Signed Up:
Aug 14, 2018Comments: 14398 · Posts: 2602 · Topics: 87
Sorry that happened to you. It has happened to probably 1 out of 3 women at some point in their lives. I went thru a period where a lot of that type of trauma popped up. Those types of situations are the most confusing sometimes because it is not cut and dry situations. I did read an article a few years back where they brought up guys who purposely do not use condoms, some say they put it on, some put them on and then take it off right before, stuff like that, and it is considered sexual assault.
Him holding you down is rape.
I'm not going to tell you what to do. It is something you are going to have to work thru tho weather or not you decide to talk to others about it or if you dont. Just know that a lot of women have gone thru it so if you do decide to talk about it, you're not alone.
Also, not all men are like that. If you decide to start dating again, don't be afraid to tell someone that you had some trauma(you dont have to go into details) and that you'd like to take things slow.