Big Plans!
Yeah, i like this thread. My aqua is making the big plans right now...for himself apparently!! Fine, so i told him i have a one way ticket to Scotland at Christmas and the whole forever after in Argentina isnt happening.
This was the exact conversation:
He.."im starting a course that im going to use when "i" go to Argentina. Im all sorted really, there?s enough work for me there and i will have the money i need by March and all ready to go".
Me..good for you, at least i dont have to worry about saving up anymore for the airfare, it?s good that you?re thinking ahead about your future, you?re at the right age afterall" and need to think about the same things so that im ready to start over again in Scotland.
He.."so i mean, i will be out of the house, like alllll day, and you?ll just be calling me up, being all like a woman, no family, no friends, that?s not my problem, i dont want to have any problems in my life, zero"
Me.."me either. Listen, im glad that you?ve got a future planned, and in this 5 minutes, you?ve made a difficult decision for me easier. We?ll go in different directions, and when its done its done, no doors are going to be left open, there wont be a "see how it goes" scenario. So, basically we should just split up now, because i dont want to give any more of my life to you. Its not about love, or a lack of it so let?s not get into that conversation".
He.."i love you, i just want to be happy", hahahaha (im collecting his stuff from my house and telling him to go)..please, let me just think about it. I want to be with you, for the lifetime, but its so difficult. I went out, he asked me where/when/who....arrgghh.
That was yesterday. I feel so much better that my mind has cleared. Only a few days ago it was about "us, and now its all about "him"..i have no problems with any of it, but its just to make you ladies aware of the swiftness of their changability, and inability to think past themselves..i mean that ultimately. Surely you were a part of plans somewhere along the line, but the bottom line is their in whatever it is purely for themselves.
Be careful.
This was the exact conversation:
He.."im starting a course that im going to use when "i" go to Argentina. Im all sorted really, there?s enough work for me there and i will have the money i need by March and all ready to go".
Me..good for you, at least i dont have to worry about saving up anymore for the airfare, it?s good that you?re thinking ahead about your future, you?re at the right age afterall" and need to think about the same things so that im ready to start over again in Scotland.
He.."so i mean, i will be out of the house, like alllll day, and you?ll just be calling me up, being all like a woman, no family, no friends, that?s not my problem, i dont want to have any problems in my life, zero"
Me.."me either. Listen, im glad that you?ve got a future planned, and in this 5 minutes, you?ve made a difficult decision for me easier. We?ll go in different directions, and when its done its done, no doors are going to be left open, there wont be a "see how it goes" scenario. So, basically we should just split up now, because i dont want to give any more of my life to you. Its not about love, or a lack of it so let?s not get into that conversation".
He.."i love you, i just want to be happy", hahahaha (im collecting his stuff from my house and telling him to go)..please, let me just think about it. I want to be with you, for the lifetime, but its so difficult. I went out, he asked me where/when/who....arrgghh.
That was yesterday. I feel so much better that my mind has cleared. Only a few days ago it was about "us, and now its all about "him"..i have no problems with any of it, but its just to make you ladies aware of the swiftness of their changability, and inability to think past themselves..i mean that ultimately. Surely you were a part of plans somewhere along the line, but the bottom line is their in whatever it is purely for themselves.
Be careful.
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