Virgo Sun+Moon man, I don't know what to do
Us: *having a convo about men and vulnerability*
Me: I don't get it, wanting love is valid, wanting to sleep around is valid and wanting none of those 2 is also valid
Him: Yeah but societyyy
Me: Fuck society
Him: Only sadness and loneliness awaits me
Me: Get a dog...Not much I can do you are emotionally unavailable because of your ex
Him: I KNOW, puppy is too much work and im not home as often, its a lot of responsibility I'm waiting till I'm ready
Me: So you are emotional unavailable for a puppy as well *jokingly*
Him: Im not ready OMG *crying emoji* I don't wanna half ass shit, when I choose to wait its because I see that puppy or person as worth my effort and something I don't wanna ruin. And I KNOW im not ready for that shit. So why would I go in if I can't give it my everything.
Me: I'm right
Him: You just want me to pick you up bring you home and cuddle you up all night. Even tho you know I'm right
Me: I'm sorry about what happened with your ex, I'm happy you are not jumping from girl to girl and taking time off to heal. Before I started liking you I was your friend and I'm still your friend so I support that. As far as you and i go I can't be your cuddle buddy, not just you, for anyone. I think I'd be settling. When it comes to romance or having feelings, relationships either I get all of you or I want none of you. Its very black or white i know. Causal dating or hooking up is not for me either.
Him: You have a very valid point, I wanna try but I'm afraid I will not be ready then its ruined forever. So I'm chillin.
This was 2 days ago, I'm just matching his energy at this point.
Me: I don't get it, wanting love is valid, wanting to sleep around is valid and wanting none of those 2 is also valid
Him: Yeah but societyyy
Me: Fuck society
Him: Only sadness and loneliness awaits me
Me: Get a dog...Not much I can do you are emotionally unavailable because of your ex
Him: I KNOW, puppy is too much work and im not home as often, its a lot of responsibility I'm waiting till I'm ready
Me: So you are emotional unavailable for a puppy as well *jokingly*
Him: Im not ready OMG *crying emoji* I don't wanna half ass shit, when I choose to wait its because I see that puppy or person as worth my effort and something I don't wanna ruin. And I KNOW im not ready for that shit. So why would I go in if I can't give it my everything.
Me: I'm right
Him: You just want me to pick you up bring you home and cuddle you up all night. Even tho you know I'm right
Me: I'm sorry about what happened with your ex, I'm happy you are not jumping from girl to girl and taking time off to heal. Before I started liking you I was your friend and I'm still your friend so I support that. As far as you and i go I can't be your cuddle buddy, not just you, for anyone. I think I'd be settling. When it comes to romance or having feelings, relationships either I get all of you or I want none of you. Its very black or white i know. Causal dating or hooking up is not for me either.
Him: You have a very valid point, I wanna try but I'm afraid I will not be ready then its ruined forever. So I'm chillin.
This was 2 days ago, I'm just matching his energy at this point.