Virgo Sun+Moon man, I don't know what to do
Posted by PulsyPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by Gem03
I have been friends with him for 4 years now. I always thought of him as platonic and nothing more. But I do remember him trying to get close to me and telling me I'm cute which I brushed off since I didn't think of him in that way at all. Fast forward 2 years later we lose touch for a year.
-December, 2019: We reconnected and started talking for hours on end, until 3AM about everything under the sun. It was great. He would flirt with me a lot and we decided to meet up
-March 2020: we hung out he cooked for me, cuddled and watched movies (NOTHING ELSE). The next time we hung out, same thing happened and I ended up asking him out, he said he'll think about it. Then covid hit, but we were still in contact and it was okay.
-May 2020: we had a talk, he told me he liked me but we decided to just stay friends (reason being I need love in a relationship to be able to have sex, while he usually has sex in a relationship at 2 month mark)
-----He still kept flirting with me and I would keep it at bay since I knew I had to get over him, around this time I moved 30miles away but we still talked and called. He was also always busy whenever i asked to just hang out.----
-October 2020: I got tired of it all so i just had a talk with him and told him that we can't be friends if I actually want to get over him. He tried to get me to not do that but after 10mins of talking he said he understood. Then for 3 weeks there was zero contact between us. I made it clear that I was set on moving on.
-November 2020: He hits me up, asking if I'm okay (out of the blue). We ended up talking and he says I'm important to him and that he cares for me, he told me he wanted to come see me. I said okay. He came, we cuddled, ate pizza and ended up kissing (our first kiss). He asked if I was okay after the kiss which I thought was cute. He left afterward.
He didn't really text me or anything. I reached out and just talked about random things to gauge how we were, he seemed distant. Ultimately, I want to be with him exclusively. Idk if we are on the same page tho. This is my first time dealing with a Virgo sun and moon. Any advice would be helpful.
Sound like he has been patient with you. If you really want to date him, then say so. You have already turned him down more then once, so it's on you to speak up to change that.
Yeah I’m reading it and I’m like wasn’t it her that said no??
You must undo your butterclick to expand
ya march but she is saying he wanted to have sex outside of a relationship around the 2 month mark. Still though the way it is writen, feels like she is the one chasing him with some kind of hot and cold tactic whether she realizes it or not.
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Posted by PulsyPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by Gem03
I have been friends with him for 4 years now. I always thought of him as platonic and nothing more. But I do remember him trying to get close to me and telling me I'm cute which I brushed off since I didn't think of him in that way at all. Fast forward 2 years later we lose touch for a year.
-December, 2019: We reconnected and started talking for hours on end, until 3AM about everything under the sun. It was great. He would flirt with me a lot and we decided to meet up
-March 2020: we hung out he cooked for me, cuddled and watched movies (NOTHING ELSE). The next time we hung out, same thing happened and I ended up asking him out, he said he'll think about it. Then covid hit, but we were still in contact and it was okay.
-May 2020: we had a talk, he told me he liked me but we decided to just stay friends (reason being I need love in a relationship to be able to have sex, while he usually has sex in a relationship at 2 month mark)
-----He still kept flirting with me and I would keep it at bay since I knew I had to get over him, around this time I moved 30miles away but we still talked and called. He was also always busy whenever i asked to just hang out.----
-October 2020: I got tired of it all so i just had a talk with him and told him that we can't be friends if I actually want to get over him. He tried to get me to not do that but after 10mins of talking he said he understood. Then for 3 weeks there was zero contact between us. I made it clear that I was set on moving on.
-November 2020: He hits me up, asking if I'm okay (out of the blue). We ended up talking and he says I'm important to him and that he cares for me, he told me he wanted to come see me. I said okay. He came, we cuddled, ate pizza and ended up kissing (our first kiss). He asked if I was okay after the kiss which I thought was cute. He left afterward.
He didn't really text me or anything. I reached out and just talked about random things to gauge how we were, he seemed distant. Ultimately, I want to be with him exclusively. Idk if we are on the same page tho. This is my first time dealing with a Virgo sun and moon. Any advice would be helpful.
Sound like he has been patient with you. If you really want to date him, then say so. You have already turned him down more then once, so it's on you to speak up to change that.
Yeah I’m reading it and I’m like wasn’t it her that said no??
You must undo your butterclick to expand
ya march but she is saying he wanted to have sex outside of a relationship around the 2 month mark. Still though the way it is writen, feels like she is the one chasing him.