Gemini’s do you need a lot of space ?
Posted by LadymaraladePosted by Winters12Posted by Ladymaralade
Nope. My Gemini ex of many moons ago was as clingy as hell.
How did you guys meet .
Blind date and it lasted 4 years. I have Jupiter in Gemini in 11th house. I also have 4 placements in 9th house and my 5 house of my chart is Sagittarius. So the gem and I got on very well but I found him to be too lazy and his Venus in cancer way tooooooo clingy! 🙂click to expand
Cool I’m assuming this is why it broke off doesn’t sound like a Gemini to be lazy usually they can’t stop moving.
Well My Sun is Sagittarius and my moon is Pieces my partners Sun is Gemini and moon Virgo .
She is not lazy but she also knows when to sit down she has a pretty good balance and this is why I love her so much because she is great in every way for me.
Leave Your Feedback
We'd love to hear your thoughts! If you're not logged in, you can still share your feedback below. Your input helps us improve the experience for everyone. To post your own content or join the conversation, please log in or create an account.
Related Messages
Do you think this will happen in the US?
Virgo/Pisces axis has been the whiniest in my experience so far which is super annoying to me as a Taurus. I rarely whine about anything bc I get shit done rather than waste time whining about it. I don’t have the energy for all that lol. I have to limit my fucks bc I have very few to give these days. I’m holding on to them for the really important things that may come down the line. Gemini, Libra and Scorpio have been the least whiny men I’ve known so far.
Posted by Black-MambaMe too, but then I would be in trouble. Too much good food at Whole Foods.Posted by Aria1
Target is having 25% off of most food items, plus 10% off storewide for RedCard holders.
So, grocery shopping!
I wish Whole Foods did thatclick to expand
Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by jeanePosted by sagaciouscorpPosted by jeanePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by jeanePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Is he in a senior position or is he just working that much because it’s his usual habit?
its his business.
Ah ok so he has control issues/can’t delegate.
That’s a tough place to be in cause you feel like your the only one who can get it done.
the thing is, he is the only one who can get it done. either because he is the only one qualified to do so or his staff are fucking useless (but he has no time to find replacements). I've been brought in several times to help out. i don't mind but he pays people to do that sort of stuff.
he's not so much of a feel sorry for himself but he vents. secretly i like it when he vents. i enjoy being the person he comes to. to me, that's my job.
the pressure is staggering and he doesn't want to let customers down but in doing so creates such an enormous burden for himself.
my exasperation comes because there seems to be no way out of this cycle for him. i'm certain there is a better life but he has to let go of this one first and he's reluctant to do so.
He needs to hire new people who are qualified. Maybe also u need to look at that “u need him “ in this cycle because u enjoy him coming to you.
i don't need him in this cycle. nothing would make me happier than for his life to improve. i want nothing but the very best for him and yeah, i could tell him all the things that i think are the solution but it goes back to my original point, how much does taurus have to endure before they start considering an alternate plan. lol, you're coming to the place i am at!
i do like him coming to me because it illustrates how important we are to each other. nothing more. there's nothing nefarious in that. if he'd ring me 5 times a day with great tales that would make me equally as happy.
I meaning Subconsciously and energeticallyclick to expand
i see. i know mareinfame suggested the same sort of thing but i've thought about that and i don't think it's the case.
i don't enjoy this. i really don't think i am making his life harder. i don't tell him what to do. he asks me what i think, i suggest things, try to show a potentially different way, he says i am right but he is stuck, afraid of the unknown and the different. i support, i listen but yeah, it exasperates me because i see and feel his suffering.
he comes to me and he is just exhausted. he juggles 50 things at once, inevitably makes mistakes, gets bollocked by customers, beats himself up over it. i listen. give encouragement. tell him he is doing the best he can. it's been going on for years. it's gotten much worse lately though. i worry he is going to collapse and die.
i don't know when he is going to say enough is enough. how much more is he willing to sacrifice to stay the course? this seems to me a taurus trait. this stubborn, show no weakness, never say die attitude.
Posted by 777😂😂 current Cap is soooo whiny.
cap
sag
that's it
Posted by AbbyNormalAries & Virgo for me actually. Lol
Virgo/Pisces axis has been the whiniest in my experience so far which is super annoying to me as a Taurus. I rarely whine about anything bc I get shit done rather than waste time whining about it. I don’t have the energy for all that lol. I have to limit my fucks bc I have very few to give these days. I’m holding on to them for the really important things that may come down the line. Gemini, Libra and Scorpio have been the least whiny men I’ve known so far.
Contingent upon their respective Venus placement, Taurus & Gem, I’d say.
Posted by MaddestofHattersexactly this. when i say he can stop at any time he says "but then i'll be letting my customers down."Posted by jeanePosted by sagaciouscorpPosted by jeanePosted by sagaciouscorpPosted by jeanePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by jeanePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Is he in a senior position or is he just working that much because it’s his usual habit?
its his business.
Ah ok so he has control issues/can’t delegate.
That’s a tough place to be in cause you feel like your the only one who can get it done.
the thing is, he is the only one who can get it done. either because he is the only one qualified to do so or his staff are fucking useless (but he has no time to find replacements). I've been brought in several times to help out. i don't mind but he pays people to do that sort of stuff.
he's not so much of a feel sorry for himself but he vents. secretly i like it when he vents. i enjoy being the person he comes to. to me, that's my job.
the pressure is staggering and he doesn't want to let customers down but in doing so creates such an enormous burden for himself.
my exasperation comes because there seems to be no way out of this cycle for him. i'm certain there is a better life but he has to let go of this one first and he's reluctant to do so.
He needs to hire new people who are qualified. Maybe also u need to look at that “u need him “ in this cycle because u enjoy him coming to you.
i don't need him in this cycle. nothing would make me happier than for his life to improve. i want nothing but the very best for him and yeah, i could tell him all the things that i think are the solution but it goes back to my original point, how much does taurus have to endure before they start considering an alternate plan. lol, you're coming to the place i am at!
i do like him coming to me because it illustrates how important we are to each other. nothing more. there's nothing nefarious in that. if he'd ring me 5 times a day with great tales that would make me equally as happy.
I meaning Subconsciously and energetically
i see. i know mareinfame suggested the same sort of thing but i've thought about that and i don't think it's the case.
i don't enjoy this. i really don't think i am making his life harder. i don't tell him what to do. he asks me what i think, i suggest things, try to show a potentially different way, he says i am right but he is stuck, afraid of the unknown and the different. i support, i listen but yeah, it exasperates me because i see and feel his suffering.
he comes to me and he is just exhausted. he juggles 50 things at once, inevitably makes mistakes, gets bollocked by customers, beats himself up over it. i listen. give encouragement. tell him he is doing the best he can. it's been going on for years. it's gotten much worse lately though. i worry he is going to collapse and die.
i don't know when he is going to say enough is enough. how much more is he willing to sacrifice to stay the course? this seems to me a taurus trait. this stubborn, show no weakness, never say die attitude.
Is there any part he can automate or outsource? Online automation changed everything for me. I had to get creative to make it work, but so worth it. I can relate to your guy. When everyone relies on you to get them on their way it's hard to bring the machine to a halt.click to expand
Posted by MareInfamei've never thought of involving myself in that way but it's a good thought.Posted by jeanePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by jeanePosted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Is he in a senior position or is he just working that much because it’s his usual habit?
its his business.
Ah ok so he has control issues/can’t delegate.
That’s a tough place to be in cause you feel like your the only one who can get it done.
the thing is, he is the only one who can get it done. either because he is the only one qualified to do so or his staff are fucking useless (but he has no time to find replacements). I've been brought in several times to help out. i don't mind but he pays people to do that sort of stuff.
he's not so much of a feel sorry for himself but he vents. secretly i like it when he vents. i enjoy being the person he comes to. to me, that's my job.
the pressure is staggering and he doesn't want to let customers down but in doing so creates such an enormous burden for himself.
my exasperation comes because there seems to be no way out of this cycle for him. i'm certain there is a better life but he has to let go of this one first and he's reluctant to do so.
Would you be qualified to help by looking for replacements, people apt to take on the load, other solutions to ease work load by automating a lot of the work?
All of that takes time. So I get his frustration.click to expand
i'm not qualified but it's definitely an idea that is worth spending some time considering. you've set the hares running.
Posted by sagaciouscorpNah, this concept of trusting in some vague hippie entity like the universe might work for a sag or scorp bt never for a taurus. His resistance points are valid, he will not move an inch if they are adressed in an empathetic way.
It’s his fear of losing security
Lack of trust in universe or higher power that it will provide if he lets go of his grip on it.
I saw this with an ex
All I can say is I’m showing him there are different kinds of wealth n although I don’t own as much i Iive like I do.
Mmm so how can we help him lossen that grip. Show him there are safety nets in place either support from loved ones,suppor employees ( as they want his success in turn more money for them too , faith in god , trust in people. It’s hard maybe the baby step is taking him on vacation n help him relax
I have a few thoughts on that because I am a taurus, can I pm you?