Learned a new thing about friendship
Posted by WhorpioYou don't ever vent to your friends about your life?
I recently learned it’s easier to be friends with people who have the same emotional output as yourself, and people whose attachment matches your own.
For example, my closest friends are people who don’t express too many emotions and don’t require a lot of attention. I always seem to have problematic friendships with people who want to talk to me everyday and act super emotional (to me they are energy vampires but maybe they could get along better with other clingy people).
Is this just a thing for avoidant attachment style s, or do you think it applies to all attachment style s?
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Posted by smolIn decreasing order of how much of my thoughts they occupy..
Mine,
Out of affection:
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So if they were sooo sure that they won't get back together aka separation, why is Will so butthurt ??!
It makes sense why August is hurt bcz he thought Jada left Will and they were going to be together so obviously he got hurt when she left him.
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It makes sense why August is hurt bcz he thought Jada left Will and they were going to be together so obviously he got hurt when she left him.
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August says that he got Will's blessing to be with Jada... So why is Will so upset?
I don't really get the whole nothing because to me the narrative is as follows:
- Jada & Will separate (they both said they were done w each other and thought would never get back together)
- August is introduced to the family and connects with Jada
- August sees the amicable separation but still asks Will if it's okay and supposedly Will is ok with it
- Jada leaves August to get back w Will
- August is broken hearted so he breaks all communication with Jada completely ( very Virgo thing)
Years pass and this comes to light....
Now that it's in the media, Will is acting all like what happened?? And it seems he sees it as cheating. Whereas Jada and August see it as Will and Jada were separated.
So why is Will acting so hurt about this ? I'm confused. Is it because of his Scorpio moon who just doesn't want to think that no matter what Jada was a someone else regardless if they were together or not.
I don't really get the whole nothing because to me the narrative is as follows:
- Jada & Will separate (they both said they were done w each other and thought would never get back together)
- August is introduced to the family and connects with Jada
- August sees the amicable separation but still asks Will if it's okay and supposedly Will is ok with it
- Jada leaves August to get back w Will
- August is broken hearted so he breaks all communication with Jada completely ( very Virgo thing)
Years pass and this comes to light....
Now that it's in the media, Will is acting all like what happened?? And it seems he sees it as cheating. Whereas Jada and August see it as Will and Jada were separated.
So why is Will acting so hurt about this ? I'm confused. Is it because of his Scorpio moon who just doesn't want to think that no matter what Jada was a someone else regardless if they were together or not.
Posted by LittleStar_III don't think they're in an open relationship. I think they've reached a deep level of loyalty where it's like IF you do cheat I will still be with you. I will be hurt and there will be problems but I will not leave you. That's NOT an open relationship. But people can't understand that level of unconditional love and loyalty so they call it an open relationship.
I think they’ve always had a somewhat open marriage but society doesn’t want to see that because it ruins the narrative.
I don’t give a fuck. They can do what they want.
Also open relationship is more click bait than loyalty and life partnership.
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Posted by PhoenixStormDamn def not relationship goals I agree!!! And I didn't notice the difference in language between the I and we from Jada and Will... Good point on that.
I don’t think August is hurt at all. Lol I think he used this “entanglement” as a publicity stunt to promote his album. I think Jada was used and doesn’t even realize it. That’s just my opinion.
And I never realized how imbalanced the marriage is between Will and Jada (although they are both actors, so I could obviously be way off base with my observation) but Jada seems self centered while Will seems relationship centered. She was all like “MY healing, MY childhood trauma, I wanted to feel good, hadn’t felt good in long time and the part about nobody can give permission except her”. While Will kept talking about unconditional love, etc.. and she said she didn’t consider it a transgression which shows she feels no remorse or regret. (Again, just my thoughts)
HOWEVER.. when he had said “I’ll get you back” and she said “you already did” that makes me wonder if it’s one of those situations where they have both cheated and they both know they’re not enough for each other, but they hold onto what’s familiar and continue to try to “one-up” each other.. which is toxic as hell. They are definitely not “relationship goals” for me.
But if that's true about August he must be an amazing actor because his voice shaking and him saying words like he was broken and felt like he died and was a different person after... Damn that's very deep to protend.
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