Virgo Sun+Moon man, I don't know what to do

We ended up talking (no lashing out, no drama)

Him: *jokingly* you're a lil bish, we could be having a sleepover rn (no sex but cuddling, kissing, falling asleep)

Me: I'm not a lil bish, I just wanted you.

Him: I'm a very hard item to obtain, bc of my ex

Me: What do you mean?

Him: She taught me that I need to talk to someone for many many months before being with em

Me: Yeah, thats not a bad lesson. But we were talking for 7 months and not weeks

Him: Not enough months

Me: So like a year?

Him: I want to be in a relationship if it adds something to my life

Me: Thats fair, why did you come back after I cut you off in october?

Him: I just wanted to check up on you.

Me: When were more than friends what did you want?

Him: I just wanted to chill with you whatever happened. Whatever happened.

Me: Oh

He hasn’t responded since. Frankly I don't think I ever meant anything to him. Its like the past months meant nothing to him. He was passing time for the heck of it.