Virgo Sun+Moon man, I don't know what to do

Posted by CreamyPV
Posted by Gem03
Posted by virgoOPPP

virgo moon?

eww


From my experience, all earth moons are ew. They are closed off emotionally, move at a slowwww pace and are stubborn


This is only true of Virgo moon when we feel insecure. We're risk adverse. You rejected him so many times he accepted it wasn't going to happen. Now you are interested and he needs time to adjust to the idea you are sincere and not going to just change your mind. Fickle affections scare the heck out of us. Even if we are flaky as hell, we desire decisive stable partners who know what they want from us, and make it clear we are their main choice. Don't ask him what he wants, tell him what you want. And then be patient,we move at a snail pace like Taurus. But once we're in, we are all in. But that will only happen if we are sure we aren't wasting our time investing our affection in someone unstable.

Also as a disclaimer I am speaking from a female position, but I also attract Virgo moon men, and they are similarly guarded until they know for certain my intentions are true.
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I'm hoping the fact that he opened up a bit and still talks to me everyday is a good sign(?)....I hate uncertainty and games as well. What set me off is despite 7month talking stage he hadn't committed to me. Now I have said "Either I get all of you or I want no part of you" (I'm possessive I blame my mercury taurus+venus aries) bc my affection, my care and my attention are forms of investment. I don't want to waste it either, I was painstakingly patient for all those months.