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Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesYa I agree. It’s not that I take it all that slow lol. Just I’m a little hesitant and don’t trust that love bombing stuff. I’m also cap venus/mars. So ya know, it’s only sag sun that sometimes gets excited and goes along for the ride. But not this quick.Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
You know back in our grandparents generation im sure this was sort of normal. And most of them from that generation are all still married. While today, divorce rates are so high. Just a thought
Yes I know. But not this fast. Most of my serious relationships were pretty quick. But more it’s hey I like you, let’s date and see if this is what it seems like. It isn’t getting mad and trying to pressure you into it.
Oh don't get me wrong I agree with what you're saying, just that people of our time give up before anything even gets started so to speak. No one is willing to put the time in anymore. So whether or not you jump right in or take it slow, the end result should in theory be everlasting but its not.click to expand
Posted by colorsWe actually discussed it today. He admitted he might be emotionally unavailable. Cos he can’t think of any other explanation why he’s not ready to take it to the next level.Posted by BrookeDavisPosted by colorsPosted by BrookeDavisPosted by colorsPosted by BrookeDavisPosted by DMVPosted by BrookeDavisPosted by DMVPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by BrookeDavis
"He explained he was crazy about me and we truly have a connection / chemistry but he needs emotions.
That line stands out. He's missing emotions, unless you provide them somehow I wouldn't think of getting too far with this..
Agreed
Take him at his word.
For me being an Aquarius emotions come from time and experiences together. It’s something you both create.
I have a feeling he confuses emotions with passion or something else. Something grand and blinding that will not matter in a few months.
He’s not confused.
You’re the one confused.
Sagittarius treat friends like lovers and lovers like friends. It’s all a good time.
Read the other sag posts. Same story
This man told you his boundaries and got his way 100%
His needs are being met
Are yours?
No, my needs are not met. That’s why I’m trying to figure out what I can do about it. Either move on (though it’s hard) or there’s some tactic I can use to turn this situation around?
You don’t come across people who you connect on such a deep level with that often, so I don’t want to lose this connection. But I’m not interested in being friends
But if he is not feeling emotions then what is the point of staying? You don't need to stop contact but can back away a bit. What if he moves on to someone he feels emotional connection with and then doesn't have time for you? He does not know what he feels for you since you are already there for him without him investing emotionally.
I guess the problem is that I don’t understand what he means by not having emotions.
We spend time together, chat for hours, hold hands/cuddle, feel insanely attracted to each other. What else is needed to develop emotions? And if none of that is an indication of emotions, then I’m really confused or dumb.
If he had emotions, he would want to make the relationship exclusive so he would not lose you to another man. He might still have emotions, seems to enjoy your company, is attracted to you, but does not have enough emotions to become exclusive with you. Maybe he is not seeing anyone at this point, but he has kept that door open by not committing to you. This may grow into something more with time, who knows, but are you ready to go with the flow and see where this goes? Are you willing to be exclusive with him even if he is not? I guess the important question is what do you want from him. If it is just hanging out with him and enjoying what you have, that needs to be your decision.
You’re absolutely right. I can’t afford to wait and waste my time. He perfectly knows what I want and I guess I want more than he’s willing to give. It just sucks to let go of a man who seems to check all the boxes. And even harder to acknowledge the fact that I’m not wanted
He does not check the emotionally available box. It is hard to accept, but with time you will get over him. You need some space from him. If you want you could say that to him. It will be easy to move on when your emotions for him are gone. Hard part will be creating a distance between you two. You could slowly do that by not initiating anything, letting him initiate. Not asking to hang etc. really how you feel makes sense to you. For me personally, I can go cold if the person in front does something that is hurtful to me, otherwise it can be tough if he is still nice. But even then if I sense he is not into me, I can try and take a step back and let him initiate if he wants. If he does not, over time I will get over him, especially if someone else who shows interest comes alongclick to expand
I now wonder if it will be different if a new woman comes his way or it is just with me
Posted by dOpehEadI washes all mines. Sometimes I even buy new ones.
And I agree, masks don't do that great of a job of preventing covid transmission. They have however lead to an increase of other respiratory illnesses due to people wearing the same ones often.
Posted by ArieslesbianSo you have no evidence that suggests the heat of the summer slowed the spread in those circled months, instead of masks?Posted by _DazedPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by _DazedPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by _DazedPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by MyStarsShine
It's because on some level they know the ones they are wearing aren't efficient.....why else would they lose their shit?
Yes exactly .. this is what people don’t understand. I literally leave my house a couple times a week. For many people who wear masks it’s given them a tremendous false sense of security. They go out everywhere, live their lives as they typically would and think “well, as long as I’ve got my mask it’s a all groovy!!!! PUT YOUR MASK ON SUPERSPREADER”
They dont wanna consider the fact that their dirty, germ infested face diaper hanging loosely around their ears probably isn’t working as well as they think it is, because that’s where this sense of self-righteousness comes from. “Look at me, I’m a hero, I wear my mask everywhere and I’m saving lives, and you’re a murderer” basically how they see it
Wearing a mask worked in New York.
It didnt though. It worked so well bars and restaurants in the city are closed for indoor dining indefinitely. Here’s the thing. You’ve convinced yourself that masks work because you desperately want them to, despite conclusive evidence proving otherwise .
This is because when you put on your mask, you feel an overwhelming sense of self righteousness. Which then in turn, makes you feel like it’s okay to harass other people/ feel morally superior to them, and it also makes you feel like you can go about life as you typically would (running 5 errands a day, etc.) you and everyone else puts on your dirty, germ infested face diaper hanging loosely off your ears, go out everywhere and cases are on the rise.. shocking.
On the other hand, I go out a couple times a week. And not for very long. So if anyone’s spreading covid it’s probably not someone who already has the antibodies.
What happened during those several months I circled?
The rioting and looting, remember ? (: it’s also possible that in the warmer months, the heat has some sort of effect on lessening the spread of the virus.
Interesting. Wouldn't the body's heat and heat inside the mask lessen the spread then?
Sure doesn’t seem to be, especially after 9 months of strict mask mandates and lockdowns and cases being higher than ever. But you’ll believe masks work no matter what, despite the conclusive evidence I’ve given you many, many times that suggests otherwise. The truth is you can’t actually learn anything without an open mind. And your mind is made up, I won’t convince you and you definitely won’t convince me. Keep that germ infested face diaper hanging loosely over your face on and keep going 10 places a day. You and everyone else. Shocking that cases are up, right ?😂click to expand
Posted by DMVInterestingPosted by ELIGABPosted by DMVPosted by MadTwins80
Has anyone asked this question yet?
Can you improve?
Sometimes you aren't good enough for someone because you're underdeveloped, letting yourself down, being a shit version of yourself etc
So I think it's fine to say someone isn't good enough for someone else in that way
Even looks aren't final. You can get a better haircut, work out, dress up more etc
I met someone I really liked and then had to accept I wasn't good enough for her. It's hard to take - I tried to dismiss her as "not my type" and all that but in reality I wanted to be with her and I think I could be with her if I was a better version of myself... but the good thing is even if it never happens with that person at least it is motivation for you to better yourself and then who knows who you might attract in the future
I’m not good enough for some men simply based on my skin color.
They want something lighter skinned
That’s perfectly fine with me.
Why do you say that???
I’ve been told that by men
Black men who are the same complexion and lighter than me have told me that I am too dark for them
Rolls pretty easily off their tongueclick to expand
Strange pattern I've noticed with Sags placements.......
I don't think I've ever met one that was proud to be black......
Posted by DMVreminds me ofPosted by ELIGABPosted by DMVPosted by MadTwins80
Has anyone asked this question yet?
Can you improve?
Sometimes you aren't good enough for someone because you're underdeveloped, letting yourself down, being a shit version of yourself etc
So I think it's fine to say someone isn't good enough for someone else in that way
Even looks aren't final. You can get a better haircut, work out, dress up more etc
I met someone I really liked and then had to accept I wasn't good enough for her. It's hard to take - I tried to dismiss her as "not my type" and all that but in reality I wanted to be with her and I think I could be with her if I was a better version of myself... but the good thing is even if it never happens with that person at least it is motivation for you to better yourself and then who knows who you might attract in the future
I’m not good enough for some men simply based on my skin color.
They want something lighter skinned
That’s perfectly fine with me.
Why do you say that???
I’ve been told that by men
Black men who are the same complexion and lighter than me have told me that I am too dark for them
Rolls pretty easily off their tongueclick to expand
Posted by dOpehEadWhat about in the months I circled below? What caused the lower case count?
And I agree, masks don't do that great of a job of preventing covid transmission. They have however lead to an increase of other respiratory illnesses due to people wearing the same ones often.
Posted by ArieslesbianHave you been tested for antibodies?Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by peachy06Posted by ArieslesbianPosted by peachy06
But they aren't in the wrong there. It's those won't follow the rules and put others in danger who are the problem.
If nobody follow the rules, then this pandemic is never ending.
Harassment is absolutely always wrong. Period. Also, I mostly stay home. Most people who wear the mask, put it on and go about their business as they usually would, even if that means running 5 errands a day. The germ infested face diaper hanging loosely off their ears does nothing, so before you know it cases are on the rise.. not very surprising. People don’t wanna believe that they don’t work despite conclusive evidence showing they don’t, because it’s how they justify going out all the time and the tremendous amount of self- righteousness they feel by shaming others.
Harrasment is wrong.
Not wearing your mask is wrong too.
Maybe you stay at home, but if you go out the risk is still there.
Personally I stare down at those who don't wear their mask, to make them feel uncomfortable. A guy even apologized to me, for not wearing it. I'm tired of dumb people who don't follow the rules, we're all in this shit together.
Period.
That's nothing. People stare at me hard as a rock with my mask on. Even harder than without the mask. Just let them catch the virus and I bet they'll see why I wear em.
Why do you always feel the need to one up everyone 😂😂 also, do you not realize that the overwhelming majority of people who test positive for covid wear masks religiously?? What substance is your brain made of? Cat litter?
Nah I'm a firm believer in following safety precautions. If we all do our part this pandemic will come to an end. I hope.
I not so sure what you mean by one up everybody. But what I do know is that I'm not for anyone nor am I against anyone. I don't follow up with the crowd in attacking you. If anything I do wish everybody would stop with this nonsense. Say what they gotta say and let it go at that.
Back to my jazz🎷
No, it won’t come to an end because of people like you who willfully comply with everything you’re told out of fear. And again I’ll remind you, someone with the antibodies like myself who goes out a few times a week, versus someone like you who goes out way more often with a dirty, germ infested face diaper hanging loosely off your ears is way more likely to spread covid. But because of your self-righteous god complex you refuse to believe or acknowledge that.click to expand
I was lucky. Because mine was struggling and I had made up my mind to take her in the morning to the vets for observation, we had been back and forth for the last week with observation at the vet. It happened to be a Sunday night and I had almost taken her in early in the day. She woke up early Monday am... 2am or so, was restless and I could just tell. So I held her and she breathed deep for about a minute, deep rattling breaths. Then she was gone.
I'm just so thankful that I didn't take her earlier in the day as she would've passed alone in a kennel with unfamiliar smells afraid and confused. I'm grateful I was able to hold her at the last. I hope I face my own death with as much calm and poise.
I'm just so thankful that I didn't take her earlier in the day as she would've passed alone in a kennel with unfamiliar smells afraid and confused. I'm grateful I was able to hold her at the last. I hope I face my own death with as much calm and poise.
Posted by ArieslesbianPosted by peachy06Posted by ArieslesbianPosted by peachy06Posted by ArieslesbianPosted by peachy06Posted by ArieslesbianPosted by peachy06
But they aren't in the wrong there. It's those won't follow the rules and put others in danger who are the problem.
If nobody follow the rules, then this pandemic is never ending.
Harassment is absolutely always wrong. Period. Also, I mostly stay home. Most people who wear the mask, put it on and go about their business as they usually would, even if that means running 5 errands a day. The germ infested face diaper hanging loosely off their ears does nothing, so before you know it cases are on the rise.. not very surprising. People don’t wanna believe that they don’t work despite conclusive evidence showing they don’t, because it’s how they justify going out all the time and the tremendous amount of self- righteousness they feel by shaming others.
Harrasment is wrong.
Not wearing your mask is wrong too.
Maybe you stay at home, but if you go out the risk is still there.
Personally I stare down at those who don't wear their mask, to make them feel uncomfortable. A guy even apologized to me, for not wearing it. I'm tired of dumb people who don't follow the rules, we're all in this shit together.
Period.
You don’t have the right to tell people what to do, ever. Idk who the hell you think you are. I’ll never apologize for not wearing one, just like you’ll never consider the fact that maybe they aren’t working as well as you pretend they are
I said I stare down at people who don't. Never said I told them anything. Don't apologize if you want that's your problem. Still I judge you and all those who behave like you. You're the only person responsable of your behaviour, nobody can tell you otherwise.
You shouldn’t stare its rude. Leave people alone. Just as you judge people for not wearing one, I judge people who still pretend like they work. And if this sh**t ever ends I’ll remember the people who used the masks as a reason to harass others. People have forgotten that harassment is never okay, especially under the guise of “social justice”
I do what I want, don't care if that makes me rude, it's them being rude toward all of us, first. As I said you are the only one responsable of yourself. If you're so confident, then why making a whole thread about it ? Harrassing isn't okay. Nor putting others are risks. Now if you're dumb, then nobody can help you.🤷🏻♀️
Every time you go out you put yourself at risk . Stop looking for a scapegoat, I’m not responsible for your healthclick to expand
Are you really this selfish irl? If so, I think you have some more soul-searching to do honey-buns.