Virgo Sun+Moon man, I don't know what to do
Update: I ended up asking him what he wants. I told him that if it doesn't lead to a relationship then we need to stop. He said he enjoys my company and that why can't things be the way they are. I said I can't kiss or cuddle with guys who I'm not dating (physical intimacy doesn't come easy for me). He told me that he will stop giving me special treatment and that from now on we are platonic friends.
I asked him what he meant by special treatment. He said "I'll give a loose analogy, when you bump into someone you're like apologize, but if you bump into a child, you would wanna check up on the child. Your innocence and emotions aren't like mine. I would hold my tongue so I never hurt you or irritate you. Its like you had a blanket around you and you were immune."
After that convo, I didn't talk to him for 3 days and then reached out asking if we are cool and he said yes. Now, we only talk if I initiate. Is there any way I can undo this mess?? I'm absolutely heartbroken. I want to be with him
I asked him what he meant by special treatment. He said "I'll give a loose analogy, when you bump into someone you're like apologize, but if you bump into a child, you would wanna check up on the child. Your innocence and emotions aren't like mine. I would hold my tongue so I never hurt you or irritate you. Its like you had a blanket around you and you were immune."
After that convo, I didn't talk to him for 3 days and then reached out asking if we are cool and he said yes. Now, we only talk if I initiate. Is there any way I can undo this mess?? I'm absolutely heartbroken. I want to be with him