MEN? (Please respond too)
P-Angel said: "Does having confirmation change it? Does it provide any kind of benefit for a woman to actually "hear" the words, or would it just add more fuel to the fire?"
Actually, I just want to have a discussion with him about why he can't see that the road these women lead to goes nowhere. But, who am I to judge anyone else to advance my ownself.
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Thanks Moon, Klover and P-Angel for liking my thread.
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Klover_Fish said: "What's not natural is to harp on it and start to have self doubt."
I hope I'm not harping on it but I guess since I don't see the problem ending any time soon (not that it would) I just feel like it's still worth discussing.
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moon_eyes said: "If people always listened to what they thought then dont you think that there would be more harm in the world? "
Ooh, that's a scary thought. I always prefer to run things pass someone else (after I've torn it to pieces) because I want to know that my final decision is properly weighed and I can only get that satisfaction by listening to less biased opinions. So, good observation. In this case, I did figure my own opinion as to why but I really just needed to know that I wasn't viewing it from a selfish place.
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A thought, if no one ever spoke about their concerns, asked advice, others would rarely learn things because the only other way is to witness it and decipher it through self, and even then the person witnessing will probably want to talk about it with someone else to see what they thought. We speak because it's natural. Thank goodness!
Actually, I just want to have a discussion with him about why he can't see that the road these women lead to goes nowhere. But, who am I to judge anyone else to advance my ownself.
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Thanks Moon, Klover and P-Angel for liking my thread.
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Klover_Fish said: "What's not natural is to harp on it and start to have self doubt."
I hope I'm not harping on it but I guess since I don't see the problem ending any time soon (not that it would) I just feel like it's still worth discussing.
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moon_eyes said: "If people always listened to what they thought then dont you think that there would be more harm in the world? "
Ooh, that's a scary thought. I always prefer to run things pass someone else (after I've torn it to pieces) because I want to know that my final decision is properly weighed and I can only get that satisfaction by listening to less biased opinions. So, good observation. In this case, I did figure my own opinion as to why but I really just needed to know that I wasn't viewing it from a selfish place.
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A thought, if no one ever spoke about their concerns, asked advice, others would rarely learn things because the only other way is to witness it and decipher it through self, and even then the person witnessing will probably want to talk about it with someone else to see what they thought. We speak because it's natural. Thank goodness!