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Posted by saggurl88ThanksPosted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by saggurl88
Are you asking about what signs are whiny, as women, for/to a man
Or
What sign, as a man, is less whiny?
The second question
I think Sag and Aquas aren’t too whiny.
Scorpio men aren’t either. They get their point across without being whiny.
Taurus just ignore but don’t really whine.click to expand
Posted by MikeNYNYCDefine healthy relationships?Posted by NadiakalidescopePosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by MikeNYNYCPosted by EvilhunterPosted by MikeNYNYC
If you don’t want to end up alone, then don’t end up alone. It’s in your hands.
Damn Mike you are so right
What’s your moon sign?
You know the funny thing is I can but can’t blame people who don’t want to be in relationships nowadays; relationships today have become so trashy and unfocused. People pair up to be business partners, people in relationships think fighting, nagging or teasing or mocking their lover in public is a sign that they care and are giving you their focus, the definition of what a man and a lady is today has gone down the drain, I mean healed the people
I come into contact with..if I had to see them longer than the time afforded to them during my work day? Yikes. But it’s important to build oneself up, foster positive perspectives of relationships and have that one person that helps you with their natural role in things.
I'm sure people did those same things back in the day. If it wasn't so complicated finding someone I myself would love to be happily in a relationship but we don't always get what we want, do we?
I think relationships hold a mirror up to us and show us who we really are, through our actions when faced with love. Healthy relationships are one of thee best growth device we have as people.click to expand
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnshe's under so much pressure he literally doesn't have the time to spare.Posted by jeanePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by jeanePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by jeanePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Is he in a senior position or is he just working that much because it’s his usual habit?
its his business.
That does make it difficult to work less. Fewer people to rely on plus more of an emotional investment in the business.
true but when is enough, enough?
Part of the problem is it’s also an ego investment for men in general to be doing well at work. He might feel if he steps back things could go wrong / he wouldn’t earn as much which could cause financial problems.
Maybe you could explore that with him if he seems receptive when complaining about work? In a non-judgemental tone you could ask about what he wants to achieve, what he thinks would happen if he worked less, etc.
There’s not really an easy solution to this one unfortunately.
worth a shot. i'll give it a try.
he said to me yesterday that as it is all he has ever done, if he stopped it would be like his life was a failure.
I take it he hasn’t got any hobbies working that number of hours. Maybe you could get him out to see friends/family, take him out to eat, to the cinema or something to try to change his focus.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunethe thing is, he is the only one who can get it done. either because he is the only one qualified to do so or his staff are fucking useless (but he has no time to find replacements). I've been brought in several times to help out. i don't mind but he pays people to do that sort of stuff.Posted by jeanePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Is he in a senior position or is he just working that much because it’s his usual habit?
its his business.
Ah ok so he has control issues/can’t delegate.
That’s a tough place to be in cause you feel like your the only one who can get it done.click to expand
Posted by sagaciouscorpi would but there just isn't the time. people depend on him to get the work done. so he works weekends, nights and early mornings because there just isn't enough time in the day to do it all. everything (family, friends, social life) takes a back seat to his workload.
I think they need to be pulled out of it. N don’t get mad he’ll answer work phones or not
Taking him hiking, beach, casino., do it once a month for even a weekend
Make it his new Routine slowly but surely
It will relax his mind
Posted by Undineit's madness to sit and watch isn't it?Posted by SkeletonPosted by Undine
I'm trying to convince my Taurus mother to take some basic precaution during the covid19 outbreak in Romania.
One one hand, she's anxious because of the outbreak and causing drama each time I phone home. Father is 76, has high blood pressure and is at high risk of dying!
On the other hand, she doesn't want to avoid crowded places, daily shopping and queues, or travelling by bus, for ONLY a bloody couple of months! She is not going to change ANY habit, but if she gets infected, it will be others fault (Italy, the government or my father's fault).
Oh, and she doesn't buy and eat canned food during a potential self isolating periode, and will NEVER do so! Yep mum, dead don't eat.
I have a question, does she also doing homemade food sealing thing to store it up?
In autumn, she makes some of the winter preserves every Romanian household does (roasted pepper and aubergines mash or pickled cabbage), but those are long finished. She won't buy any from the shop, since "they have added chemicals and give her cancer".click to expand
Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by jeanePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by jeanePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Is he in a senior position or is he just working that much because it’s his usual habit?
its his business.
Ah ok so he has control issues/can’t delegate.
That’s a tough place to be in cause you feel like your the only one who can get it done.
the thing is, he is the only one who can get it done. either because he is the only one qualified to do so or his staff are fucking useless (but he has no time to find replacements). I've been brought in several times to help out. i don't mind but he pays people to do that sort of stuff.
he's not so much of a feel sorry for himself but he vents. secretly i like it when he vents. i enjoy being the person he comes to. to me, that's my job.
the pressure is staggering and he doesn't want to let customers down but in doing so creates such an enormous burden for himself.
my exasperation comes because there seems to be no way out of this cycle for him. i'm certain there is a better life but he has to let go of this one first and he's reluctant to do so.
He needs to hire new people who are qualified. Maybe also u need to look at that “u need him “ in this cycle because u enjoy him coming to you.click to expand
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