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Hi, I have written here before, 2-3 years ago about the same Aqua girl. I am Taurus.
A little background: we know eachother for 5 years, co-workers. Friends (only at work) for a year and a half, then I diverced my ex wife, Aqua got interested, flirts for half a year, sex one time, then the madness started. She would dissapear, come back and so on. Rarely actually dated. Texted much. She had hurt me at times. This went for a year. I was in love with her, but couldnt do anything about it. She said she is not ready for a relationship, and that I am not ready myself (after my divorce). So 2 years ago I ended things, texting her everything that I felt for her and wished her all the best in life. In the meantime I am in another relationship, changed my life for good. Me and Aqua seldom talked at work, about work most of the time.
Until end of November. We were at the office, talking casual this time, about our lives, like 2 old friends. After that she started texting more and more, getting personal, flirting more. A month ago she drove me to the airport and things happened in her car (not sex, but not far from it). From that point on, things really changed to the point that we were talking daily, texting all the time, saying very personal secrets, saying all the time that she misses me, that she wants to see me. She has been very consistent with her feelings for a month. This is one thing that I asked her in the beggining.
I have told her about my new life since the beggining - my relationship and the fact that I live with my current girl and with her daughter at my place. Aqua was reluctant at first, of course, because she had other guys in the past in the same situation and things never worked out in her favour. But nontheless, she dived in. She would initiate the conversations most of the times, making efforts to see me, saying she is in love and then that she loves me. We had sex at her place a few times, spend 2 times almost 24h togheter. Everything was amazing. She would say sometimes that we are meant to be and that we should be togheter and that she doesnt want to continue like this, being the mistress.
Bear in mind that this happened between around December 12th, until 2 days ago - first week we were both in business trips, second week - Christmas, then she left for NYE with her daughter. Then another short vacation. Yesterday was her first day at actual work, a short business trip, a very intensive one. Yesterday was the first day that she was not as before, not so present and not so sentimental as before. Yes, I admit, I dont like it, just because I remembered her "dissapearences" from 2-3 years ago.
So, what do you think?
A little background: we know eachother for 5 years, co-workers. Friends (only at work) for a year and a half, then I diverced my ex wife, Aqua got interested, flirts for half a year, sex one time, then the madness started. She would dissapear, come back and so on. Rarely actually dated. Texted much. She had hurt me at times. This went for a year. I was in love with her, but couldnt do anything about it. She said she is not ready for a relationship, and that I am not ready myself (after my divorce). So 2 years ago I ended things, texting her everything that I felt for her and wished her all the best in life. In the meantime I am in another relationship, changed my life for good. Me and Aqua seldom talked at work, about work most of the time.
Until end of November. We were at the office, talking casual this time, about our lives, like 2 old friends. After that she started texting more and more, getting personal, flirting more. A month ago she drove me to the airport and things happened in her car (not sex, but not far from it). From that point on, things really changed to the point that we were talking daily, texting all the time, saying very personal secrets, saying all the time that she misses me, that she wants to see me. She has been very consistent with her feelings for a month. This is one thing that I asked her in the beggining.
I have told her about my new life since the beggining - my relationship and the fact that I live with my current girl and with her daughter at my place. Aqua was reluctant at first, of course, because she had other guys in the past in the same situation and things never worked out in her favour. But nontheless, she dived in. She would initiate the conversations most of the times, making efforts to see me, saying she is in love and then that she loves me. We had sex at her place a few times, spend 2 times almost 24h togheter. Everything was amazing. She would say sometimes that we are meant to be and that we should be togheter and that she doesnt want to continue like this, being the mistress.
Bear in mind that this happened between around December 12th, until 2 days ago - first week we were both in business trips, second week - Christmas, then she left for NYE with her daughter. Then another short vacation. Yesterday was her first day at actual work, a short business trip, a very intensive one. Yesterday was the first day that she was not as before, not so present and not so sentimental as before. Yes, I admit, I dont like it, just because I remembered her "dissapearences" from 2-3 years ago.
So, what do you think?
She says that she wants to be with me, to live togheter, to have 2 kids (!!). That she wants a family and I am perfect and 'the one' etc etc. She would rarely say that she finds it hard to live with someone (being single, or just casual for the past 10 years) and that she doesnt like people 'invading' her place. But I could tell that she liked me there and we both felt very natural. I really felt her like she is in love. Until 2 days ago. I also felt a slight pressure from her to make up my mind about being with her or not. She was the love of my life. Now, we are in a very different situation from 3 years ago and I have my doubts.
I know, from my own experience (with her), that Aquas tend to back off at some point. How long, what should I do about it, I dont know
I know, from my own experience (with her), that Aquas tend to back off at some point. How long, what should I do about it, I dont know
Btw you are compeering her by how she was in the beginning. She behaved that way because she thought you were not ready to have a relationship. Now she is in a different place and she can see that you can. She doesn’t want to be your lover. She wants to be your partner. Why are you doubting her and making her pay for what she thought it was true?
I got with a sun scorp & I have vis. Just made a post about how awful he was and how do I tell him I don’t wanna talk to him ever again lol
Just talked with her over the phone. Very casual, quite dettached. But still into me. She says: what are we going to do? Coz if we stay like this, you sharing me, I will probably share you too. And that she doesnt want to pressure me, but in my mind this is pressure ) She felt me that I wasnt quite myself today, told her that I am just tired, but she feels me, just like I feel her all the time.
Anyway, we will see.
) She felt me that I wasnt quite myself today, told her that I am just tired, but she feels me, just like I feel her all the time. Anyway, we will see.
Posted by pisceswoman123As much as she was the woman I loved the most, she was also the one who hurted me the most 3 years ago. It was horrible for me back then. Because she kept telling me that she wants to be with me, but she can't - because she doesnt want a relationship and because I wasnt ready. And it became very confusing for me. Whenever she backs off like that, I remember those moments. Yes, now she seems to know what she wants, but things are different for me, I live under the same roof with someone, who is not perfect for me, its not exactly what I want in life (and I realize this now, after the Aqua reaperred in my life), but still, we are getting along very very well.
Btw you are compeering her by how she was in the beginning. She behaved that way because she thought you were not ready to have a relationship. Now she is in a different place and she can see that you can. She doesn’t want to be your lover. She wants to be your partner. Why are you doubting her and making her pay for what she thought it was true?
Posted by BAVPosted by pisceswoman123
Btw you are compeering her by how she was in the beginning. She behaved that way because she thought you were not ready to have a relationship. Now she is in a different place and she can see that you can. She doesn’t want to be your lover. She wants to be your partner. Why are you doubting her and making her pay for what she thought it was true?
As much as she was the woman I loved the most, she was also the one who hurted me the most 3 years ago. It was horrible for me back then. Because she kept telling me that she wants to be with me, but she can't - because she doesnt want a relationship and because I wasnt ready. And it became very confusing for me. Whenever she backs off like that, I remember those moments. Yes, now she seems to know what she wants, but things are different for me, I live under the same roof with someone, who is not perfect for me, its not exactly what I want in life (and I realize this now, after the Aqua reaperred in my life), but still, we are getting along very very well.click to expand
I just read your other post too.
She is asking you if you are ready to get serious with her. She is being very honest and open about it.
But she made it clear too that she is not going to waste her time only with you if you don’t know what you want.
It’s your choice.
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“We are plain quiet folk and have no use for adventures. Nasty disturbing uncomfortable things! Make you late for dinner! I can’t think what anybody sees in them.”
“Well I've made up my mind, anyway. I want to see mountains again, Gandalf – mountains; and then find somewhere where I can rest. In peace and quiet, without a lot of relatives prying around, and string of confounded visitors hanging on the bell. I might find somewhere where I can finish my book. I have thought of a nice ending for it: and he lived happily ever after to the end of his days.”
“I don’t know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve.”
least corrupted by the ring, mostly coz he just uses it to GHOST ON FAMILY MEMBERS lol and have a smoke with gandalf instead like that's some serious virgo shit right there
“We are plain quiet folk and have no use for adventures. Nasty disturbing uncomfortable things! Make you late for dinner! I can’t think what anybody sees in them.”
“Well I've made up my mind, anyway. I want to see mountains again, Gandalf – mountains; and then find somewhere where I can rest. In peace and quiet, without a lot of relatives prying around, and string of confounded visitors hanging on the bell. I might find somewhere where I can finish my book. I have thought of a nice ending for it: and he lived happily ever after to the end of his days.”
“I don’t know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve.”
least corrupted by the ring, mostly coz he just uses it to GHOST ON FAMILY MEMBERS lol and have a smoke with gandalf instead like that's some serious virgo shit right there
Posted by Arielle83Lower expectations Less responsibilityPosted by 777
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"I live under the same roof with someone, who is not perfect for me, its not exactly what I want in life (and I realize this now, after the Aqua reappeared in my life), but still, we are getting along very very well."
"As much as she was the woman I loved the most, she was also the one who hurted me the most 3 years ago."
Taurus, you need to get of your comfy chair asap. If you hold on to it, one year down the line (and possibly long after) you will be grieving the loss of "the love of your life" and feel resentment toward the woman "under your roof" (who is probably intuitive enough to feel that something is missing, since you are not in love with her, and resent you back).
I'm the offspring of an Aqua/Taurus pairing, and their lifelong marriage was hot like hell (from a Pisces point of view) but my parents have been addicted to drama and to each other, and still are. Your modalities are fixed, meaning that once you made up your mind, you two will stick to it.
"As much as she was the woman I loved the most, she was also the one who hurted me the most 3 years ago."
Taurus, you need to get of your comfy chair asap. If you hold on to it, one year down the line (and possibly long after) you will be grieving the loss of "the love of your life" and feel resentment toward the woman "under your roof" (who is probably intuitive enough to feel that something is missing, since you are not in love with her, and resent you back).
I'm the offspring of an Aqua/Taurus pairing, and their lifelong marriage was hot like hell (from a Pisces point of view) but my parents have been addicted to drama and to each other, and still are. Your modalities are fixed, meaning that once you made up your mind, you two will stick to it.