Me and my Gemini...
I am: Cancer Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Aquarius Rising, Venus Cancer (33 years old)
He is: Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Libra Rising, Venus Taurus, Mars and Mercury in Cancer (46 years old)
HI guys,
I met my Gemini last year, he was going through some stuff with his ex (10 years together, 2 kids), he ended it and left 2 years ago as she cheated, they focus on kids now,
we connected fast, we talked for hours, had a lot of fun, we are both adventurous, he opened up to me a lot about his most private matters,
I wasnt sure about him but he was really pursing me, he was looking for stability and someone serious to be happy with, he was reassuring me a lot about that,
He was very invested, spent all his free time with me, always informing me about what hes doing, sending me tons of photos, even with his kids,
wanted to know everything about me, even visited me in a different country while I was away for work, flowers, gifts, etc.
He made plans with me for trips away and wanted me to meet his closest friends. It was great.
3 months in I was going through some stuff too, and I had bad situation with my job and I started to worry about my future,
I wasnt sure what to do next and started to talk to him about it, the cancer in me was looking for comfort I guess,
He felt overwhelmed and said he want to take things slow and he doesnt want to be stressed or pressured.
He was very supportive and patient, we had long conversations about it, gave me good advice,
he said that he just doesnt want to rush into anything just yet because we are getting to know each other (we talked about living together)
and that I have to be happy first with my life to be with him (which I understand) But at the time I wasnt reading about signs
and I didnt know how to understand him and his logic. I felt rejected and started pressuring him emotionally questioning his intentions towards me.
He completely back off and cut off connection after being in day to day , very close intimate contact for over 3 months, I was shocked.
But I stayed strong and gave him space, he said he feels confused and I seem to complicated for him (once I want to take it easy and then I talk about living together)
Its been almost 3 months of no contact now. I decided to reconnect to save this.
Its been hard as he was cold and distant, but I expressed my regret of how things ended in a very logical way, said I want to understand him and start over.
He said hes open to talk... since then the communication is on and off, most of the time I am initiating it. Hes reacting well when I talk to him about news topics and share information, or ask him for advice and opinion, but once I try to flirt or get more private hes overrating or shutting down.
Its been 3 weeks and we spoke only few times (only via chat) , I proposed a meeting (sushi together) but he ignored the question and changed the subject.
I feel there is a small progress but I struggle to understand him and his actions, he used to be so clear with me and devoted and loving, now feels like a stranger..
What is the best way I can approach this, I know it can be difficult but I care about this connection and want to give it best chance.
Thanks
He is: Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Libra Rising, Venus Taurus, Mars and Mercury in Cancer (46 years old)
HI guys,
I met my Gemini last year, he was going through some stuff with his ex (10 years together, 2 kids), he ended it and left 2 years ago as she cheated, they focus on kids now,
we connected fast, we talked for hours, had a lot of fun, we are both adventurous, he opened up to me a lot about his most private matters,
I wasnt sure about him but he was really pursing me, he was looking for stability and someone serious to be happy with, he was reassuring me a lot about that,
He was very invested, spent all his free time with me, always informing me about what hes doing, sending me tons of photos, even with his kids,
wanted to know everything about me, even visited me in a different country while I was away for work, flowers, gifts, etc.
He made plans with me for trips away and wanted me to meet his closest friends. It was great.
3 months in I was going through some stuff too, and I had bad situation with my job and I started to worry about my future,
I wasnt sure what to do next and started to talk to him about it, the cancer in me was looking for comfort I guess,
He felt overwhelmed and said he want to take things slow and he doesnt want to be stressed or pressured.
He was very supportive and patient, we had long conversations about it, gave me good advice,
he said that he just doesnt want to rush into anything just yet because we are getting to know each other (we talked about living together)
and that I have to be happy first with my life to be with him (which I understand) But at the time I wasnt reading about signs
and I didnt know how to understand him and his logic. I felt rejected and started pressuring him emotionally questioning his intentions towards me.
He completely back off and cut off connection after being in day to day , very close intimate contact for over 3 months, I was shocked.
But I stayed strong and gave him space, he said he feels confused and I seem to complicated for him (once I want to take it easy and then I talk about living together)
Its been almost 3 months of no contact now. I decided to reconnect to save this.
Its been hard as he was cold and distant, but I expressed my regret of how things ended in a very logical way, said I want to understand him and start over.
He said hes open to talk... since then the communication is on and off, most of the time I am initiating it. Hes reacting well when I talk to him about news topics and share information, or ask him for advice and opinion, but once I try to flirt or get more private hes overrating or shutting down.
Its been 3 weeks and we spoke only few times (only via chat) , I proposed a meeting (sushi together) but he ignored the question and changed the subject.
I feel there is a small progress but I struggle to understand him and his actions, he used to be so clear with me and devoted and loving, now feels like a stranger..
What is the best way I can approach this, I know it can be difficult but I care about this connection and want to give it best chance.
Thanks
Change History
I am: Cancer Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Aquarius Rising, Venus Cancer (33 years old)
He is: Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Libra Rising, Venus Taurus (46 years old)
HI guys,
I met my Gemini last year, he was going through some stuff with his ex (10 years together, 2 kids), he ended it and left 2 years ago as she cheated, they focus on kids now,
we connected fast, we talked for hours, had a lot of fun, we are both adventurous, he opened up to me a lot about his most private matters,
I wasnt sure about him but he was really pursing me, he was looking for stability and someone serious to be happy with, he was reassuring me a lot about that,
He was very invested, spent all his free time with me, always informing me about what hes doing, sending me tons of photos, even with his kids,
wanted to know everything about me, even visited me in a different country while I was away for work, flowers, gifts, etc.
He made plans with me for trips away and wanted me to meet his closest friends. It was great.
3 months in I was going through some stuff too, and I had bad situation with my job and I started to worry about my future,
I wasnt sure what to do next and started to talk to him about it, the cancer in me was looking for comfort I guess,
He felt overwhelmed and said he want to take things slow and he doesnt want to be stressed or pressured.
He was very supportive and patient, we had long conversations about it, gave me good advice,
he said that he just doesnt want to rush into anything just yet because we are getting to know each other (we talked about living together)
and that I have to be happy first with my life to be with him (which I understand) But at the time I wasnt reading about signs
and I didnt know how to understand him and his logic. I felt rejected and started pressuring him emotionally questioning his intentions towards me.
He completely back off and cut off connection after being in day to day , very close intimate contact for over 3 months, I was shocked.
But I stayed strong and gave him space, he said he feels confused and I seem to complicated for him (once I want to take it easy and then I talk about living together)
Its been almost 3 months of no contact now. I decided to reconnect to save this.
Its been hard as he was cold and distant, but I expressed my regret of how things ended in a very logical way, said I want to understand him and start over.
He said hes open to talk... since then the communication is on and off, most of the time I am initiating it. Hes reacting well when I talk to him about news topics and share information, or ask him for advice and opinion, but once I try to flirt or get more private hes overrating or shutting down.
Its been 3 weeks and we spoke only few times (only via chat) , I proposed a meeting (sushi together) but he ignored the question and changed the subject.
I feel there is a small progress but I struggle to understand him and his actions, he used to be so clear with me and devoted and loving, now feels like a stranger..
What is the best way I can approach this, I know it can be difficult but I care about this connection and want to give it best chance.
Thanks
He is: Gemini Sun, Scorpio Moon, Libra Rising, Venus Taurus (46 years old)
HI guys,
I met my Gemini last year, he was going through some stuff with his ex (10 years together, 2 kids), he ended it and left 2 years ago as she cheated, they focus on kids now,
we connected fast, we talked for hours, had a lot of fun, we are both adventurous, he opened up to me a lot about his most private matters,
I wasnt sure about him but he was really pursing me, he was looking for stability and someone serious to be happy with, he was reassuring me a lot about that,
He was very invested, spent all his free time with me, always informing me about what hes doing, sending me tons of photos, even with his kids,
wanted to know everything about me, even visited me in a different country while I was away for work, flowers, gifts, etc.
He made plans with me for trips away and wanted me to meet his closest friends. It was great.
3 months in I was going through some stuff too, and I had bad situation with my job and I started to worry about my future,
I wasnt sure what to do next and started to talk to him about it, the cancer in me was looking for comfort I guess,
He felt overwhelmed and said he want to take things slow and he doesnt want to be stressed or pressured.
He was very supportive and patient, we had long conversations about it, gave me good advice,
he said that he just doesnt want to rush into anything just yet because we are getting to know each other (we talked about living together)
and that I have to be happy first with my life to be with him (which I understand) But at the time I wasnt reading about signs
and I didnt know how to understand him and his logic. I felt rejected and started pressuring him emotionally questioning his intentions towards me.
He completely back off and cut off connection after being in day to day , very close intimate contact for over 3 months, I was shocked.
But I stayed strong and gave him space, he said he feels confused and I seem to complicated for him (once I want to take it easy and then I talk about living together)
Its been almost 3 months of no contact now. I decided to reconnect to save this.
Its been hard as he was cold and distant, but I expressed my regret of how things ended in a very logical way, said I want to understand him and start over.
He said hes open to talk... since then the communication is on and off, most of the time I am initiating it. Hes reacting well when I talk to him about news topics and share information, or ask him for advice and opinion, but once I try to flirt or get more private hes overrating or shutting down.
Its been 3 weeks and we spoke only few times (only via chat) , I proposed a meeting (sushi together) but he ignored the question and changed the subject.
I feel there is a small progress but I struggle to understand him and his actions, he used to be so clear with me and devoted and loving, now feels like a stranger..
What is the best way I can approach this, I know it can be difficult but I care about this connection and want to give it best chance.
Thanks
Leave Your Feedback
We'd love to hear your thoughts! If you're not logged in, you can still share your feedback below. Your input helps us improve the experience for everyone. To post your own content or join the conversation, please log in or create an account.
Related Messages
in 
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_
i know this thread in mosty in jest but *smooths skirt and stands at podium*
being a scorp is like being invisible or blinking arrows are over your head at all times.
like reliving memories better than ashton kutcher in the butterfly effect.
like deleting your history 3 times in attempt to hide something that's not even that weird. or is it?
like diagnosing yourself with schizophrenia for 2 whole minutes, then realizing not everything is about you and everything is connected and shit's not that deep. or is it?
like seeing and feeling illness, injustice, selfishness, self-hate, self-pity, ego, manipulation, struggle, pain and suffering in every interaction. in everything.
like seeing and feeling beauty, compassion, peace, serenity, empathy, acceptance in every interaction, in everything. pms? mood swings?
like feeling like a baby aphrodite once you've learned your sexual power and inner confidence.
like listening to an air sign talk for a half hour and you can't believe they haven't noticed you tuned out.
like fapping off to the same fantasy/complex as 5+ years ago, and you know it's unhealthy, but it still feels real good.
like walking towards God, but partying with the devil a few times on the way.
like having daredevil, adrenaline junkie tendencies and not giving a fuck.
like never being truly seen at the core of your being, your spirit.
like never getting back the same kind of love and loyalty that you give others.
TY
Guess what ? i feel about some of that too.
This one :
"like reliving memories better than ashton kutcher in the butterfly effect."
This one :
"like deleting your history 3 times in attempt to hide something that's not even that weird. or is it?"
I did this too because im scare my internet service provider or my co worker or anyone who use my laptop search my browsing history. I even delete my google activity history from time to time,
"like diagnosing yourself with schizophrenia for 2 whole minutes, then realizing not everything is about you and everything is connected and shit's not that deep. or is it?"
I did this too, but before i have proof it is about me, i pretend nothing happen and smiling.
This one too :
"like seeing and feeling illness, injustice, selfishness, self-hate, self-pity, ego, manipulation, struggle, pain and suffering in every interaction. in everything."
But i bet theres alot of thing you did not feel what we pisces feel or what i feel.
Like for example, compassion. I saw many scorpio think it is weird or crybaby for pisces to cry or depressed watching other in pain or suffering.
It because scorpio emotion deep for themself while pisces automatically deep for themself and for others, theres more to bear than scorpio hence more prone to depression, pisces even had compassion for stranger where cancer usually are just for their social group.
lol wanna trade war stories? i have 5 planets in the 12th house, and walter pullen says pisces/neptune is my 3rd dominant energy. i can feel u thru the screen, bb.
Its not a duel of whos more who. Dont be childish. Im just saying as it is.
ik ur so deepclick to expand
11 house in 12 house still could not make you understand compassion dont you ?
"i can feel u thru the screen" - and yeah, i see theres so many logic and intelligence in there.
Posted by thinktankpisces232my cap moon is very dry lmao and why are you trippin' and hiding posts?Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_
i know this thread in mosty in jest but *smooths skirt and stands at podium*
being a scorp is like being invisible or blinking arrows are over your head at all times.
like reliving memories better than ashton kutcher in the butterfly effect.
like deleting your history 3 times in attempt to hide something that's not even that weird. or is it?
like diagnosing yourself with schizophrenia for 2 whole minutes, then realizing not everything is about you and everything is connected and shit's not that deep. or is it?
like seeing and feeling illness, injustice, selfishness, self-hate, self-pity, ego, manipulation, struggle, pain and suffering in every interaction. in everything.
like seeing and feeling beauty, compassion, peace, serenity, empathy, acceptance in every interaction, in everything. pms? mood swings?
like feeling like a baby aphrodite once you've learned your sexual power and inner confidence.
like listening to an air sign talk for a half hour and you can't believe they haven't noticed you tuned out.
like fapping off to the same fantasy/complex as 5+ years ago, and you know it's unhealthy, but it still feels real good.
like walking towards God, but partying with the devil a few times on the way.
like having daredevil, adrenaline junkie tendencies and not giving a fuck.
like never being truly seen at the core of your being, your spirit.
like never getting back the same kind of love and loyalty that you give others.
TY
Guess what ? i feel about some of that too.
This one :
"like reliving memories better than ashton kutcher in the butterfly effect."
This one :
"like deleting your history 3 times in attempt to hide something that's not even that weird. or is it?"
I did this too because im scare my internet service provider or my co worker or anyone who use my laptop search my browsing history. I even delete my google activity history from time to time,
"like diagnosing yourself with schizophrenia for 2 whole minutes, then realizing not everything is about you and everything is connected and shit's not that deep. or is it?"
I did this too, but before i have proof it is about me, i pretend nothing happen and smiling.
This one too :
"like seeing and feeling illness, injustice, selfishness, self-hate, self-pity, ego, manipulation, struggle, pain and suffering in every interaction. in everything."
But i bet theres alot of thing you did not feel what we pisces feel or what i feel.
Like for example, compassion. I saw many scorpio think it is weird or crybaby for pisces to cry or depressed watching other in pain or suffering.
It because scorpio emotion deep for themself while pisces automatically deep for themself and for others, theres more to bear than scorpio hence more prone to depression, pisces even had compassion for stranger where cancer usually are just for their social group.
lol wanna trade war stories? i have 5 planets in the 12th house, and walter pullen says pisces/neptune is my 3rd dominant energy. i can feel u thru the screen, bb.
Its not a duel of whos more who. Dont be childish. Im just saying as it is.
ik ur so deep
11 house in 12 house still could not make you understand compassion dont you ?
"i can feel u thru the screen" - and yeah, i see theres so many logic and intelligence in there.click to expand
Posted by exoskeleton_Because sometime just like virgo, i seek perfection. One wrong word i remove it and i write it again.Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_
i know this thread in mosty in jest but *smooths skirt and stands at podium*
being a scorp is like being invisible or blinking arrows are over your head at all times.
like reliving memories better than ashton kutcher in the butterfly effect.
like deleting your history 3 times in attempt to hide something that's not even that weird. or is it?
like diagnosing yourself with schizophrenia for 2 whole minutes, then realizing not everything is about you and everything is connected and shit's not that deep. or is it?
like seeing and feeling illness, injustice, selfishness, self-hate, self-pity, ego, manipulation, struggle, pain and suffering in every interaction. in everything.
like seeing and feeling beauty, compassion, peace, serenity, empathy, acceptance in every interaction, in everything. pms? mood swings?
like feeling like a baby aphrodite once you've learned your sexual power and inner confidence.
like listening to an air sign talk for a half hour and you can't believe they haven't noticed you tuned out.
like fapping off to the same fantasy/complex as 5+ years ago, and you know it's unhealthy, but it still feels real good.
like walking towards God, but partying with the devil a few times on the way.
like having daredevil, adrenaline junkie tendencies and not giving a fuck.
like never being truly seen at the core of your being, your spirit.
like never getting back the same kind of love and loyalty that you give others.
TY
Guess what ? i feel about some of that too.
This one :
"like reliving memories better than ashton kutcher in the butterfly effect."
This one :
"like deleting your history 3 times in attempt to hide something that's not even that weird. or is it?"
I did this too because im scare my internet service provider or my co worker or anyone who use my laptop search my browsing history. I even delete my google activity history from time to time,
"like diagnosing yourself with schizophrenia for 2 whole minutes, then realizing not everything is about you and everything is connected and shit's not that deep. or is it?"
I did this too, but before i have proof it is about me, i pretend nothing happen and smiling.
This one too :
"like seeing and feeling illness, injustice, selfishness, self-hate, self-pity, ego, manipulation, struggle, pain and suffering in every interaction. in everything."
But i bet theres alot of thing you did not feel what we pisces feel or what i feel.
Like for example, compassion. I saw many scorpio think it is weird or crybaby for pisces to cry or depressed watching other in pain or suffering.
It because scorpio emotion deep for themself while pisces automatically deep for themself and for others, theres more to bear than scorpio hence more prone to depression, pisces even had compassion for stranger where cancer usually are just for their social group.
lol wanna trade war stories? i have 5 planets in the 12th house, and walter pullen says pisces/neptune is my 3rd dominant energy. i can feel u thru the screen, bb.
Its not a duel of whos more who. Dont be childish. Im just saying as it is.
ik ur so deep
11 house in 12 house still could not make you understand compassion dont you ?
"i can feel u thru the screen" - and yeah, i see theres so many logic and intelligence in there.
my cap moon is very dry lmao and why are you trippin' and hiding posts?click to expand
Almost all scorpio i know are the same, they are like a clown just like you. Saying lmao or lol. Dont you think ? havent you notice ? no matter what are their zodiac house or zodiac office or whatever you call them, they are mostly like a clown like that. Dont you think ?
Signed Up: May 21, 2013
Comments: 819 · Posts: 28237 · Topics: 174
Comments: 819 · Posts: 28237 · Topics: 174
September 24 1984
Horny Carlo watches Liz sleep and daydreams. He wakes her up and tries to seduce her and is met with a slap. Megan & Max wonder if the guys got the prism. Alice & Howie saw the explosion at DiMera's. Is Daphe Dimera’s health in danger?
Horny Carlo watches Liz sleep and daydreams. He wakes her up and tries to seduce her and is met with a slap. Megan & Max wonder if the guys got the prism. Alice & Howie saw the explosion at DiMera's. Is Daphe Dimera’s health in danger?
Signed Up: May 21, 2013
Comments: 819 · Posts: 28237 · Topics: 174
Comments: 819 · Posts: 28237 · Topics: 174
September 25 1984
Carlo thinks he needs to leave since he cannot fight his feelings for the married Liz. Melissa and her friends plan to go the male strip joint Beefcakes (where Pete is currently working without Melissa knowing). Maggie and Marie have the same idea. Megan tries to get into the Cardiac Arrest Unit to see Daphne. Who does Megan catch in the act?
Carlo thinks he needs to leave since he cannot fight his feelings for the married Liz. Melissa and her friends plan to go the male strip joint Beefcakes (where Pete is currently working without Melissa knowing). Maggie and Marie have the same idea. Megan tries to get into the Cardiac Arrest Unit to see Daphne. Who does Megan catch in the act?
Signed Up: May 21, 2013
Comments: 819 · Posts: 28237 · Topics: 174
Comments: 819 · Posts: 28237 · Topics: 174
September 26 1984
Daphne is doing better. Calliope and Kim are rushing dress making. Everyone is at Tony’s looking for the prism and trying to play it off. Marie and an embarrassed Maggie are at the male strip club unbeknownst to Pete. Surveillance has began on Kim as someone is watching her through her window with a telescope across the street…
Daphne is doing better. Calliope and Kim are rushing dress making. Everyone is at Tony’s looking for the prism and trying to play it off. Marie and an embarrassed Maggie are at the male strip club unbeknownst to Pete. Surveillance has began on Kim as someone is watching her through her window with a telescope across the street…
Posted by exoskeleton_Havent you see ? each house have a different meaning. Just because you have some house in 12 house does not mean you are pisces.Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by thinktankpisces232Posted by exoskeleton_
i know this thread in mosty in jest but *smooths skirt and stands at podium*
being a scorp is like being invisible or blinking arrows are over your head at all times.
like reliving memories better than ashton kutcher in the butterfly effect.
like deleting your history 3 times in attempt to hide something that's not even that weird. or is it?
like diagnosing yourself with schizophrenia for 2 whole minutes, then realizing not everything is about you and everything is connected and shit's not that deep. or is it?
like seeing and feeling illness, injustice, selfishness, self-hate, self-pity, ego, manipulation, struggle, pain and suffering in every interaction. in everything.
like seeing and feeling beauty, compassion, peace, serenity, empathy, acceptance in every interaction, in everything. pms? mood swings?
like feeling like a baby aphrodite once you've learned your sexual power and inner confidence.
like listening to an air sign talk for a half hour and you can't believe they haven't noticed you tuned out.
like fapping off to the same fantasy/complex as 5+ years ago, and you know it's unhealthy, but it still feels real good.
like walking towards God, but partying with the devil a few times on the way.
like having daredevil, adrenaline junkie tendencies and not giving a fuck.
like never being truly seen at the core of your being, your spirit.
like never getting back the same kind of love and loyalty that you give others.
TY
Guess what ? i feel about some of that too.
This one :
"like reliving memories better than ashton kutcher in the butterfly effect."
This one :
"like deleting your history 3 times in attempt to hide something that's not even that weird. or is it?"
I did this too because im scare my internet service provider or my co worker or anyone who use my laptop search my browsing history. I even delete my google activity history from time to time,
"like diagnosing yourself with schizophrenia for 2 whole minutes, then realizing not everything is about you and everything is connected and shit's not that deep. or is it?"
I did this too, but before i have proof it is about me, i pretend nothing happen and smiling.
This one too :
"like seeing and feeling illness, injustice, selfishness, self-hate, self-pity, ego, manipulation, struggle, pain and suffering in every interaction. in everything."
But i bet theres alot of thing you did not feel what we pisces feel or what i feel.
Like for example, compassion. I saw many scorpio think it is weird or crybaby for pisces to cry or depressed watching other in pain or suffering.
It because scorpio emotion deep for themself while pisces automatically deep for themself and for others, theres more to bear than scorpio hence more prone to depression, pisces even had compassion for stranger where cancer usually are just for their social group.
lol wanna trade war stories? i have 5 planets in the 12th house, and walter pullen says pisces/neptune is my 3rd dominant energy. i can feel u thru the screen, bb.
Its not a duel of whos more who. Dont be childish. Im just saying as it is.
ik ur so deep
11 house in 12 house still could not make you understand compassion dont you ?
"i can feel u thru the screen" - and yeah, i see theres so many logic and intelligence in there.
my cap moon is very dry lmao and why are you trippin' and hiding posts?click to expand
You see, each house represent different thing.
Like sun for example, pisces sun represent this and that. But moon in pisces does not represent the same thing as pisces in sun, so too each house, each house in pisces represent different thing.
Or else everypeople would have the every zodiac trait.