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Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by ArilovesAquPosted by JamesWangPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by JamesWang
I am the same minus the work
then that's even worse
coz then he'd have no excuse to be doing this
but then again, if he didn't work so much.... we won't have this problem
Love language - giving gifts
Maybe yours is just different
It’s clearly physical touch lol...she’s counting the days
who doesn't?
but mostly it's just to annoy kittensclick to expand
Posted by ELIGABTry a fire one with earth Mars 😍🔥💥
I always feel this animalistic lust from earth men... lmaooo
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by ELIGAB
I always feel this animalistic lust from earth men... lmaooo
😍😍😍
Try a fire one with earth Mars 😍🔥💥click to expand
Posted by peachy06Posted by Pari23Posted by peachy06
Same. But I remember one, once, he wouldn't stop chasing me. He even tried to kiss me many times, eeeeew
what were your venus and mars sign and his venus and mars sign?
Mine :
Scorpio venus/Leo mars
His :
Sagittarius venus and marsclick to expand
Posted by Stensco21LmaooPosted by HearttofTopazPosted by lisabethur8Posted by HearttofTopaz
I don’t think I have ever met a Scorpio man. If I did I had no idea. I’ve always been curious tho lol
aren't there any in this forum?
Im sure there are but I meant face to face. I know they are said to have “a presence” about them LOL
Yea it's uncomfortable Energy for me. They will read you deep and call out your weaknessss in a group settingclick to expand
Posted by MyuMe84Well it’s right on track with mercury retrograde! The Virgo contacted me after 2 months of no contact from me. But I was also the one who cut him off with a text.Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyuMe84Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyuMe84Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyuMe84Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyuMe84Posted by SassysailorscoutPosted by MyuMe84Posted by Sassysailorscout
What's your signs ??
Do you need emotion and light heartedNess in a relationship ? Because he doesn't know what fun is. Well actually maybe a documentary or history book. Hahahahah 😄
Slow to warm. Going to take years. Encourage him and he can go far.
It is very interesting you should say that because it has already been a year. He keeps getting warm and retreating. But we have conversations that last hours and hours about Philosophy, ethics, religion, etc
He was lovely whenever we have met.
He does love historical books and biography, not so much fiction.
He has been going through a depressive episode though but he has told me he really likes me but is just struggling.
He has been in relationships before though but he told me they didn't say nice things about him and called him boring and boring at sex too.
So far from criticism of his lover he was critical of himself.
Encourage him how?!
Also sorry this site seems to post my messages twice. So I have to keep hiding them.
Umm like hype him up.. Your so great at this and you can do it !! Things that can stick in his head. Whatever his insecurity give him an affirmation...
Ask opinion/ advice ... do it and thank him profusely explain how he helped you.. Compliments and affection. A lot of it !!
Example ...I'm so lazy
... no your a hard worker ! You have done Xyz... don't be so hard on yourself ..
______ This salmon is dry.. no it's really tasty. So good yummy. Your such a good cook. Will you make this for me next time ?
Etc etc. ..
We seem critical but we can be very insecure because perfection is all we see.
But why dont they give in return?
I’ll give my opinion since I’m dating a Virgo with Virgo mercury, Venus, and Mars.
He likes how cold I am. He didn’t show me a lot of affection in the beginning but used to nag me for it in return. I mirror and it was a problem for him. But in the end I figured out that he actually likes my coldness and likes nagging me about it in hopes for me to change. This behavior is what keeps me uninterested in him long term.
I’m not cold when I love someone and I think if I started being affectionate he wouldn’t like it.
Edited to add - He completely changed once I cut him off and moved on. Now all I get is affection from him. But it ended up being too late because I’ve fallen for someone else.
I think you should withhold affection and let him work for it. Show indifference and don’t bring it up to him. He’ll come around after a while.
The Virgo that I like is the complete opposite. He only has a Virgo sun.
He needs affection and can’t get enough of it and I find myself being embarrassed by it, but forcing myself to do it, say it and show it. I prefer this because I am cold naturally and he’s pushing me out of my comfort zone and forcing me to be better. He’s making me work for him.
Charts really do make a difference.
He's barely even talking to me right now.
Not sure if I should just leave it.
You should. He knows you want a relationship, he says he’s not ready but he is still doing things that shows he’s supporting a possible one but you aren’t happy with this and want words, which actually mean nothing with out actions.
Pull back like he’s doing. Mirror him. You’ve had so much contact with him that he will miss you when you’re gone and it will kick him into gear for a chase.
You’re probably used to lots of communication since you just got out of a marriage. But you need the initial chase and push/ pull in the beginning, especially since he’s not ready. He’s a man and he needs a little jump start of what he’s about to lose.
Let him come to you now.
Neither of us have been married
Sorry. I might have got you confused with another user coming out of a 20 year relationship. My bad.
But I still think you should mirror him. Sometimes it takes a couple of days, sometimes it takes weeks but usually they always come back.
He has always been clear about liking me. He didn't want to drag me into his problems he said.
He was the last one to message me and ended it with a smiley emoji.
He said he found me magnetic from the start and that he felt a strong connection to me.
So what’s the problem then? If he was the last to text, why didn’t you text back?
I'm feeling an urge to text him and don't know if I should.
It has been two weeks. I started the last conversation which was short but cordial and he finished with a smiley emoji with pink cheeks.
Should I or not I wonder and what the hell am I going to sayclick to expand
Posted by ELIGAB🔥Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by ELIGAB
I always feel this animalistic lust from earth men... lmaooo
😍😍😍
Try a fire one with earth Mars 😍🔥💥
Omg, now that I think about it.. I had a very short fling with sag sun/aqua moon/ cap mars.. 💣💣💣 lolclick to expand
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