Should I ditch my friend for good? I feel like I have an energy vampire in my life.
I agree with GemCurioThe1 and Bklatt, your “friend” definitely envies you, what you have, and has been treating you badly.
Stop letting the childhood friendship excuse justify the toxic relationship you have with her. You’re letting her put you down.
If you’re still stubborn about remaining friends with her, then try ignoring her texts and call more often and just say you’re busy?
Stop letting the childhood friendship excuse justify the toxic relationship you have with her. You’re letting her put you down.
If you’re still stubborn about remaining friends with her, then try ignoring her texts and call more often and just say you’re busy?
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You’re a whole 30 yr old are you planning on collecting security from your parents forever?
Your much younger sister on the other hand is just getting the ball moving, not being obstructive and sharing the space until you finally decide to become financially independent seems reasonable.
Your much younger sister on the other hand is just getting the ball moving, not being obstructive and sharing the space until you finally decide to become financially independent seems reasonable.
Posted by bmoon8But what about the child in this situation?Posted by pooface222
Hi Ladies..
I'm just wondering how far you would go to make a guy yours.?
I met a guy a long time ago who wanted to leave his partner for me. And I wanted to leave mine for him.
It never happened.
I've discussed this before a while back but from a very different perspective to this.
Now this guy sat around in his relationship with his partner, waiting for Me to leave my husband first.
Its a long story but I'll keep it short.
He was divorced, had a lump sum, etc but was in a rship with a woman for years and now wanted to leave her for me.
However this would require me getting divorced, selling my house and all that hassle and stress, plus getting a 2nd job to pay my own mortgage etc.
This guy was already living in his partners house. She was divorced and had her own place and when they met, he moved in.
Anyway..he wanted me to get a place of my own, so that he could then move in with me.
He didn't say this literally, but the mild implications he made, told me.
Any suggestions I made for him leaving his partner first, was met with excuses galore.
He just wanted to carry on seeing me (cheating), while I leave first.
My suggestion was that he stops cheating, gets a flat, either rented or bought, so that he - and I - are no longer cheating.
He waited for me to leave.
I waited for him to leave.
Neither one of us left.
So..nothing happened.
He got insecure because he felt I didht love him.
Maybe he didn’t believe you would actually leave your husband. You never really did until your husband divorced you and made you leave. He was putting the ball in your court.
Quite frankly, I would have left my husband if I were miserable with him and found another man that I was happy with.click to expand
Posted by hydorahYes. Exactly.
you need to take care of your life and autonomy first, then see what's going on with th rships after, don't mix the two things, be on your own
Unfortunately both me and him 6yrs ago were trying to have a rship AND sort out our huge issues.
Our conversations ended up being about our issues and partners ffs!
NOT about each other and building a life together 🤦♀️
Block
Well first off a conversation is an exchange.
This is just someone iterating how they’ve been creeping.
When someone says ‘don’t be afraid’ usually that means you should be afraid...very afraid 😂
This is just someone iterating how they’ve been creeping.
When someone says ‘don’t be afraid’ usually that means you should be afraid...very afraid 😂
Also what is a fun shoot?
Posted by PeakSoyOk creep level just amped up to 1000Posted by LadyNeptune
Also what is a fun shoot?
This guy is a photographer
Maybe a circus themed shoot idkclick to expand
his grammar is such a turn off 🙄 more than his sad excuse of a message (damn you 3rd house)
if I'd feeling snarky I might turn him down with a long and very proper/sober reply at best, wait for his inevitable response, and block him.
if I'd feeling snarky I might turn him down with a long and very proper/sober reply at best, wait for his inevitable response, and block him.
Posted by ClassyAquarius
In my mind "Fuck off you creep." But then I think about if I won't piss him off and he will find me and kill me. So I left on read.
But wouldn’t he also be pissed off you read and had the audacity to ignore his gracious gesture?
Posted by ClassyAquariusPosted by SassyKiwiPosted by ClassyAquarius
In my mind "Fuck off you creep." But then I think about if I won't piss him off and he will find me and kill me. So I left on read.
But wouldn’t he also be pissed off you read and had the audacity to ignore his gracious gesture?
You are right. But blocking can piss him off to. Best way is to make him believe you never got this messageclick to expand
Deactivate temporarily so he doesn’t take it personal and hops over to focus on the next victim