Trying to work things out with an ex
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Posted by IxiWell said.Posted by christinelovessnickersPosted by IxiPosted by christinelovessnickersPosted by Ixi
The most use of the entire exercise?
It allows you to see what parts of you really need to be healed if you pay attention.
That's a really good point. Not everyone is ready to look or to heal.
Absolutely that.
Overall whether its "worth it" or not comes down to the context and situations that led them to be an ex in the first place.
Agreed, but I would also add if people are willing to also put in the work to fix it. Someone earlier made a comment that sometimes people just aren't compatible.
I mean what my experiences have taught me is that situations absolutely can be improved with "work" but there are certain intangibles of people's core disposition and patterns of behavior that are in fact incompatible with whomever you actually are that day. Incompatible with the parts of you that you have chosen, incompatible with the parts of you that you have not.
That incompatibility when recognized and honored frees you from pursuing persons who honestly cannot meet your expectations. It's mindful acceptance which allows you to love yourself and even the other person while still holding space for the reality that the person you love may not be the best person for your health and sustained growth.click to expand
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i think most people get into astrology and other divination initially because they're trying to understand themselves and others, it's like a desperation move lol. i try not to take it so seriously and look at it more as understanding human nature and psychology, but at the same time, we know this shit is accurate af.
And this is where I always had the hardest time understanding why it was considered a form of evil in the ancient scriptures.
We appear to have a tool that seems to show itself as highly accurate. If God made the stars, did He give us this tool? Or has the first heaven been armed by Satan for the sole purpose of setting our expectations to magnetic pulls in the planets as an intricate weapon of mass distraction?
right. and how many references to using astrology/astronomy are there in the bible? the 3 wise men and king solomon come to mind. is this knowledge a gift or delusion, i wonder.
Astrology and religion are two sides of the same coin.
I’ve come to the conclusion at least for now (because I’m a Gemini 😋) that religion and astrology are human created sources of comfort and control to assert that something in this chaotic random universe has order and meaning.
i agree with this (sometimes lol) i too have a problem with all organized religion. like how much of these texts were revised and revised over time? how much has been used in the wrong ways for nations to gain power and control?
You're right as a whole. See, the Catholics have a monopoly on knowledge of faith, although they don't share all of it. And they also have the most organized good works and ministries. However, they do not appear to have the power of the Spirit which is frequently made manifest in Pentecostal sects. They are two different tribes worshipping God in truth. While forces of the Spirit are not restricted by denominations, it appears the differences are useful for fellowship and may be part of a grand scheme to help people go to one another. This is probably more useful than denominations arguing about who is right or not.
thanks for sharing this. i don't lean towards any specific branch of christianity, i'd need to do more research first. but when i've read the bible, which isn't often enough, i've felt the much more self-understanding and sense of calm than when reading my chart or horoscope. so i'm very glad you brought this topic on board.
I admire you opening up about that. Speaks volumes to your strength. This a sensitive topic that we all discussed very peacefully.
thank you.indeed, great convo. and to think you and i used to be top trolls here.
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but i'm lazy and not friendly
Why is this under politics?
Hmm
Posted by xy_sighlol air signsPosted by SagInTheSun898
Why is this under politics?
BC life is politicsclick to expand
idk a lot of things hurt me
but most recent one is having to buy time from a loved one
i don't like being placed in a position like that
it's offensive how i have to do that
but most recent one is having to buy time from a loved one
i don't like being placed in a position like that
it's offensive how i have to do that
I don’t know how to add images 😭 I got Danny though. I can relate, I always want to do good, but when things go bad, they go really bad.
I'm Tormund.