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Mar 18, 2006Comments: 2 · Posts: 23862 · Topics: 499
Really? "Touch My Body" was a complete turn off for me LOL, and then her other one she put out didn't get me either. I'm not sure whats going lol
But I love Rihanna -- 'Disturbia' is my favorite song so far.
Hey Everyone,
Just want to say that Tiki and LeoKitten hi five! It's really great to have people understand how you feel about someone you are romantically attached to but damn it, love is blind! I can say I've gone head over heels from guys but you know...if the stove burns step away and learn from it! I'm relating more to Tiki and LeoKitten because it's the hard truth you need to hear sometimes, it's true...been there and can see that if someones not responding why the hell are you trying to get them to! If they want to they will, you really can't force it. If you are saying you care here, regardless of whether you tell him or not its affecting your feelings. It's not patronizing to say go out and live your life. It's true, whatever holds you back is the feeling of wanting someone badly. Following your heart doesn't always work out, there's a lot of frogs you need to work through before you find your prince. The way you deal with the frogs may even seriously impact how the prince you meet approaches you and how you get with him in the end. Respect yourself. That man won't notice either way. I think it's true when you want someone so badly it's something that they are fulfilling in you that you don't yet know how to find yourself. A little bit of experience has taught me that already.
So yes...listen to the hard edges of what these people are telling you and try not to escape into the sympathy that people are also providing you....because you could potentially use that to give yourself permission to keep pining after a guy.
Anyway....don't know if that's helpful but I don't know....perhaps if more people tell you that you are wearing rose tinted glasses and need to take them off. Maybe that will help you..
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Aug 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1660 · Topics: 107
thanks for making me feel better
I think it's obvious when people are respecting you and when they don't...and I really agree that you should watch what a man does more than you listen to what he says. If they don't match up....somethings definately seriously up. It's easier too, because if you get wrapped up in your feelings you stop being able to differentiate things....if you don't know how to handle the relationship. I find that really helpful because I can get so caught up in my feelings for a guy too. He says this doesn't equate to what he does for you...BAM easy, he's not that into you....sorry it's repetitive but I agree and just had to say it! It's simple
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Oct 18, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 2502 · Topics: 29
"would you believe it was a black person that said it????"
yeah, a non-black person wouldn't care to make a distinction between a house n versus a non-house n.
it always amuses me to see people trying to think they're better than others of the same race. Very common human phenomenon.
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Nov 21, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3537 · Topics: 116
Ms.FakeAss
Why are you still harping on what I said apparently you don't "brush stuff off" . I am over what I said to you, You now know that I don't like you, you are fake, so if you are so used to brushing shit off when people talk about you then move the fuck on and talk about something else, because your comments mean nothing to me. So as of right know you have never seen me before, don't comment on my comments don't do nothing where I am concern and we will get along just find on this site.
I don't think you can just base it on your sun sign, my sun sign is in Taurus but my Venus is in Aries and I'm so attracted to opposites like fire signs and air signs. There are other things in a persons chart to that make people of different sun signs compatible because they also have different aspects in their chart that compliment or contrast against your own.....so you'd need to know a lot more about the person you'd be dating