Posted by Dastard2020

You fucked everything up. You might as well fuck off and go on your merry way. And while you're it, pick up a grammar book to help you with that atrocious paragraph structure.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

......never choose a man over a 😻

Cats are forever. Men are mortal.

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Sexual trauma is no joke. If she shared that with you and you spread it, why should she ever trust you again?

I didn’t know what happened, I’m thinking about rape, i hope it wasn’t. But if it was, she’s must be really mentally strong to be this open. But on the other hand, i am a Fxxking overly sensitive mofo tried to care for her but went too far by assuming things. I always thought that it was my fault that night, my behaviors lead to the bad memories is true but i thought she was mad about it n i went to ask for help from her bff and spilled her T thinking they might be able to help but nope.

It doesn't have to be rape to be traumatic. Just having a bigger, stronger person force himself on you and having to feel the fear associated with losing control of your own body and not knowing what might happen to it, is enough.

You're more concerned about your own feelings than hers. That's coming through loud and clear. You want us to be "gentle" with you, but you were not gentle, and she is still not at the uppermost of your mind. You are.

First, im skinny n 5’8, she’s average n 5’4. I wasnt even forcing her. Im not even on her.

Im concerned about my feeling? Ok I’ll take that but I usually unconsciously pick up on other feelings so i didnt know if i was confuse by the feelings that i picked up( im still young, still learning, still growing) im trying to understand myself, see where im doing wrong to fix n learn from it.

Yes i did ask u guy to be gentle with my English grammar not what i ‘ve done.

I was explaining that it doesn't have to be a consummated rape to be traumatic. She told you what caused her reaction, but she shouldn't even need to do that. Simply telling you no should be enough. It's way out of line to question it or go looking for corroboration or more information about it.

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Also, how much "further" did you go? You might have committed a sexual assault yourself.

Uhh, the kissing was fine with her but i went further by touching bla bla n bla bla. I have to admit, she wore a damn short skirt n i accidentally saw her bump when she lifted her leg ups, n i was on NoFap journey so the urges to masturbate is huge n i have feelings for her so i did that. No excuses tho its just what happened to me. Should’ve ask her but didn’t.

OMG, you actually mentioned that she was wearing that short skirt and all. Dude, fuck you.

What else can i say? Lie about it? Im asking for advices and trying to be as honest as possible, i told her the samething, she didnt even give a f about it. Im owning up to my shit, why would i be afraid?

You could acknowledge that those are excuses and don't matter.

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Sexual trauma is no joke. If she shared that with you and you spread it, why should she ever trust you again?

I didn’t know what happened, I’m thinking about rape, i hope it wasn’t. But if it was, she’s must be really mentally strong to be this open. But on the other hand, i am a Fxxking overly sensitive mofo tried to care for her but went too far by assuming things. I always thought that it was my fault that night, my behaviors lead to the bad memories is true but i thought she was mad about it n i went to ask for help from her bff and spilled her T thinking they might be able to help but nope.

It doesn't have to be rape to be traumatic. Just having a bigger, stronger person force himself on you and having to feel the fear associated with losing control of your own body and not knowing what might happen to it, is enough.

You're more concerned about your own feelings than hers. That's coming through loud and clear. You want us to be "gentle" with you, but you were not gentle, and she is still not at the uppermost of your mind. You are.

First, im skinny n 5’8, she’s average n 5’4. I wasnt even forcing her. Im not even on her.

Im concerned about my feeling? Ok I’ll take that but I usually unconsciously pick up on other feelings so i didnt know if i was confuse by the feelings that i picked up( im still young, still learning, still growing) im trying to understand myself, see where im doing wrong to fix n learn from it.

Yes i did ask u guy to be gentle with my English grammar not what i ‘ve done.

I was explaining that it doesn't have to be a consummated rape to be traumatic. She told you what caused her reaction, but she shouldn't even need to do that. Simply telling you no should be enough. It's way out of line to question it or go looking for corroboration or more information about it.

Yes sir or ma’am.

Just leave her alone. You clearly don't get it.

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Leave certain signs alone if you don't know anything about them. You can't push your ego around with Scorpio and come out successful. We do shit on our own time when we feel like it. So you need to back off and let her have her space. Damn, that's the second time I have said that. Regardless of ANY sign, LET WOMEN HAVE THEIR SPACE!!!

You dont GET us to do anything, especially forgive. That's our choice and you cannot force it. Forgiveness is NOT a strong point with Scorpio. Secondly, keep pushing and you'll piss her off even more and she will leave you. Don't tell her to calm down. All that is is you saying she doesn't have right to her feelings. Back up. Let her cool off. If she wants, she will come back. If not, oh well. Shouldn't have been fucking up.

I dont know if ur mad but i never force her to do anything even hanging out with me, i never text bomb her, she took hours even a day to reply but i was patiently wait and rep. We dont even text that much, mostly we text on the weekend and hangout.

Boy i don't care about your life story. You missed the whole point.

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Posted by PhoenixStorm

Some men are worse than women when it comes to running their mouth.

She will probably forgive you for going behind her back and doing this, but trusting you again is highly unlikely. Contrary to popular belief, we are very forgiving after given time to cool down.. but earning a scorpios trust is difficult enough as it is...after you’ve betrayed it once, don’t hold your breath.