Virgo Sun+Moon man, I don't know what to do
Posted by Gem03
We ended up talking (no lashing out, no drama)
Him: *jokingly* you're a lil bish, we could be having a sleepover rn (no sex but cuddling, kissing, falling asleep)
Me: I'm not a lil bish, I just wanted you.
Him: I'm a very hard item to obtain, bc of my ex
Me: What do you mean?
Him: She taught me that I need to talk to someone for many many months before being with em
Me: Yeah, thats not a bad lesson. But we were talking for 7 months and not weeks
Him: Not enough months
Me: So like a year?
Him: I want to be in a relationship if it adds something to my life
Me: Thats fair, why did you come back after I cut you off in october?
Him: I just wanted to check up on you.
Me: When were more than friends what did you want?
Him: I just wanted to chill with you whatever happened. Whatever happened.
Me: Oh
He hasn’t responded since. Frankly I don't think I ever meant anything to him. Its like the past months meant nothing to him. He was passing time for the heck of it.
whether or not it meant anything to him is beside the point.
That is some serious backpedaling right there and he is being evasive towards you. You said you would work on your impatience btw🙃
Let him know you are there and go do you. He will step up or continue to be evasive when you press. You know there are other people out there you can invest in...including yourself. Let go.
I know what it is like to have a feverish desire for someone. Let go. Go do you for a bit.
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Posted by Gem03
We ended up talking (no lashing out, no drama)
Him: *jokingly* you're a lil bish, we could be having a sleepover rn (no sex but cuddling, kissing, falling asleep)
Me: I'm not a lil bish, I just wanted you.
Him: I'm a very hard item to obtain, bc of my ex
Me: What do you mean?
Him: She taught me that I need to talk to someone for many many months before being with em
Me: Yeah, thats not a bad lesson. But we were talking for 7 months and not weeks
Him: Not enough months
Me: So like a year?
Him: I want to be in a relationship if it adds something to my life
Me: Thats fair, why did you come back after I cut you off in october?
Him: I just wanted to check up on you.
Me: When were more than friends what did you want?
Him: I just wanted to chill with you whatever happened. Whatever happened.
Me: Oh
He hasn’t responded since. Frankly I don't think I ever meant anything to him. Its like the past months meant nothing to him. He was passing time for the heck of it.
whether or not it went anything to Jim is beside the point.
That is some serious backpedaling right there. Let him go. Be friends after you get over him. Stop pursuing him in that manner.