p.s. i gave the background of the situation of our living conditions since the issue for her was just that...and you twisted that into me talking about material things ? lol i guess i should not have given any background info....her issue was my living condition, hence the explanation of how our lives are arranged and then i went further with the story of what she tells me etc....you guys seem really angry people here and my bad for even posting and asking for a friendly advice in terms of whether u guys encounter verbal abuse from friends and from the first comment on all I get is angry responses directed AT me when it is the friend who keeps harassing me etc as explained...some bitter people here who use the opportunity to either call names, accused my parents of doing illegal crap etc...im just shocked how angry, rude and tactless you guys are...just because u respond it doesn't give you the right to be so rude and insensitive to someone who has said nothing rude to you. So many angry people...
Idiot.
All the backstory you needed to give was, we come from different economical life style s. She is financially less comfortable than I am.
Two simple sentences, that allowed the audience to understand she is not as financially stable as you are. Instead, you spend the majority of your post in an ego driven ramble about how you were deeded a 750,000 home, with furniture that is 20,000. And additional financial statistics of every object around you. All the while, also giving us a monetary amount of money she spends on her small little apartment.
And then you call us tactless? Please, take your ego driven, materialistic bravado elsewhere. Where people actually will lick the bottom of your foot for all those zeros you need to boast about "to give background on".
This entire thread is nothing but you adding drivel that means nothing to asking about your shitty friend. We don't even need the background of your financial status to say your friend has obvious insecurity issues that she makes bad decisions with men, and further has to negate everyone else around her in order to build herself up. But if you are so prone to tell complete strangers a balance sheet of your economical fortitude, then it is likely you do so in person as well.
And again, learn to form actual sentences. You type like a 16 year old. Worry about that more.
p.s. i gave the background of the situation of our living conditions since the issue for her was just that...and you twisted that into me talking about material things ? lol i guess i should not have given any background info....her issue was my living condition, hence the explanation of how our lives are arranged and then i went further with the story of what she tells me etc....you guys seem really angry people here and my bad for even posting and asking for a friendly advice in terms of whether u guys encounter verbal abuse from friends and from the first comment on all I get is angry responses directed AT me when it is the friend who keeps harassing me etc as explained...some bitter people here who use the opportunity to either call names, accused my parents of doing illegal crap etc...im just shocked how angry, rude and tactless you guys are...just because u respond it doesn't give you the right to be so rude and insensitive to someone who has said nothing rude to you. So many angry people...
Idiot.
All the backstory you needed to give was, we come from different economical life style s. She is financially less comfortable than I am.
Two simple sentences, that allowed the audience to understand she is not as financially stable as you are. Instead, you send the majority of your post in an ego driven ramble about how you were deeded a 750,000 home, with furniture that is 20,000. And additional financial statistics of every object around you. All the while, also giving us a monetary amount of money she spends on her small little apartment.
And then you call us tactless? Please, take your ego driven, materialistic bravado elsewhere. Where people actually will lick the bottom of your foot for all those zeros you need to boast about "to give background on".
This entire thread is nothing but you adding drivel that means nothing to asking about your shitty friend. We don't even need the background of your financial status to say your friend has obvious insecurity issues that she makes bad decisions with men, and further has to negate everyone else around her in order to build herself up. But if you are so prone to tell complete strangers a balance sheet of your economical fortitude, then it is likely you do so in person as well.
And again, learn to form actual sentences. You type like a 16 year old. Worry about that more.
p.s. i gave the background of the situation of our living conditions since the issue for her was just that...and you twisted that into me talking about material things ? lol i guess i should not have given any background info....her issue was my living condition, hence the explanation of how our lives are arranged and then i went further with the story of what she tells me etc....you guys seem really angry people here and my bad for even posting and asking for a friendly advice in terms of whether u guys encounter verbal abuse from friends and from the first comment on all I get is angry responses directed AT me when it is the friend who keeps harassing me etc as explained...some bitter people here who use the opportunity to either call names, accused my parents of doing illegal crap etc...im just shocked how angry, rude and tactless you guys are...just because u respond it doesn't give you the right to be so rude and insensitive to someone who has said nothing rude to you. So many angry people...
Idiot.
All the backstory you needed to give was, we come from different economical life style s. She is financially less comfortable than I am.
Two simple sentences, that allowed the audience to understand she is not as financially stable as you are. Instead, you psend the majority of your post in an ego driven ramble about how you were deeded a 750,000 home, with furniture that is 20,000. And additional financial statistics of every object around you. All the while, also giving us a monetary amount of money she spends on her small little apartment.
And then you call us tactless? Please, take your ego driven, materialistic bravado elsewhere. Where people actually will lick the bottom of your foot for all those zeros you need to boast about "to give background on".
This entire thread is nothing but you adding drivel that means nothing to asking about your shitty friend. We don't even need the background of your financial status to say your friend has obvious insecurity issues that she makes bad decisions with men, and further has to negate everyone else around her in order to build herself up. But if you are so prone to tell complete strangers a balance sheet of your economical fortitude, then it is likely you do so in person as well.
And again, learn to form actual sentences. You type like a 16 year old. Worry about that more.
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All those times we fought before, I didn’t mean it. It’s just you have such a hold over me.
We argue, we fight, we get mad at each other at times, but at the end of the day, you are my rock and I can't see myself without you. Life wouldn't be the same. We are soulmates, two halves of one heart. You are my world.
You see!!! I LOVE IT!!! And I love you! Hahaha!
This is FUCKING EASY!!
Boom.
And in all seriousness if you need a great way to let your hair down, just do voice acting roles on pillowtalkaudio on reddit
It is literally men and women writing this and asking to hear it said back as role play.
Oh really? Thanks. I'll try and find it on reddit
Honestly saying even that had me laughing hysterically walking around like the joker!
Who would seriously believe this crap when you don't know a person. I don't get how this type of thing works on people.
I guess it depends on your pov.
If I’m doing it purely to work someone then I can understand being cynical about it.
But personally I think catering to someone I’m genuinely interested is part of the package.
On reddit I do it because I just wanted to live out my 90s soap opera actor fantasy. And apparently it helps them sleep. It’s a cut and dry exchange with no expectations attached.
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I wasn't necessarily talking about Reddit. that is strictly about supply and demand. I get that. I am gonna look it up. It's sad that people need these types of comforting words from other people to make them feel better within. But I understand that some people need people. I think introverts are the ones who are comfortable with just themselves.
Last night I was a hateful narcissist who ignores his boundaries that has done nothing but hurt him
Today I was the beautiful love of his life that he wants to be with
Awesome approach to mindfucking someone
Love bombing isn't toxic like this, there isn't negative words associated with it, At least I think. If anything it gets attention because people miss it once it's gone.
i don't see anything wrong with love bombing. aries sun/pisces venus did this to me and though it didn't work out in the end, got nothing negative to say about the whole experience.
don't like it when people only like me when they get to find out more about me.
got a date with a pisces sun later but it's weird how he's online 10 mins ago and didn't message me.
now i have space to overthink and consider ghosting *sighs*
EDIT: nvrmind it's fine, he's picking me up 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well glad it ended up working out!
Damn I stay online and never message people. I didn’t know that was a problem 😩😬
maybe i should ghost on this guy
he's coming off real flakey, even for me
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Did he pick you up? And isn't that a typical Pisces guy with the flakiness?
Last night I was a hateful narcissist who ignores his boundaries that has done nothing but hurt him
Today I was the beautiful love of his life that he wants to be with
Awesome approach to mindfucking someone
Love bombing isn't toxic like this, there isn't negative words associated with it, At least I think. If anything it gets attention because people miss it once it's gone.
i don't see anything wrong with love bombing. aries sun/pisces venus did this to me and though it didn't work out in the end, got nothing negative to say about the whole experience.
don't like it when people only like me when they get to find out more about me.
got a date with a pisces sun later but it's weird how he's online 10 mins ago and didn't message me.
now i have space to overthink and consider ghosting *sighs*
EDIT: nvrmind it's fine, he's picking me up 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well glad it ended up working out!
Damn I stay online and never message people. I didn’t know that was a problem 😩😬
maybe i should ghost on this guy
he's coming off real flakey, even for me
Did he pick you up? And isn't that a typical Pisces guy with the flakiness?
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he keeps going back and forth
i'm trying to give him a way out by asking him if maybe we should move it some other day or time
but he keeps pushing yet changes his mind again
i wonder what mercury this guy is coz he completely misinterprets me
Last night I was a hateful narcissist who ignores his boundaries that has done nothing but hurt him
Today I was the beautiful love of his life that he wants to be with
Awesome approach to mindfucking someone
Love bombing isn't toxic like this, there isn't negative words associated with it, At least I think. If anything it gets attention because people miss it once it's gone.
i don't see anything wrong with love bombing. aries sun/pisces venus did this to me and though it didn't work out in the end, got nothing negative to say about the whole experience.
don't like it when people only like me when they get to find out more about me.
got a date with a pisces sun later but it's weird how he's online 10 mins ago and didn't message me.
now i have space to overthink and consider ghosting *sighs*
EDIT: nvrmind it's fine, he's picking me up 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well glad it ended up working out!
Damn I stay online and never message people. I didn’t know that was a problem 😩😬
maybe i should ghost on this guy
he's coming off real flakey, even for me
Did he pick you up? And isn't that a typical Pisces guy with the flakiness?
he keeps going back and forth
i'm trying to give him a way out by asking him if maybe we should move it some other day or time
but he keeps pushing yet changes his mind again
i wonder what mercury this guy is coz he completely misinterprets me
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"I'm trying to give him a way out by asking him if maybe we should move it some other day or time"
Is this what's happening when a Virgo suggests this!?????? I had no CLUE!!! I thought they did it because THEY were trying to back out. I usually end up agreeing to it and not pushing the issue, then not contacting again until I hear back since they changed the plans. Oops
Last night I was a hateful narcissist who ignores his boundaries that has done nothing but hurt him
Today I was the beautiful love of his life that he wants to be with
Awesome approach to mindfucking someone
Love bombing isn't toxic like this, there isn't negative words associated with it, At least I think. If anything it gets attention because people miss it once it's gone.
i don't see anything wrong with love bombing. aries sun/pisces venus did this to me and though it didn't work out in the end, got nothing negative to say about the whole experience.
don't like it when people only like me when they get to find out more about me.
got a date with a pisces sun later but it's weird how he's online 10 mins ago and didn't message me.
now i have space to overthink and consider ghosting *sighs*
EDIT: nvrmind it's fine, he's picking me up 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Well glad it ended up working out!
Damn I stay online and never message people. I didn’t know that was a problem 😩😬
maybe i should ghost on this guy
he's coming off real flakey, even for me
Did he pick you up? And isn't that a typical Pisces guy with the flakiness?
he keeps going back and forth
i'm trying to give him a way out by asking him if maybe we should move it some other day or time
but he keeps pushing yet changes his mind again
i wonder what mercury this guy is coz he completely misinterprets me
"I'm trying to give him a way out by asking him if maybe we should move it some other day or time"
Is this what's happening when a Virgo suggests this!?????? I had no CLUE!!! I thought they did it because THEY were trying to back out. I usually end up agreeing to it and not pushing the issue, then not contacting again until I hear back since they changed the plans. Oops
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when I feel like they're unsure, I always offer: 'hey, maybe some other time?'
it is NOT a rejection
girl if you act like a flake or a dead fish, we're mutable enough to offer a rescheduling but this guy must've thought it was an ultimatum from me
damn this why it's easier with Aries sun or Aries moon men
Sometimes when I am so busy and stressed out because of the workload, to me, I tend to put off social life and will get back when I finished my tasks. I will never forget the person I like, tho I may be busy but I am constantly thinking about the person. maybe you can talk to him, letting him know your concerns?
I have messaged him and called him with no response. There has been no response in a text message and when I called him it went to voicemail. So there it is I suppose. It hurt of course, but the sting is less and less each day. I am a sincere and genuine person and I don't believe in masking my true feelings for someone I like. I think constantly keeping a guard up is pointless, you have to let someone in at some point. Isn't that what life is about? I don't know why he distanced himself from me, I can honestly say that I did not see that coming, when we had talked about future plans for the following weekend. If he is going through something, then he should focus on that. I wish he the best, truly.