Posted by deckedandecker
A LEO WOMAN!
Yup, I said it. They say fire and fire should not go well together, I disagree. Leo men can click really well long-term with Aries women but man oh man, a Lion was meant to be with a Lioness. Leo women understand the energy of a Leo man well and can play the flattery and fun games with him.
In the end, Leo women rival Libra and Gemini women as being the best match for a Leo man. Top 3 is a tie between Libra, Gemini, and Leo gals.
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Posted by TheFalangeReturnPosted by SassyKiwi
Women can be toxic af to each other
It’s hard to find women to befriend that have masculine energy that is more tolerable
So the feminist sorority is a facade?click to expand
Posted by Cancergirl9How does one maintain distance when sharing a small apartment during a pandemic? That seems really naïve of you to suggest. Have you ever lived with a SO? If you had its unlikely you would give this advice.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Cancergirl9Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by Cancergirl9Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by Cancergirl9Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by LuxePurr
If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.
Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.
i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much
If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person
I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.
I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again! I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !
Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..
What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?
Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.
Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else
Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.
Even if they live together, they can stay as friends for a particular period of time she decides like few weeks or months where he gets time to prove her his loyalty without being in relationship with her, and she can also build trust on him that she is seekingclick to expand
Posted by rufflestrufflesPeople who do wrong always bring up all the nice things to did for them hoping you’ll feel guilty and want to resume doing those nice things.Posted by DMVPosted by rufflestrufflesPosted by Cancergirl9Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by LuxePurr
If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.
Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.
i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much
If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person
I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.
I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again! I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !
Oh Pisces... the martyr the victim
I’m shocked he didn’t use the crying emoji
He listed all the nice things YOU do for him.
Can’t raise a man
He needs to grow up and find himself
Is it bad that he listed the things i did for him? So now he is trying to be the victim? Why? What did i do to deserve thisclick to expand
Posted by Cancergirl9Yes, I have to live with your own choices
@rufflestruffles You love him so much, don't listen to negative people, just because they said things from their perspective doesn't always mean that they're right. Do what your heart says, and do the right thing, even if it means that you still want to workout things with him❤️
Posted by AbbyNormali think people who really want long term partner do this, or they don't know how to. those who enter long term things or marriage just because of feelings they have for each other, are set up for failure.Posted by LithiK
In long term look at the qualities that are considered good wife, and a good mother for my kids.
Don't let yourself go, look after your looks, look after your health, also the desire is important, does this woman desire you on the emotional level. Can she cook and clean, if she can it means she'll be a good mother who will be able to take care of the kids, is she compassionate and humble and values what you do for her, or is she entitled and only complains what you don't do to her and doesn't appreciate what you actually invest and do? Does she make your life better, is she entering to be with you , or does she want you to enter her life etc. If as a man has goals, he's happy in life, he has standards for himself, and for other people who enter your life, they have to live in these standards if you want to be in such man's life. If someone walks on your standards, breaks your boundaries, they are disrespecting you, and they are showing they don't' want to be part of your life, because they are not willing to put in the effort to be there.. Guess what, i'm puting effort in my life, and i'd like other people to match my efforts, if you don't want to, that's cool, find some other guy with smallers standards, smaller boundaries, and have more laid back life where you can chill and do nothing, but if you're going to be with me, i'm a man who has standards for a reason, so i can meet my own needs as a person to be happy and share that happiness with others that are in my circle, if you're not into that, not willing to put in some work and don't want to do nothing, that's your choise, but i ain't going to keep someone like that around. It's normal to have standards for your life, so you can build the life you want for yourself, and for these people around you, if you have none, people will walk over you, if you want something, you have to take responsibility for what you want and crate standards for things you want so you can continue building the life you want, without people walking over you.I see so many women geting angry when men has standards, that they don't live up to, and instead of trying to be better, they get angry and resent, because from their point of view, it's not right to have standards that they can't measure up 2 .
Very healthy.click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamMen are hypergamous for surePosted by virgoOPPP
i'm still trying to process this:
"Men never thank you for helping them at their lowest or building them up. They just lose all respect for you for dating someone like them in the first place. Then as soon as they "level up" they drop you to go find someone they perceive more in their league. They don't want the girl who dates them at their lowest, they want the girl they can get at their best."
My ex basically thats why i'll never put myself in that position again.click to expand
Posted by Cancergirl9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Cancergirl9Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Cancergirl9Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by Cancergirl9Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by Cancergirl9Posted by rufflestrufflesPosted by LuxePurr
If this is just a short term thing then give him a chance.
Personally I would walk away because I wouldn't want to be with someone whose solution for boredom is chatting up chicks online. What's next? Him suggesting an open relationship? Cheating? Meh. Not worth the stress and my time.
i broke things off with him, i need time to heal and clear my head. im really hurting and i cant accept what happen yet, he said he didnt want to break up but he knows why i had to. He asked if we can still be friends. But i dont think i can go on with just being friends, i really really love him too much
If u love him, please don't leave him. Flirting isn't wrong, cheating is. If he cheated, then leave. If he just flirted, and giving you further assurance that he won't believe. If you don't trust him, he also will think things that he may be really an untrustable person
I really love him so much. But i though to myself. If i didnt leave he will think its okay. That what he did was okay. I somehow regret leaving him because i also know that he is going thru a dark phase. I feel so guilty but he broke my heart. He was flirting and it means nothing because he doesnt even know who he was talking to (for now) they have been talking about meeting up a long time now. But never happened (yet). He said if he wanted to meet that woman he would have already a long time ago. It just hurts so much and i feel betrayed. He sent me a text last night.
I’m so sorry !!!! For everything! You are so good always. Always good to me , take car to me . I’m really appreciate it! You are good enough to me . But I’m just weird and freak, I feel shame and hate myself,I don’t know myself, I don’t know how to be love , I’m not deserve you love , I have lot questions myself too , I have a lot of pressure , I don’t know how to opening. I don’t know why I’m like that . I just want say sorry . Sorry again! I hope you are well , hope you to be happy . You always right. You teaching me a lot ! I will miss you !
Sometimes we need to give people a chance, if you like, take a break from each other. Tell him that you want to take a break from each other. For example, 3 months. Tell him that in these 3 months, without being in a relationship with you, he needs to be loyal, stop doing nonsense things which hurt you and tell him that he needs to change according to your conditions if he really love you. If he can do these, tell him that you will take him back. In this way, you will get a change in him, and you will not lose your relationship. Meanwhile during the break, you people stay as friends. I hope this works for u..
What now? I wait for him to approach me? What if he doesnt? What if he was just pretending to love me all this time. What if he was just waiting for me to leave him?
Why are pisces men so cruel? I thought they were the most loyal sign. I really did my best to understand love take care and dream with him. Now im left with a big WHY on my head.
Meantime, during this break stay as friends, without completely being unavailable to him may result in disasters of he getting off with someone else
Might be difficult to take a break and be unavailable to him seeing as they live together.
Even if they live together, they can stay as friends for a particular period of time she decides like few weeks or months where he gets time to prove her his loyalty without being in relationship with her, and she can also build trust on him that she is seeking
How does one maintain distance when sharing a small apartment during a pandemic? That seems really naïve of you to suggest. Have you ever lived with a SO? If you had its unlikely you would give this advice.
Is she supposed to build a pillow wall between them in bed to create separation?
Staying friends is unrealistic when they had a romantic connection, NOT a friendship.
I get wanting to work on the relationship and forgiveness and all that.
But really, what relationship?
They've been together for a year and for 6 months of that, 50% of the relationship, he's been cheating by flirting with other women AND actively hiding it from her. The relationship is built on a faulty foundation of disloyalty and deception.
He doesn't love her. If he did he would respect her, not step out of the relationship after only 6 months. And that is what SHE discovered. Who knows what else he has done behind her back that she is unaware of.
Assuming things always aren't always right, just because of assumptions I lost a person that loved me who thought in this same way. Flirting is a wrong thing, and he needs to change, and she needs to give him some time, if they're living together, I would suggest her not to indulge in any relationship activities and friends meaning that she should limit him to only as friend things until she gains some trust from him during the time they're off from their relationship and just naming it to be friend and friendly things. He will change in the meantime, and she gains the trust at least better than before, and things may get better and he might actually change and then they can be in relationship again. Why not give people a chance?❤️click to expand
Posted by MadTwins80I’m not good enough for some men simply based on my skin color.
Has anyone asked this question yet?
Can you improve?
Sometimes you aren't good enough for someone because you're underdeveloped, letting yourself down, being a shit version of yourself etc
So I think it's fine to say someone isn't good enough for someone else in that way
Even looks aren't final. You can get a better haircut, work out, dress up more etc
I met someone I really liked and then had to accept I wasn't good enough for her. It's hard to take - I tried to dismiss her as "not my type" and all that but in reality I wanted to be with her and I think I could be with her if I was a better version of myself... but the good thing is even if it never happens with that person at least it is motivation for you to better yourself and then who knows who you might attract in the future
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