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Posted by Sleepyquantro1It took me years of being single, dating frogs to understand who I am and what I want or don’t want. The thing is I’m addicted to the peace that comes with being emotionally available and I’m not about to risk that by pointlessly dating someone who I don’t see long-term potential with. I hate the feeling of moping and pining over someone that comes with break-up. It throws me off. I rather stay single and emotionally available to a person (whenever they come along) who is worth it.Posted by aquarius09Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by aquarius09Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by aquarius09Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by aquarius09Posted by Sleepyquantro1Posted by aquarius09
I never attract Taurus, Pisces, Cap and Sag men.
I’m only sad about not attracting Sag men because I want a Sag sun with Gem moon 😞
Why sag sun with gem moon? 🤔
I’m kinda skeptical of dating one bc of always hearing and reading 📖 that they are the men to have a one night stand with/fwb , but not the ones to marry 😂
I asked my sag guy friend about them “always looking for the next best thing”, and he stated that if a girl didn’t want to be on the move with him, he wouldn’t hesitate to leave for someone else 😂
He also said he’d rather not deal with anything important like paying bills and things like that...that he’d rather give his girl the money to handle everything
Which explained why he seemed to end up with Cap women a lot 😂
I’d rather not be the man in the relationship 🙅🏽♀️, but I don’t know if that applies to all Sag men
This guy sounds like a big loser. Must be something in his mars and mercury. Of course the other placements matters as well.
Sag sun with Gem moon wouldn’t be a lotttttt of women’s cup of tea but the reason they are my type is because I’m also not a typical female wanting kids, a man, settle down into routine or happily ever after. I know that everything including relationships have an expiration date. You just gotta know when to walk away from all transient aspects of life.
I hate restrictions and controlling behaviour. My MO is “to live and let live” and I love intelligent men who are well-read. Gem moons are usually intelligent whether or not they are well read. I also don’t like clingy men who aren’t ambitious. There is far more to life than romantic relationships. My ex was a non-ambitious man whose entire universe revolved around having a gf. In fact he didn’t even function if he was single. I have only known married men/in a relationship with this placement and they were ambitious, successful, intelligent and easy going. Witty banter and good conversation was endless. This is a combo for someone who isn’t looking for something conventional.
Did your ex portray himself differently than how he actually was, prior to u guys becoming official? I’m wondering 💭 if he was opposite of what u wanted, how u ended up in a relationship?
My ex never lied about who he was, although he did downplay some habits and things. For example, he told me he smokes pot socially even though he was smoking every day. He told me he wasn’t clingy and knew how to be single yet he was never really single. He always had someone there to entertain him. In fact I didn’t know that I had replaced someone else for him. He told me he was looking to quit smoking (as I’m not into smokers). I was well aware of who he was. I just had an intense mental connection to him (and that is so rare for an Aqua stellium like myself) which I couldn’t overlook. Alas! Mental connection isn’t everything even if it’s rare.
He knew he was more than a social smoker when he told you that bs 😂😂😂😂
Is this the libra ♎️ guy u told me about before? I believe u mentioned a libra in one of our old convos, if I’m not mistaken.
LOL! Yeah, he told me a lot of bs that wasn’t true. In hindsight I find it hilarious, but at the time I was annoyed at discovering all the discrepancies.
Yep😏 same dude because I only dated one Libra and my last one at that. When I dated him, I wasn’t into astrology, didn’t have any libras in my life and I knew superficially that Aqua sun is compatible with Libra sun. After we broke up, I got into astrology and realized through reading up on women’s experience with Libra sun men how typical he was for a Libra. It sounded like all these women were dating the same guy. LOL. Also, I ended up attracting a series of Libra men after him who I friendzoned. During my friendship I discovered that while they were great as friends, they were like my ex to their new gfs. LOL. Libras are not for me.
My Cap sister just married a libra ♎️, when I found out his sign, I almost 😪
I’m low key very scared for her 😂, but seriously 😩
No sign is truly bad. It’s all about compatibility and synastry. This brings me back to where we started the topic: sag sun with gem moon will not be everyone’s ideal partner but they will be for an air dominant person who probably wants the same things - to not be constrained, eschew responsibilities etc. I was raised by a cap with Aries moon who inculcated good organization skills, goal orientation, good time management, discipline in my life. My nurture shows Cap traits in me which technically an air stellium shouldn’t have. As a result, Sag sun who would shun responsibilities and foster frivolity wouldn’t do it for me either. I need earth placements in the chart as well to ground that sag sun
I understand that, and willingly admit to occasionally giving into astrological stereotypes 😩🙃, it’s something that I’m definitely working on.
It sounds like u have it all worked out...know what u want/need to balance u out.
I am not great at synastry, bc I haven’t delved into as much as I would like. I still haven’t figured out what placements would work best for me. My Venus squares everything in my chart, which can’t be a good thing. 😂
Btw, My sister is a Cap ☀️ Aries 🌙 too 🙂click to expand
Posted by CoffeeAndCreamI have way better ex stories then he does, I’m sure of it. Lol.Posted by saggurl88
Most men do this. They rarely think for themselves in this department and it’s easier to do what’s familiar.
I wouldn’t care. Take me on vacation and to spas, like you took her too.
We can start in the Maldives. 🤪
lol how about if this sparks good memories of her thoughclick to expand
Posted by ArieslesbianHow far is Santa Cruz from where you live? Do you stay in the bay?Posted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by CoffeeAndCream
or doing activities he did with his ex
how ya'll feel about that
me, if the food is good idgaf
I wouldn’t worry about it. No ones interested in dating you anyway lmao
True.
Yes I know.
Everyone on DXP knows, now go away, i don't want to waste my time talking to your crazy weird ass
Then you should really find the self control to stop responding, cause I’m not goin anywhere (:click to expand
Posted by ArieslesbianI was just curious. I only know of one other poster on the sight that lives close to there.Posted by saggurl88Posted by ArieslesbianPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by CoffeeAndCream
or doing activities he did with his ex
how ya'll feel about that
me, if the food is good idgaf
I wouldn’t worry about it. No ones interested in dating you anyway lmao
True.
Yes I know.
Everyone on DXP knows, now go away, i don't want to waste my time talking to your crazy weird ass
Then you should really find the self control to stop responding, cause I’m not goin anywhere (:
How far is Santa Cruz from where you live? Do you stay in the bay?
No. Why do you ask?click to expand
Posted by ArieslesbianI was just curious that’s all. There’s not really a right time to ask about these things and I’m nosy 😁Posted by saggurl88Posted by ArieslesbianPosted by saggurl88Posted by ArieslesbianPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by CoffeeAndCreamPosted by ArieslesbianPosted by CoffeeAndCream
or doing activities he did with his ex
how ya'll feel about that
me, if the food is good idgaf
I wouldn’t worry about it. No ones interested in dating you anyway lmao
True.
Yes I know.
Everyone on DXP knows, now go away, i don't want to waste my time talking to your crazy weird ass
Then you should really find the self control to stop responding, cause I’m not goin anywhere (:
How far is Santa Cruz from where you live? Do you stay in the bay?
No. Why do you ask?
I was just curious. I only know of one other poster on the sight that lives close to there.
Northern California isn’t brought up that much here.
Interesting. No, I don’t sorryclick to expand
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