Meeting your sperm donor?
I know she’s young but she’s always talked about him, when I’ve tried to brush it off and not make a big deal about it, she pushes harder about it.
The only reason I asked him, is because I she’s been talking a lot about him lately and we already had a trip planned to be in a meeting place.
My fear was that she would idealize him or have this fantasy about him, and I didn’t want that to happen and I wanted her to empowered with all the knowledge and information as she grows into understanding this.
But I am second guessing myself a year later, she does have a Pisces Moon, and it is like she lives in a dual world of reality and imagination.
The only reason I asked him, is because I she’s been talking a lot about him lately and we already had a trip planned to be in a meeting place.
My fear was that she would idealize him or have this fantasy about him, and I didn’t want that to happen and I wanted her to empowered with all the knowledge and information as she grows into understanding this.
But I am second guessing myself a year later, she does have a Pisces Moon, and it is like she lives in a dual world of reality and imagination.
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Posted by ArinoaquaBut is the waist band area tight or your cup is over flowing?Posted by saggurl88
I don't understand what loose vs tight underbust means. How do you get those numbers?
And what size are you currently? That could depend on what they are telling you.
Once you get past DDD -E/F/G/H/I are only slightly bigger by about a half inch of fabric. If you have double boobage at DDD then G/H will cover your whole boob. E is the same size as DDD
I’m wearing a 34d but I hate the way it fits.click to expand
If it's waistband you can go to a 36D if its just the cup you can go to a 34DD.
If both, go for a 36DD
an H is if you can't fit a DDD or E anymore.
Posted by saggurl88but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.click to expand
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.click to expand
YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD!!! So often we view sex as purely phyiscal and its not. A phone conversation, a date where the vibe just hits every note, even simple eye contact. Those all can br consideted sex. Its not just phyiscal. Damn damn damn lol you just dont know thw chord you struck for ya boy with that one. Ive been saying this for a while now.
And I guess it comes down to paying attention to who youre dealing with because you may be catching feelings for someone who is a text from ghosting you. Ive had it happen to me lol and im guilty of it. With datinf everything is so fluid that its best to remain detached until you can make sure ish is truly mutual on every level. You said some impressive shit!
Posted by jeaneWe are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.click to expand
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.
Posted by saggurl88i'm talking about the response that libra4rmtx's was wrong and the blanket rule that men will leave you after sex because he's had you.Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
We are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.click to expand
Posted by Libra4rmTXSometimes being too cautious can bite you in the ass too. There are a lot of men and women who are too scared to keep trying for a connection. And most people fall for people that they can't have. It's human nature to want what's not there.Posted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD!!! So often we view sex as purely phyiscal and its not. A phone conversation, a date where the vibe just hits every note, even simple eye contact. Those all can br consideted sex. Its not just phyiscal. Damn damn damn lol you just dont know thw chord you struck for ya boy with that one. Ive been saying this for a while now.
And I guess it comes down to paying attention to who youre dealing with because you may be catching feelings for someone who is a text from ghosting you. Ive had it happen to me lol and im guilty of it. With datinf everything is so fluid that its best to remain detached until you can make sure ish is truly mutual on every level. You said some impressive shit!click to expand
It's part of the reason why I will give a man a second chance if he comes back, with no issues or past salty behavior, because most don't realize what they have till it's gone.
I think women need to realize that men have the same feelings as women, we hear how tough men can be, but in the end we are all the same when it comes to feelings.
You just have to navigate and find the person who works with yours well.
But now we aren't talking about sex anymore, are we?
Nah
I was wearing 36 DD for years thinking it was fine but then I got measured at a little boutique and they said I was actually 34 E or F ...now I forget because that size is impossible to find anyway
I’ve been ordering 34 or 36 DDD or E (depending how they label it) though and it’s been fitting great 👍🏻
Also depends on the brand too man idk
I was wearing 36 DD for years thinking it was fine but then I got measured at a little boutique and they said I was actually 34 E or F ...now I forget because that size is impossible to find anyway
I’ve been ordering 34 or 36 DDD or E (depending how they label it) though and it’s been fitting great 👍🏻
Also depends on the brand too man idk
Posted by TheFalangeReturnreally? would you fall in love with a woman who was unsatisfying in bed?Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
Idk guys are less demanding about women bed skills
Unless he watch porn all day or somethingclick to expand
Posted by jeaneSo did you mean to quote him? Cause I'm confused.Posted by saggurl88Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
it's all good and well to say you need to be vulnerable, you need to show your emotions, blah blah blah, if she is a firecracker in the sack, then he is going to want to keep her around and the longer she is there, the longer she can show her other fine attributes, and then yes, into the heart she goes but if that zipper doesn't come down then having a man truly fall in love (wild devotion, climb the highest mountain, slay a dragon sort of stuff) is nigh on impossible. men too often let the little head lead them.
We are talking about why some guys leave after having sex.
I need sex like I need food and a shower. I agree and think sex can be a factor in a man falling in love.
i'm talking about the response that libra4rmtx's was wrong and the blanket rule that men will leave you after sex because he's had you.click to expand
Posted by TheFalangeReturnI believe this too. Most men want a well rounded relationship, sex isn't going to hold a guy.Posted by jeanePosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by saggurl88Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by pooface222Posted by Libra4rmTX
You get in a mans heart by getting in a mans pants
Not true.
Once you get in a mans pants, he's had you and doesn't want you anymore.
Hmmm.....I got a theory behind that that life taught me but this isnt the place for that.
All Ill say is this, its something to be said about a man who cant be satisfied.
There’s no better place then here to discuss that. I actually want to hear your theory.
I don’t believe in a guy losing interest once he’s had sex but I’m still curious about what you have to say.
I think either a girl can give it too soon and a guy loses internet cause she didn’t grab his attention in other ways or she gave it up too late and he still wasn’t interested, but was waiting around for it.
Well Ill first say that I believe hypersexual ppl cant be satisfied. They just have a bottomless pit. And no boundaries. Thats not the same as someone with a high sex drive. Its different. But you can tell when a person is hypersexual because they just have no boundaries. Everybody goes thru a hoe phase lol but they calm down after a while. But I have friends and exs that are just extremely sexual to where they cant be satisfied by just one partner.
Now the other is somrtimes as men, we dont really know how to pinpoint what it is that pulls us to a certain woman. Like you said, it doesnt matter if a woman has sex with us early or late. If tgat oomph isnt there we probably will either change or just leave. But every man has a different it factor.
For me its personality. I like a woman thay can talk about anything. Thats goofy. That is open minded amd a lil spontaneous. I dont like an extremely serious woman. A toxic woman that just......just......is toxic period. And that one womam that just entertains you because she is bored.
Some men like a woman that cooks and cleans and is submissive. Some men want a woman that has all the physical traits hes attracted to. Some men want a woman that has money. And sometimes we fall for a woman that we dont expect to fall for.
We guard our heart by remaining detached and tbh we are making a decision with every convo we have with a woman.
It just boils down to does this woman meet our ideal lady or yes, does she not grab our attention. Every man is different but yea we tend to gravitate towards the woman who can capture our mind and ignite our emotions
Yes, I completely agree. The same can be said with women and their wants.
What it comes down to is sex not being the only thing that a woman has that she can offer. Some women weigh too heavy on giving up sex and why the man was disinterested. Sex most likely had nothing to do with it.
Sex can be seen as something as easy as eating or drinking with another person. Just another layer of what is pleasurable for 2 people to enjoy.
That's why its important to actually like a person for other reasons, instead of just wondering if the sex is good. When you like multiple things about a person, it adds to the enjoyment of the company that is kept.
There are both men and women that like casual sex, but most will get tired of it when they realize there is no substance involved.
but i do think there is some truth that getting into a man's heart involves getting into his pants as well.
if the sex is terrible but you're a nice person, i don't think men will stick around (nor will women, they just might hang around a bit longer).
Idk guys are less demanding about women bed skills
Unless he watch porn all day or somethingclick to expand