Sag pretty much dumped me last night
Posted by tizianiHow sweet! See, true love does exist.Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by tizianiPosted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Deedee75
He has read my message about 6 times, as recent as 4 minutes ago (I am sounding like a stalker!).
No reply but at least he is reading it.
how can you tell that he read it 6 times?
WhatsApp status
but i mean he could be getting other messages and being online for that reason...not particularly re-reading your msg, right?
It says how many times your status has been viewed. He is the only person I have on there.
oh so you post stuff on your status. I never use that.
I only communicate with him on there because sometimes our cell service is bad. Anything I post is only for him so it may be a photo or meme.
So i'm curious.... if you only post it on your status for him then why not just send it ot him directly? Rather than posting it on your status which I think has a 24hour expiry.
Burn all mobile phones.
lol can you imagine what it was like prior to cell phones? Oh yeah people just dated within their own vicinity.
Although, I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation... but a girl can't get a text back. So yeah burn the mobile phones!
" I did read about a love story that took place prior to the invention of planes where this person traveled I don't know how many days by boat to look for their loved one after years of separation..."
Even though planes existed in their heyday, that was literally how my father married my mother lolclick to expand
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Posted by Deedee75He didnt say anything because he didnt want to get stabbed
We weren't arguing or anything.
He said that he didn't like long distance. It's hard for both of us.
I asked what he was saying and he talked around it. I asked him why he would dump me after last week and not before?
He said it's not me. It's the distance and that he had a good time, a really really good time.
Then he had to go and would talk to me later. I said, "really? You drop a bomb and dump me by text and will talk to me later?"
Him: I really didn't drop a bomb. I didn't dump you.
Me: yeah, ya kind of did
No communication since. He is flying today
Do you have vday plans with him?
Who knows maybe him saying 'I hate long distance' was the precursor to opening the convo to a 'let's move in together/get married' vibes. But you killed the mood by saying your dumping me.
I have a feeling he'll be back.
Who knows maybe him saying 'I hate long distance' was the precursor to opening the convo to a 'let's move in together/get married' vibes. But you killed the mood by saying your dumping me.
I have a feeling he'll be back.
Posted by Deedee75You're actually on the same page.Posted by Undine
"He said that he didn't like long distance. It's hard for both of us."
He said he didn't like the long distance (between you). Honestly, do you...?
No....I hate every second of it.click to expand
Posted by Deedee75Try not to get too much in your head. Keep it calm cool and collected.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Deedee75Posted by PhoenixStorm
So maybe he was just thinking out loud saying that he didn’t like it, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s over. Did he actually say it’s over or was he just saying he doesn’t like the distance between you?
He didn't say it.
But by not reaching out later said a lot
But he's flying right? So he gets a pass. If a week goes by and he doesn't reach out then yeah... its over.
A long flight too and a busy work weekend.
We are a lot alike. He called me the female version of him. We get in a work zone.
He will fly back home on Monday.click to expand
If Tuesday rolls around and its crickets be like, so I guess you did dump me via phone call/text. Classy.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Do you have vday plans with him?
Who knows maybe him saying 'I hate long distance' was the precursor to opening the convo to a 'let's move in together/get married' vibes. But you killed the mood by saying your dumping me.
I have a feeling he'll be back.
Our next plans weren't until March.
We already covered the marriage/move in together stuff and had a plan. The distance was temporary and we knew it would be hard
Posted by Deedee75Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by Deedee75
I asked him why he would dump me after last week and not before?
He said it's not me. It's the distance and that he had a good time, a really really good time.
If this was the flow of the conversation I can kinda understand why you concluded that he was breaking up with you. So when you asked why he would dump you after last week, this was his response? But then afterward he says he didn’t dump you?
Were you actually together??
Yes. We both travel for work and met on the road about 6 months ago. Spent a week together and pretty much clicked. It is long distance for now but we do visit as much as possible and had plans of moving in together in 18 months. We knew the timeline from the beginning.
We were together last week for 5 days and had a great time.click to expand
Interesting im a sag and when I dated a sag I always missed him like crazy AFTER he would leave. He was the same way.
But we always talked about it. It wasnt a prelude to a breakup. It was just acknowledging our current feelings.
Then we would both go and focus on a hobby or a job and then reconnect.
Posted by virgal_perfectionist
I'm curious to know how did you two meet? What was he like then?
We met at our workplace. Before he switched jobs, i contacted him on social media. The first time i texted him he was kind of aloof and didn't bother replying me properly. So i let him be. After 2 months, he contacted me and since then we have been talking daily.
Funny thing is 2 days ago we talked for 4 hours straight and from next day onwards he is gone and i have left him alone too.
I am getting the feeling that maybe he felt overwhelmed or something like that you know!
Posted by Black-Mamba
Anyways just go out for drinks and get him drunk and take advantage.
😂
Posted by DMVPosted by Deedee75Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by Deedee75
I asked him why he would dump me after last week and not before?
He said it's not me. It's the distance and that he had a good time, a really really good time.
If this was the flow of the conversation I can kinda understand why you concluded that he was breaking up with you. So when you asked why he would dump you after last week, this was his response? But then afterward he says he didn’t dump you?
Were you actually together??
Yes. We both travel for work and met on the road about 6 months ago. Spent a week together and pretty much clicked. It is long distance for now but we do visit as much as possible and had plans of moving in together in 18 months. We knew the timeline from the beginning.
We were together last week for 5 days and had a great time.
Interesting im a sag and when I dated a sag I always missed him like crazy AFTER he would leave. He was the same way.
But we always talked about it. It wasnt a prelude to a breakup. It was just acknowledging our current feelings.
Then we would both go and focus on a hobby or a job and then reconnect.click to expand
This was by text. I may have misunderstood.
I don't know. I have to get in his head. He told me Monday that he loved me on a phone call and last week, in person.
Long distance is hard
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