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Posted by femme123Posted by nikkistarPosted by femme123Posted by nikkistar
This reminds me of some C rated Korean Drama I watch, but without some ghost taking over someone's body.
You got two late 30 year old women acting like they accomplished something in their lives.
One gets some weird ego boost from wearing goddy ass name brand stuff, while claiming to own a house her parents titled in her name. Which they only probably did because they are probably scamming some sort of governmental aid (i.e medi-cal, medicaid, section 8, EBT) and can't have the house under their name. With a dad that wears Gucci chanclas. Dropping financial stats on furniture
The other one supposedly jumps on married penis, that lives in some roach infested Section 8 apartment with her disabled mom.
Like @Arielle83 said, what the fuck kind of ass backwards Kardashian show did we just step into?
Sounds like a bunch of FOB Vietnamese living in Orange County trying to one up each other with Armani Xchange T-shirts from the discount bin. The fuck is this shit?
wait a minute.....did you just accused my parents of scamming the government? the post was about my verbally abusive friend by the way....oh wow some people are really messed up in the head...seems like you are the type that tries to come up with shit to accuse people without any evidence at all...you just harassed my own parents by the way by accusing them of doing illegal stuff for which they paid off the loan on their home...i actually shared about my experience to see if you guys had similar friends who were verbally abusive about stuff, not to get stupid comments accusing my parents of illegal stuff....this is absolutely messed up thing of you to do and shows the type of person you must be in life...that's just scary.
How can you be in your mid to late 30's and type, act, and talk like an 18 year old dumbass?
Inquiring minds would like to know.
Not one of us cares if your parents paid off a mortgage. Not one of us cares how many zeros go behind the cost of their furniture. Not one of us cares that you have whatever college degree you have. Not one of us cares about you playing one up with your poor af friend that fucks married penis.
It speaks more about YOU, when all you talk about is material objects and monetary value, that isn't even your own accomplishment.
Why don't you stop worrying about your broke friend, and start actually building your own fortune instead of riding the coat tails of your parents.
wow..i see there's tons of verbally abusive people here too...seems like some of you are really angry people here...this was my first and last post here.click to expand
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Posted by AntiphatesIs love bombing a form of being clingy? I'm basically trying to see if it will help me be more expressive. How would I know if I actually mean this stuff if I don't know the person? I think love bombing is a certain form of manipulation. Just the control thing is what I'm still thinking about. people are still in charge of their own feelings and emotions. I don't see how i can MAKE someone do or say anything based on nice words.Posted by saggurl88Posted by AntiphatesPosted by saggurl88Posted by AntiphatesPosted by saggurl88Posted by Antiphates
Okay, from what I'm reading I'd say it looks more like you are just switching from one form of control to another one.
In other words: stop making shit so complicated. If you feel like saying I love you just say it. It's not rocket science.
Love bombing isn’t about control or saying I love you. It’s basically ego boosting and saying whatever you want for a positive outcome.
I usually say nothing and basically get nothing.
There’s no control over it.
Whoever I’m currently talking to, I don’t love. This is my problem.
You are looking for a way to 100% get what you want aka control it in the form of taking whatver is necessary to ensure you get.
That is control. You don't want to control the other person as a whole. That's all, but it is still control.
Everyone wants what they want, yes I am selfish and only interested in want I want. Basically what i do isn't working so I'm trying a different technique that plenty seem to like.
Its a basic theory in evolution, not control!
There are many different ways to go about proving something, here are a few: direct proof, proof by contradiction, proof by induction.
I will be using induction to deduce my calculations and prove a theory!
I'm not sure that proof by induction can be applied to humans and their behaviour but I think that's just you trying to sidetrack anyway.
Point remains: it is still mostly control.
On top of that you seem relatively uninterested in knowing whether or not the reaction you get is genuine and not the product of your technique, which implies the risk that you no longer get what you want once you drop the role-playing.
I'm more curious about the outcome. How can love bombing be genuine? I thought it was something that only happened in the beginning of meeting someone. Where it's cute and funny because you don't actually know them. It just seems like sweet gestures.
All the toxic crap isn't something I'd be able to pull off. I just don't have much energy for all that upkeep.
My initial love bombing question was fairly innocent compared to some of what the others are thinking in this thread. I just want to say a bunch of nice stuff and not pull back and be a weirdo with feelings like I normally do. I want to "Fake it till I make it" It's more about me then the other person.
It's genuine when you really feel that way and do or say those things as a means to an end. In those cases it is still somewhat genuine in the sense of a genuine expression of yourself, which is the manpiulating person who does it as a means to remain in control and avoid showing weakness etc.
Again, if what you say is what you want to say in itself and think there is no "problem" with it and you can be as clingy as you want.click to expand
Posted by AnomalousPosted by saggurl88Posted by AnomalousPosted by saggurl88Posted by AnomalousPosted by saggurl88Posted by AnomalousPosted by Antiphates
Okay, from what I'm reading I'd say it looks more like you are just switching from one form of control to another one.
In other words: stop making shit so complicated. If you feel like saying I love you just say it. It's not rocket science.
I love you.
*Drops Mic*
Hello! He will cut you off talking to him like that! I already know!He isn't one to get love bombed LMAO
And I've quickly gathered these sentiments from this short spurt of words 😄
But I have something for you too 😁
LMAO Feel free to say it! I'm trying to learn how to do it. I never got the response that you got, so I guess it really doesn't work when women do it
But I'm all ears and open to suggestions!
Naww it's too early 😉
DAMMMIIIIITTTT!!!!!
Muahahahahahahahah! SUFFERRRRRRR! 🦹click to expand
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Posted by tizianiPosted by Arielle83Posted by tizianiPosted by Arielle83Posted by justagirlPosted by Arielle83
You can’t love bomb them the same way as women.
You have to target their dick/performance/physical strength/power.
Flattery and how you need them. Make it convenient for them and easy like they met the best submissive sex pest that has her own life.
Then be less available and hold back on the lust.
Then he’ll work harder and buy you things to draw you back.
Then flatter again and feed his ego.
Then later on be dismissive and accuse him of being jealous, but act like “it’s cute”
Then he starts questioning his feelings for you “maybe I am jealous, and she means something to me”
Then toy with him say shit like “oh I know that cock of yours loves me.”
Then he’ll be craving more, but you’re in power because you can flatter and be dismissive.
He’ll be confused
This sounds so gross and toxic 😧
Well men do it with “wow ive never thought of settling down until I met you”
“You are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met”
*forehead kisses*
“I’m going to take care of you for as long as you let me”
“Maybe you can cook for me after I ravage you with my mouth”
“How did I get so lucky to have met you”.
They target our need to be needed/desired/protected/accepted
Then they act like “I’m busy”
Then come back and forth, each time getting you to be the nurturer when you’re with them, so you get attached through thinking you are “loving” him.
But really he’s making you feel like a “woman” and feminine because he’s acting on our need to nurture.
Then they throw out a few sob stories so he has excuses to start acting distant because of past childhood trauma. She steps up and makes a decision to love him because he’s “lost” and “I have given himself something no one else has. He’s lucky to have met me”
“I have value”.
The protector stuff is more male ego than catering female ego
If you want to cater female ego you go straight to the vulnerable story times
Female ego loves to be seen as accepting
Yes but to barter that exchange for her to accept the sob story, you have to have already shown your heroic or protective side.
She wants to believe every strong man has a little boy inside him that needs to be hugged
She won’t get hot for a pushover man’s sob story.
Makes sense. I’ve just seen men get the same kind of openings by being emotionally distant.
Or negging.
It doesn’t always have to be the protector to get the ball rolling. But you’re right there is nothing like leaving things unsaid around her for the first year of courtship, then taking her home to witness you feeding and doting over your cats.
She tells herself “see, there is light within him.” And then it’s all taboo-breaking sex from there.click to expand
This is so true!!!! Distance actually works with men and women. At least this is gender neutral.
Posted by tizianiI wasn't necessarily talking about Reddit. that is strictly about supply and demand. I get that. I am gonna look it up. It's sad that people need these types of comforting words from other people to make them feel better within. But I understand that some people need people. I think introverts are the ones who are comfortable with just themselves.Posted by saggurl88Posted by tizianiPosted by saggurl88Posted by tiziani
I just... feel like I can be myself around you.
All those times we fought before, I didn’t mean it. It’s just you have such a hold over me.
We argue, we fight, we get mad at each other at times, but at the end of the day, you are my rock and I can't see myself without you. Life wouldn't be the same. We are soulmates, two halves of one heart. You are my world.
You see!!! I LOVE IT!!! And I love you! Hahaha!
This is FUCKING EASY!!
Boom.
And in all seriousness if you need a great way to let your hair down, just do voice acting roles on pillowtalkaudio on reddit
It is literally men and women writing this and asking to hear it said back as role play.
Oh really? Thanks. I'll try and find it on reddit
Honestly saying even that had me laughing hysterically walking around like the joker!
Who would seriously believe this crap when you don't know a person. I don't get how this type of thing works on people.
I guess it depends on your pov.
If I’m doing it purely to work someone then I can understand being cynical about it.
But personally I think catering to someone I’m genuinely interested is part of the package.
On reddit I do it because I just wanted to live out my 90s soap opera actor fantasy. And apparently it helps them sleep. It’s a cut and dry exchange with no expectations attached.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPDid he pick you up? And isn't that a typical Pisces guy with the flakiness?Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by Jade_Alexander
Well ask my libra ex
Last night I was a hateful narcissist who ignores his boundaries that has done nothing but hurt him
Today I was the beautiful love of his life that he wants to be with
Awesome approach to mindfucking someone
Love bombing isn't toxic like this, there isn't negative words associated with it, At least I think. If anything it gets attention because people miss it once it's gone.
i don't see anything wrong with love bombing. aries sun/pisces venus did this to me and though it didn't work out in the end, got nothing negative to say about the whole experience.
don't like it when people only like me when they get to find out more about me.
got a date with a pisces sun later but it's weird how he's online 10 mins ago and didn't message me.
now i have space to overthink and consider ghosting *sighs*
EDIT: nvrmind it's fine, he's picking me up 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well glad it ended up working out!
Damn I stay online and never message people. I didn’t know that was a problem 😩😬
maybe i should ghost on this guy
he's coming off real flakey, even for meclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88he keeps going back and forthPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by Jade_Alexander
Well ask my libra ex
Last night I was a hateful narcissist who ignores his boundaries that has done nothing but hurt him
Today I was the beautiful love of his life that he wants to be with
Awesome approach to mindfucking someone
Love bombing isn't toxic like this, there isn't negative words associated with it, At least I think. If anything it gets attention because people miss it once it's gone.
i don't see anything wrong with love bombing. aries sun/pisces venus did this to me and though it didn't work out in the end, got nothing negative to say about the whole experience.
don't like it when people only like me when they get to find out more about me.
got a date with a pisces sun later but it's weird how he's online 10 mins ago and didn't message me.
now i have space to overthink and consider ghosting *sighs*
EDIT: nvrmind it's fine, he's picking me up 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well glad it ended up working out!
Damn I stay online and never message people. I didn’t know that was a problem 😩😬
maybe i should ghost on this guy
he's coming off real flakey, even for me
Did he pick you up? And isn't that a typical Pisces guy with the flakiness?click to expand
i'm trying to give him a way out by asking him if maybe we should move it some other day or time
but he keeps pushing yet changes his mind again
i wonder what mercury this guy is coz he completely misinterprets me
4 episodes and counting
Some moments are super boring at times but generally I'm satisfied.
Me and bf got an inside joke about the show
He also plays theme song on a guitar, love it lol
Some moments are super boring at times but generally I'm satisfied.
Me and bf got an inside joke about the show
He also plays theme song on a guitar, love it lol
Posted by saggurl88Shit that's a nice pic, but is it worth a thousand words 🤔Posted by AnomalousPosted by saggurl88Posted by AnomalousPosted by saggurl88Posted by AnomalousPosted by saggurl88Posted by AnomalousPosted by Antiphates
Okay, from what I'm reading I'd say it looks more like you are just switching from one form of control to another one.
In other words: stop making shit so complicated. If you feel like saying I love you just say it. It's not rocket science.
I love you.
*Drops Mic*
Hello! He will cut you off talking to him like that! I already know!
And I've quickly gathered these sentiments from this short spurt of words 😄
But I have something for you too 😁
LMAO Feel free to say it! I'm trying to learn how to do it. I never got the response that you got, so I guess it really doesn't work when women do it
But I'm all ears and open to suggestions!
Naww it's too early 😉
DAMMMIIIIITTTT!!!!!
Muahahahahahahahah! SUFFERRRRRRR! 🦹click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPP"I'm trying to give him a way out by asking him if maybe we should move it some other day or time"Posted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88Posted by Jade_Alexander
Well ask my libra ex
Last night I was a hateful narcissist who ignores his boundaries that has done nothing but hurt him
Today I was the beautiful love of his life that he wants to be with
Awesome approach to mindfucking someone
Love bombing isn't toxic like this, there isn't negative words associated with it, At least I think. If anything it gets attention because people miss it once it's gone.
i don't see anything wrong with love bombing. aries sun/pisces venus did this to me and though it didn't work out in the end, got nothing negative to say about the whole experience.
don't like it when people only like me when they get to find out more about me.
got a date with a pisces sun later but it's weird how he's online 10 mins ago and didn't message me.
now i have space to overthink and consider ghosting *sighs*
EDIT: nvrmind it's fine, he's picking me up 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well glad it ended up working out!
Damn I stay online and never message people. I didn’t know that was a problem 😩😬
maybe i should ghost on this guy
he's coming off real flakey, even for me
Did he pick you up? And isn't that a typical Pisces guy with the flakiness?
he keeps going back and forth
i'm trying to give him a way out by asking him if maybe we should move it some other day or time
but he keeps pushing yet changes his mind again
i wonder what mercury this guy is coz he completely misinterprets meclick to expand
Is this what's happening when a Virgo suggests this!?????? I had no CLUE!!! I thought they did it because THEY were trying to back out. I usually end up agreeing to it and not pushing the issue, then not contacting again until I hear back since they changed the plans. Oops