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Posted by TenpxdIt can be, but I think a large part of that depends on how you view it in the first place, the extent you use it, whether or not it interferes w/real responsibilities, etc. I think there are some healthy constructive uses though, and ways its added value to my relationships. At times I've even used it as a type of therapy for obsessive thoughts around a person that I know would be disastrous to pursue. I just find an actress that looks like them and fap them out of my head lol....Posted by Metatron
I did it for several years and had to isolate myself severely during that time to stay away from one ex in particular....I think the sexual aspect was the easiest at first, though there were periods I think I had an unhealthy relationship with porn. The worst part for me was honestly this really strong yearning I felt to have a warm body next to me in bed...so basically cuddling lol....
I think, as much as it can be a healthy thing for some depending on circumstances, it can also push you into some very unhealthy behaviors or states of mind if you isolate yourself socially like I did. I became hypersensitive to anything sexual after a while. At one point, I remember talking to an ex over the phone, which was one of the most terrible relationships I've ever been in, and she tried to spark up some sexy talk with me and I felt like I had almost no self control - like she could literally mind-control me via my genitals if I kept that convo going. It was a really strange experience, felt like pure euphoria actually, and I'm just thankful I was living far away from her at the time bc if not, I would've def made a bad decision. I took a cold shower afterwards and had all sorts of crazy dreams and heavy/intrusive fantasies about our former sex life for months after.
I watch porn daily to replace sex with a person it’s definitely unhealthyclick to expand
Re: Breaks in a relationship
I think when one person initiates a break he/she is recognizing something in the relationships that is not working for them or something in themselves that is not allowing them to continue (need to focus on themself) or a combination of both.
It is not natural to take breaks in a relationship...this is a break-up.
But someone who wants a break is not sure about the other person and/or the relationship.
This is why it's so important for the person who didn't initiate things to focus on themselves and focus their attention to other relationship possibilities.
If the relationship is meant to be it's mean to be, but you cannot devote your thinking to it coming back into existence.
I would close the door but leave it unlocked.
I think when one person initiates a break he/she is recognizing something in the relationships that is not working for them or something in themselves that is not allowing them to continue (need to focus on themself) or a combination of both.
It is not natural to take breaks in a relationship...this is a break-up.
But someone who wants a break is not sure about the other person and/or the relationship.
This is why it's so important for the person who didn't initiate things to focus on themselves and focus their attention to other relationship possibilities.
If the relationship is meant to be it's mean to be, but you cannot devote your thinking to it coming back into existence.
I would close the door but leave it unlocked.
I saw your comment that you don't want to get "too involved".
I can understand you wanting to protect yourself.
Seems like you know him well enough to decide as to whether or not you would accept a relationship with him if it panned out.
When you say it broke your heart that he found someone else, is it because you were worried about not having sex with him again, or because you worried about not spending time with him again? Were you worried that you would lose your chance at a relationship with him?
Be honest with yourself about what you would want with him.
What he would want is not part of this decision. That only comes into play if afterwards.
I can understand you wanting to protect yourself.
Seems like you know him well enough to decide as to whether or not you would accept a relationship with him if it panned out.
When you say it broke your heart that he found someone else, is it because you were worried about not having sex with him again, or because you worried about not spending time with him again? Were you worried that you would lose your chance at a relationship with him?
Be honest with yourself about what you would want with him.
What he would want is not part of this decision. That only comes into play if afterwards.
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Posted by slugCan you paste your 6/7th house wheel here , slug?
I thought my cap placements were in 7th but apparently they're in 6th, except NN which is 7th. 🤔
These websites are gaslighting me. ☝️
Posted by LittleStar_IIYou know some?
So Cancer Ascendant?
They are cold as ice. 😂
Posted by HeartofIceAs in committed to you?
I didn't wait before entering serious relationships, lol, but I do like them older and more mature. In terms of being serious I only need that from a partner in the sense that they need to take their life seriously and be responsible. Other than that I need them to be able to crack jokes and make me laugh.
It's the only pisces placement I have
Posted by chris19Ahahahah
Never hold back, always look forward. To hell with anyone, only care about myself.
My galactic number is 8