is this the right thing?

Posted by GODZ

I had my first zero at the age of nine,

I've been punished four hour because i run in the stairs,

I had been fired of my school because I went in short, lol that one literally broke me mentally for two years.

I had a top grade but school decided to erase it and put me in retake for no particular reason.

I understood like meritocracy is a legend because you can be the best if someone don't like you they can just put you down.

If you are in a system when an other human has to choose you, you'll have chance to be destroyed for no particular reason.

There is some rare field with military discipline where ppl has respect and don't destroy you.

But imo you shouldn't focus that much on your work, invest in renting an apartment because at the end it's only money who count.

Idk your situation but you and your husband can try to by one, then two it will probably took like 10 years but you'll get happy to have that safety and never receive order or get judging ever.

Plus the happiness that you'll have when you finished to redesign those house and see that first pay on your account gonna make you forget those useless promotion

Posted by GODZ

man its worst, once i was complementing a girl on her shoes and she was like. "ah yeah? ah let's have a chit chat together😋😘".


LET ME BREATHE

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

This usually means you've outgrown the current situation and you have to challenge yourself for bigger and better things.

I've been there.

Some people are comfortable with exactly where you are and end up stunting your growth.

Keep doing you, this is just part of this process.

Posted by ArilovesAqu

And I wanted to open up a dialogue and see where it goes. This is a mostly incoherent middle of the night thought so bare with me 🤣 I don’t even know where it’s going. Just thinking out loud.

I’ve been observing my coworkers for several years and I think there is a strange correlation between their choice of spouse and how they operate in the workplace.

Those with passive spouses treat colleagues like children. Less flexible to cooperation and working as a team, only wanting to do things their way because they think they know best.

Those who seem to treat their spouses as equal are more affable in general usually. They’re not as attached to certain outcomes. Is there resentment when you’re the sole decision maker in a relationship?

Obviously I’m not in anyone’s home and don’t see how they interact. I’m basing my opinions solely on how they speak about their spouses. A lot of people vent about their spouses now and then, sometimes just jokingly, but you can tell when there is a certain level of resentment.

I’m mostly wondering for myself. Does my relationship with my spouse play a role in how well I work as a team.

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Posted by besarlalluvia

Use your experience to sell yourself elsewhere. If that doesn't work then you're not as good as you think. Value yourself!!

Maybe that's what I need to come to grips with.

I'm not as good as I think.

My old boss told me that and I hesitated to believe her.

Shyt, maybe she was right.

I need a new profession.

Wrong. You are even better than you think. That is why they don't want you to move on. Mediocre management love people like you because you make their job easier.

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Posted by peachy06

Serve you right for leaving your ex gf for another woman. 👍🏼

The key point most people overlooked is precisely that. People you cheat on your partner with aka enablers ironically are also distrustful of the cheater. LOL. I don’t think she trusts you. If you can leave your girl for another woman you will do the same to her some day. There is nothing satisfying about “winning” such a person, especially for a guarded Aqua.

I had a Libra dude (go figure another Venusian who doesn’t know how to be single) who was willing to leave his gf for me and I ghosted him prior to him pulling the plug. I can’t stand people like that, let alone love them, who leave unhappy relationships until they find someone else. She doesn’t trust you and that’s why she’s inconsistent.

Did you entertain the Libra dude until he offered to pull the plug on his girlfriend and then decide he sucked? Cheating is cool but leaving the cheating situation is not?

I didn’t know he had a girlfriend. He came clean when he, in his head, made the decision to leave her. I was surprised to find that he had a gf and I’m the type of person who gets immediately repulsed by cheater. I immediately lost attraction for him and left the scene.

It wasnt like this. I told her from the start that I am with someone, she continued knowing the truth. After a month I told her that I am leaving my gf, independently of her (of the Aqua).

After 10 days of mostly no contact, I realized that SHE is the one who needs constant reassurance, that she is needy at times (Venus in Cap, mine in Gem). Texted her that I needed this time off to recalibrate myself and that I still love her. Her reply: I love you too, we should go outside the town on a weekend to rediscover ourselves coz we lost it a bit. In the meantime, she left the city because of the corona and texts me that she loves me from time to time. I tell her the same, but I am not sure how to proceed with her being away...

So, she has venus in Cap, I have it in Gem.. what do you make of it?

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Posted by Evilhunter

Timon - she broke up because she’s still in love win her ex

If she's inlove with her ex then I think you need to let her go. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't love you back.



May I ask what your sun and moon sign is? What's her moon sign?

Im Scorpio asc Capricorn and she’s libras born on 19/10

What her ex's placements?

You're probably plan B, she might hit you up if it doesn't work out with her ex, but that just my opinion.

Yes, I just now learnt about rebound relationships. I was her rebound. Now I understand everything. It’s all so clear to me now.

For now she has deleted my number and I am not messaging or calling her ass anymore. I feel used, so stupid to be falling for her. I don’t know why did she do this to me. It’s pissing me off!!!

I don't know about other Libras so I'm gonna speak for myself, water signs usually don't leave such an impact on me and it's usually very easy to move on from, you are loyal and loving but not what a Libra is looking for, I'm usually drawn to mental connection. But again that's just me.

Anyways you seem like you really cared for her and it's her loss.

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