I have no water placements in my natal. How can I compensate?

Posted by ni1992

Hii

Me: leo (29th july,1992)

Him: capricorn (7/jan,1990)


So .. about 3 months ago me and my capricorn man started dating .. he is amazing man.. and he was so open to me in a very strange way because i know capricorn men arent like this ... however .. things got too serious between us so quickly .. and there were ups and downs but we always get back again .. he sometimes gets cold .. and i never understood why but never asked him directly i always ask if there is something wrong ? And when says no i just get over it and go with the flow..

However, about 5 days ago he got so so distant and cold .. and I decided “communication is the key” lol ... so i started by asking him “are you happy with me” .. he was like “u know the answer” then he said why u keep asking these questions it bothers me a lot ! .. i was like .. i didnt mean to i iust don’t understand why you suddenly get so cold and distant and i feel like i’m a heavy load for you and it hurts me cuz i want to understand .. he was like i told u nothing is wrong .. i went like okay .. but I just want to know.. when u get like this what is the best way to deal with you ? Like i should leave u alone ? Or be with you and bear all this just telll me so i know how to treat u in a convenient way with feeling like you’re withdrawing.. he was like lsn .. i feel down and i’m not myself it has nothing to do with you just please bear with me .. and i told him i would do anything for him and he can take his time thinking we are on a break .. up-till herr it was all good

Then he called me at night .. we talked for 5 mins and i was like ok we arent on a break .. but then the 3 days after he was in a complete silence... no communication in any way .. and i don’t understand.. so i texted him saying .. i don’t understand this but i hope we are still okay, he went like .. i tried to be crystal clear with you but you seem like you don’t appreciate that .. do what suits you .. i was like are you serious ?? I’m trying so hard ! I love you and i dont wanna lose you but i feel like i’m !! U r seeing ur friends and family and everything is going okay except me ! U r only avoiding me and i cant understand why ! Even if its not me why are you avoiding me like this ?? .. i honestly cant take this its hurting me ! ... he was like .. okay u cant handle it u can go .. i’m sorry i have nothing to add ... but i never said i want to end it .. all i said is i need time because im going through something .. so u can do what suits you but this is all i have and i dont promise you that anything is going to change any soon.



I tried to appologize to him for not being patient and for being selfish .. and i tried to explain to him my feelings and that i want him and i want to be with him .. he never said much .. only that he dont wanna end it and that we arent on the same page and its better if we spoke later ... and later took another 3 days lol ..


Please explain to me how can i deal with him .. what is the right way ? And what am i doing wrong .. i really dont wanna push him away more .. but i dont know how should i do that ! I’m a very extrovert guy expressive person who says and express all the time and he is obviously the opposite-i think- altho he wasnt like this at the first 2 months :/ ..

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Posted by DonnaLibra

I'm not afraid of death because I know I'm going to have a better life after I do. I'm afraid of what is going to cause me to die.

This is directed to fire signs

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We R Kool.

@argus are you still on our team?

*gingerly peeks into the thread*


Errmmm... has the party moved over here now!? 😁


But to answer the question, I’m always with you guys❣️ If not on paper than in spirit! 😘

Truth be told, I haven’t done another one of those tests since a little while back, but INFJs seem to have more fun, so I’ll gladly relinquish the T in favor of F. 😇

Can we party now!? 😅


P.S. I can’t believe you actually remembered!!! ☺️🥰

But of course!! Was there ever any doubt?? 😂❤️❤️

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A Cancer makes decisions based on his mood, and whatever we feel like doing.

We like our alone time, so if we take time to talk to you for hours, it probably means something, cause we don't do that with just anyone. Especially if he let you meet the kids and ex wife already?!

Don't expect him to chase you, he's checking to see if you'll be patient with him.

@Isolde @pinkbird03 any advice for this lady?


No his ex wife , his Mother.

About what you say you're right, there was one night we were suppose to get together but he had to run some errands with his mother, He didnt even tell me anything . the Next Day he told me, he got so pissed off that bc of his mom he couldnt see me that he rather started working out to take it off with the weights.

One thing I do like as well is that I dont need to question him about why I havent heard about him. His first reply is an explanation of what he did the entire day.

Like I know any man wouldnt do that unless he is interested, but I feel like im the one who keeps reaching out the most. and I dont know if I should stop or if he needs some type of reassurance or something.

He likes when you initiate. Your effort means the world to him. It gives him confidence that you like him.

I’ve also been in your situation. I kinda am right now with my aries. I message him first a lot and I thought about stopping so I could give him a chance to and then I tried it out. It works if you want to try it. Honestly though, does it matter who texts first? No. He sounds like he treats you good and that should be enough. You can’t make him be romantic. I’ve never once dated a guy who was. Things are good. Be happy and stop overthinking.

Men are romantic for sure, what do you mean? Stop initiating text, be afraid to lose him. I can tell you don’t like it, so why do it?

Some men are. Some aren’t. Depends on ur definition of romantic.

I don’t always initiate first. And he texts me many pictures of what he’s doing throughout the day. I have no issues with this.

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No mind games with Taurus, they'll see right thru you.

Just start a conversation. If you're still important to them, they'll reply. If you're out of their system, you wont get a reply or you'll get a very short, polite message.

I come across your posts on taureans almost frequently ,how is it going? Are you happy?

Yes I'm very happy, thank you for asking! How are you??

Oh I am still searching a nice water woman. tell me something, the last Ive read is, he was nonresponsive and you wanted to

ignore him right? did you do that, how did it go, where are you now?

Yes correct, I've moved on from Mr. Bull but he's not quite over me. He's missing me and gets jealous of other men. I know how things are between him and me, we have a life long connection turns out. He's scared to take the final step because of past experiences. I had to choose for myself tho, I'm nothing like his exes and its not fair on me that it gets involved in what we had. I wanted to see action....

I'm currently talking to a Pisces man with Taurus moon and venus. Things flow nicely, we only need a few words to understand eachother. Talks thru out the day n evening. From moment he wakes up till he goes to bed. Nothing suffocating tho, just mutual conversations. Lots of similarities, we have a few planets the same. He's straight forward, open, talkative and honest. Like an open book. So will see how that will go.

Oh, I assumed things turned out well with the taurus, its great though, that you found another great guy. I have recently

let go of a difficult person, and now I realize how much energy is unlocked cause there is no drag anymore. I can totally

picture two openhearted communicative waterpeople connect and chatter about emotions through out the day. Its a heartwarming picture. Like this:

Guess what? And sorta funny that after you brought up Mr. Bull.... he sent me a message again after 2 months of silence! And picked up the convo where he stopped it, thinking he can continue as tho nothing happened.

What is it with Bulls and not able to let go? Is this part of the Bull's testing aswell? Is it the jealousy? Is it the possessiveness? Who knows 🤷‍♀️

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