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Posted by goldenfishHe sounds like me when I’m serious, lol. It’s up to you to start a lighter conversation. Have you tried teasing him, banter or flirting? Just make some silly, unexpected comment to one of his “lengthy texts” and see how he replies.Posted by Undine
Had a similar issue with an earthy guy. Initiate a different topic, sweet or sour, and see if he carries on. If he largely ignores your topics of interest or stories of your life, it’s a huge red flag.
Also, get him to ask you a question towards the end of each of his texts, if he wants to continue the conversation. This is very simple, but highly effective arrangement.
Lets say he always replies with a full text (not just 1 line), but it is not "flying". Idk how to describe better. He always remembers what I am up to/my plans, and asks about it, but we cant have lengthy convo.click to expand
Posted by goldenfishYou should suggest everything you would like him to do. How would he know, if you don’t? I believe it is best to initiate....treat someone the way you would like to be treated, and see if he engages or not. Text him good night, call him pet names, tell him you want to give him a call. How difficult is that? 😀Posted by UndinePosted by goldenfishPosted by Undine
Had a similar issue with an earthy guy. Initiate a different topic, sweet or sour, and see if he carries on. If he largely ignores your topics of interest or stories of your life, it’s a huge red flag.
Also, get him to ask you a question towards the end of each of his texts, if he wants to continue the conversation. This is very simple, but highly effective arrangement.
Lets say he always replies with a full text (not just 1 line), but it is not "flying". Idk how to describe better. He always remembers what I am up to/my plans, and asks about it, but we cant have lengthy convo.
He sounds like me when I’m serious, lol. It’s up to you to start a lighter conversation. Have you tried teasing him, banter or flirting? Just make some silly, unexpected comment to one of his “lengthy texts” and see how he replies.
Oh yeah, he is not that serious when I am shamelessly flirt with him, but thats basically it. No pet names, no daily texts like "good night", nada. He also does not call and I am not sure if I should suggest that.click to expand
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