to us. I feel so crazy.
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Posted by DMVLoL
2 kids by 2 different women IS NONCOMMITAL ENERGY.
Repeat.
2 kids by 2 different women is NONCOMMITTAL ENERGY.
He doesnt know what he wants or how to be committed. But he does know how to enter into arrangements with women AND bear children. Of which he is not with any of the childrens mothers.
All he knows how to create is single mothers!!!
I was going to end my comment with two kids by two different women would have been a no from me... but then again, any man with kids was a no for me. Just personal preference.
Spot on DMV.
Posted by LpowellI think if his style of relationship with the mother of his kid is not something that works for you then the only thing you can do is change the fella as he isn't going to change his relationship with the mother of his kid.
Agent P911, exactly what I needed. To clarify, the grey area is a teacher dating a parent. It’s not exactly welcomed, and my older daughter, who is a senior, wasn’t thrilled about it because of the gossip. I do 100% see what you’re saying and your point makes things much clearer now.
I will say, he was very up front about being a private person and taking things slow, so I was willing to overlook what I didn’t like because I felt like he was being honest. Hindsight. I was introduced to his friends and we did go out, just not often.
Tiziani I appreciate your perspective too. This may be a temporary situation where he has to get his thoughts and feelings together, but I’m not holding my breath.
It was concerning when he said he didn't know if he wanted to be with his ex. I mean, you know when you don't wanna be with your ex!
How old are you guys? Over 40 I would think,and he doesn't know what he wants, after two kids, and dating you for a year.
What's his chart? He doesn't sound like he's an Aries Venus!
Posted by LostinmyMind11Still waiting.....
I prayed you'd give me $ 10k. I'm still waiting....
We will know it's not true if I don't get my money...
Posted by DMVThis!!!!
2 kids by 2 different women IS NONCOMMITAL ENERGY.
Repeat.
2 kids by 2 different women is NONCOMMITTAL ENERGY.
He doesnt know what he wants or how to be committed. But he does know how to enter into arrangements with women AND bear children. Of which he is not with any of the childrens mothers.
All he knows how to create is single mothers!!!
Additionally OP, this man is NOT the one for you. Not in any way, shape or form.
'Struggle love' is for the needy birds 🙄 Move on. Too much confusion in one damn post about one simple man. Do better. Get better. As slow as this "taurus" moved, you could've had potential matches on standby lol
Women should NEVER focus on just one man ESPECIALLY in the very beginning. We ARE THE PRIZE. Period.
Please leave this confused, dishonest man alone and GET your life 💙
I actually feel fine. Nothing is going on in my life at the moment that's affecting me. Life is ok, things are good. Work is plenty. My moon is in my 10th house, so I'm always just staying busy with work.
I miss a few people that aren't in my life anymore but whatever, I have no control over it. So I'm just falling back and letting go.
I have had a few past people come back like it's retrograde though. They must be in their feelings as well.
I miss a few people that aren't in my life anymore but whatever, I have no control over it. So I'm just falling back and letting go.
I have had a few past people come back like it's retrograde though. They must be in their feelings as well.
The first full moon and lunar eclipse of the new decade is all set to take place on January 10, 2020. Since it's occurring in Cancer and Mercury, it will enable us to dig deep into our hearts and bring out the most intense emotions to the fore. Communication and empathy will be the ruling factors of our characters and we are most likely to be more vulnerable and open than we have been.
With Cancer in the spotlight, it is safe to submit that relationships, intimacy, bonding, and, family ties are likely to get attention here. Also, Mercury will play a role in making us more vocal about our thoughts and desires. We will start communicating in a more open and lucid way which will enhance transparency in relationships and eliminate all spaces of doubts and apprehensions.
While it is said to have an impact on all signs, there are three specific signs that will be affected by the first full moon and lunar eclipse of the year. Cancer will, of course, experience a significant impact during this time. Other signs that are known to be communicative, expressive, and artistic may also notice a remarkable depth and intensification in their innate qualities which could, in turn, make them more in touch with themselves and things beyond.
Looks like it will affect Cancer, Aries, and Geminis the most
https://her.womenworking.com/january-2020-full-moon-lunar-eclipse-three-signs-will-be-most-affected-by-it
With Cancer in the spotlight, it is safe to submit that relationships, intimacy, bonding, and, family ties are likely to get attention here. Also, Mercury will play a role in making us more vocal about our thoughts and desires. We will start communicating in a more open and lucid way which will enhance transparency in relationships and eliminate all spaces of doubts and apprehensions.
While it is said to have an impact on all signs, there are three specific signs that will be affected by the first full moon and lunar eclipse of the year. Cancer will, of course, experience a significant impact during this time. Other signs that are known to be communicative, expressive, and artistic may also notice a remarkable depth and intensification in their innate qualities which could, in turn, make them more in touch with themselves and things beyond.
Looks like it will affect Cancer, Aries, and Geminis the most
https://her.womenworking.com/january-2020-full-moon-lunar-eclipse-three-signs-will-be-most-affected-by-it
Posted by goldrockett
Just want to know your story. Progress. I've been with my taurus guy for over a year now. Its been a rollercoaster. He would break up with me EVERYTIME things got a bit challenging. It was so annoying. He just wasn't and still isn't good with communicating when it comes to things that might be bothering me. Confrontation if you will. He just gets in this defensive way , sarcasm , he can be the biggest ahole. But when we're good we're great. He goes out of his way to make sure I'm happy. He buys me flowers all the time. We talk all the time and see each other all the time. I just hate how things are when they're bad bc they can be horrible and he's much more stubborn than me. He doesn't like to take owenership for things he does wrong. He doesn't like to apologize. Me on the other hand , I'm the opposite. But like I said , when things are good they're great. Sometimes I have to ignore him though when he's being an ahole or turn down going to spend the night bc I just don't need him thinking its ok. He I feel like is an ahole purposely , like he knows what to do to get under my skin and will push all those buttons. Idk why , myself as a Taurus would never.
Hes an April Taurus and I'm a May Taurus. Just want to know some of you guys' experiences if anyone is currently with one. I really care for mine and hope one day to marry. But I can see this being a long wait , he's got kids , a lot of priorities with stability and a baby mother thats a problem causer that he doesn't want me to cross paths with even though one day we will have to bc he feels its not going to be pleasant and he doesn't want to deal with whatever bs she may bring forward from she and I meeting. I guess he's trying to avoid it but I'm like you can't forever.
I have a lot of things to day about this. I'll start with that I'm always so hopeful for this match to work out (bull and bull) and I'm always rooting for the Taurus male in general. Unfortunately, I always read such cringy and terrible things about them and it is truly disheartening that in fact they can be such aholes. With that being said, I have no idea why mine seems so evolved and how we can get along so seemlessly. Maybe I'm just as much of ahole? Idk.
My relationship with my bull hasn't always been easy and I can tell you why that is. I use to be very "expectant". I expected him to act a certain way, and do things and say things that I thought were completely logical. "Why can't I see you every night?" I "expect" an extravagant over the top love 2 weeks into us getting to know each other (eh, shudder at the immaturity on my behalf). With the help of a lot of people here (most @jeane) I realized the error of my ways. I didn't see him for who "HE" was, and instead my idealized version of him.
Luckily for me, my boyfriend never one time said he wanted to break up. I would panic and say "we should just break up, because I don't treat you the way you deserve yadda yadda yadda". One day about 6 months into our relationship he said " G, you're the one always trying to leave. And I'm still here just trying to make it work".
Basically from there forward I have learned to communicate and work together as a team and as jeane once said your partner is your Ally not your enemy. Or something like that.
I had to do a lot of changing and growing up. With his help. And vise versa. We really do compliment each other and everyday are becoming better versions of ourselves.
Anywho what am I saying? Idk I ramble. But I think maybe you and your partner need to start truly looking at each other for who they are. Have a little grace and understanding, communicate even if he shuts down, communicate in a caring way. I do agree he sounds immature and unevolved but you also sound older than I and my mate (30/28) so it sounds like he won't change easily, if at all. Try not to anger, give yourself time and space if you do anger.
You are a little general in your comment. He is "an asshole, gets under my skin"...but how?
My feelings about this relationship right now aren't great, but I also dont think it's doomed. I think y'all can still work on it and make it work.
Also as a Taurus I know I can push...and with a male bull, it is almost IMPOSSIBLE to move them, unless they want it. I just give playful little remearks now to try and ease my bull into the right direction....
I wish I could give you more advice and tell you a fool proof plan, but like I said, idk why we work.