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May 08, 2017Comments: 480 · Posts: 3567 · Topics: 13
Okay. My advice is to not let him push you around. Telling you to have thicker skin is not nice, regardless of astrology. Maybe you can spend time doing things you enjoy by yourself? When he's ready, he'll come around... Is his moon in virgo too?
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Dec 27, 2011Comments: 1 · Posts: 1562 · Topics: 5
I'm certainly not suggesting that he is doing this purposely, but some controlling men...or women start out with innocent passive aggressive comments to test your boundaries and once they feel like they "have" you, it escalates. Just be extra aware of it and how he reacts to your concerns and how it may progress in the future.
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Dec 27, 2011Comments: 1 · Posts: 1562 · Topics: 5
And I'll add that when you do address it, pay close attention to how he responds; If he deflects or turns it back on you. Ex: you're making a big deal of it, you're taking it too personally, you're being too sensitive, I didn't mean it the way you're taking it, I'm sorry you feel that way, etc. That's a telling sign of a verbally and emotionally abusive person. A genuine person will take your feelings into account and be willing to accept fault and change their ways.
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Sep 30, 2019Comments: 1893 · Posts: 600 · Topics: 0
some are total attention addicts and will stop at nothing to get it
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As you must be aware, this was a group effort. I mean it wasn't just her it was him too. No one should come between 2 people unless one of those people allows it. If you voiced your objection he should have respected that and taken care of getting her out of his life no matter what. She wasn't just born and helpless. This is a practiced approach.