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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
I'm more inclined to hate actions of people, and not the person themselves. such as .. I love my son, I loved my mother, etc .. and both of them could do "something" I absolutely hated. I've had bosses, friends, co-workers who have done things I couldn't stand for them to do ... but, I don't remember ever hating the person for it.
Perhaps, angry at the time ... but, the moment passed and realization then came that the person wasn't to be hated .. just the deed they did.
Before my mother passed away, when she was defenseless because her condition was fragile .. people did things to harm her emotionally because they took advantage of her helpless state of mind, and I still don't hate these people ... I hate how they treated her, though.