best friends who are coworkers
Part of being a good employee is learning how to play nice with annoying coworkers. Rise above.
Don't waste energy trying to 'destroy' them.
Spend your energy on smoozing their boss so the next promotion is yours. Then the tables are turned and you can ride their asses WHILE getting paid to do so.
Don't waste energy trying to 'destroy' them.
Spend your energy on smoozing their boss so the next promotion is yours. Then the tables are turned and you can ride their asses WHILE getting paid to do so.
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Posted by Sassysailorscout
Just
Found
Out !!
The girl that's friends with the love of my life is a Libra. Whaaaatttttttttt !! She is one of reasons for the breakup. The main reason I'm trying to stay away.. Wow my mind is blown !! Ughh
I've always been suspicious. Fuck fuck fuck !
Sorry to the nice libras but In hate mode !
Isn’t this a copy of your question last week? How many times are you repeating this question in your own head, how many times a day?
You must realise, this isn’t healthy. Find a hobby to focus your energy on, go to the gym.
You must realise, this isn’t healthy. Find a hobby to focus your energy on, go to the gym.
Posted by RollergirlOrci think I could def. work out. need some extra work but, no one is perfect
What are your experiences with this odd couple (M libra, F cap)
I was married to a Virgo man for years...good guy, great dad but I do not envy the women he dates. He actually gave up because he was hurting them...
Posted by trina__louiseHe starts off keen and enthusiastic and then pulls back. He always seems to find something "not perfect enough" about them and then ends it...Posted by MyStarsShine
I was married to a Virgo man for years...good guy, great dad but I do not envy the women he dates. He actually gave up because he was hurting them...
What do you mean by this how did he hurt them? I’m so confused by all this. I’m more of a yes or no type person and he is obviously unsure or playing it safe or just taking it slow like he said but to me it’s confusing. I’m trying to determine if it’s worth it to give it some times or he is playing me although I don’t think he intentionally is. I just don’t want to let myself get hurt if it’s not worth it. I definitely feel HE is worth it but I also don’t know where his head is really at, as Virgo’s are so unclearclick to expand
Apologize like hydorah
Idk...we are weird fucking creatures.
He's giving an awful lot of time for someone who doesn't want a relationship and then gets his kid involved after only two months (I'll never understand this about parents). His words and actions don't really match but all you can do right now is take him at face value and ultimately it's up to you on if you want to invest anymore time into this.
We do however move super super slow and we're cautious...it's rare we jump all in. We like to be sure because we don't take love and relationships lightly. Once we are in it's usually for the long haul. Since he's been burned....he's gonna be extra cautious. I don't want to say this to get your hopes up but I do agree with Arielle on him saying if you find someone else to give you what you want then go for it is basically a test...see how fast you would run into the arms of someone else like his ex did due to his circumstances with work and the distance. I can see my own ass doing the same.
He's giving an awful lot of time for someone who doesn't want a relationship and then gets his kid involved after only two months (I'll never understand this about parents). His words and actions don't really match but all you can do right now is take him at face value and ultimately it's up to you on if you want to invest anymore time into this.
We do however move super super slow and we're cautious...it's rare we jump all in. We like to be sure because we don't take love and relationships lightly. Once we are in it's usually for the long haul. Since he's been burned....he's gonna be extra cautious. I don't want to say this to get your hopes up but I do agree with Arielle on him saying if you find someone else to give you what you want then go for it is basically a test...see how fast you would run into the arms of someone else like his ex did due to his circumstances with work and the distance. I can see my own ass doing the same.
Posted by SassysailorscoutNo, I didn't go over...not after he said I was acting like a crazy stalker, lol. I told him not to worry, I don't go where I'm not wanted. I think he was just acting like that because he was hurt and jealous, he has shown jealous tendencies before. He has been cheated on in his past relationships, but I've never given him anything to worry about.
Wait ... did you end up going over there and talking to him ?
Why did he not want you over !? *say my name *say my name *
If you accuse me of cheating my first thought is that you cheated or are a cheater.
What's his relationship with Baby Mom ?
Also maybe he was mad you were at the party without him. And was taking care of someone else.
I'm not a Taurus.. But I would get so upset possessive when my guy would "help" his female friends. So I would make sure to "help" my guy friends. *mirror* but my Venus is in Leo sooooooo ...
In my past relationship, my ex was never the jealous type. I had guy friends and he did not have a problem with that, so I'm not used to this kind of behavior. I guess I can see some of his POV, but if you feel that way, have a conversation about it instead of brooding like a child.
He didn't necessarily accuse me of cheating, but it implied it when he reacted the way he did. He knew I was at the party and did not have a problem with that, not until I said I was taking my friends husband home, a favor I was doing more so for my friend and not her drunk ass husband.
I think he has an overall good relationship with his ex, I mean they're civil, they def get along better now than when they were married. I knew him when he was married, they fought a lot. They tried counselling and attempted to make it work, but in the end they split.
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My boyfriend is Pisces sun, Leo moon with Aries rising. He's not like this at all. He's very complementive, he builds me up, encourages and inspires me.
He may not be meaning to control you in an abusive way, but it's likely already instilled in him and it could get worse the more comfortable he gets with you. You can express your concern in a gently way and see if he has the self awareness to try to curb it for you. If you choose to stay and put up with it granted he doesn't change, then your self-esteem and self-worth will likely deteriorate. To me his behavior is a red flag, and yes, toxic.
He may not be meaning to control you in an abusive way, but it's likely already instilled in him and it could get worse the more comfortable he gets with you. You can express your concern in a gently way and see if he has the self awareness to try to curb it for you. If you choose to stay and put up with it granted he doesn't change, then your self-esteem and self-worth will likely deteriorate. To me his behavior is a red flag, and yes, toxic.
I do not care for competition.
I "hope" (Sorta like passive aggression) she is impressed with me but try to pretend I'm not in competition with anyone.
If another male presents themselves and she is okay with that then I just step aside and fade back. I always pretend that if a person is interested in me that I shouldn't have to actively compete. If you like me you do. If you don't like me you don't regardless of my efforts.
I "hope" (Sorta like passive aggression) she is impressed with me but try to pretend I'm not in competition with anyone.
If another male presents themselves and she is okay with that then I just step aside and fade back. I always pretend that if a person is interested in me that I shouldn't have to actively compete. If you like me you do. If you don't like me you don't regardless of my efforts.