My ex stripper BF
Posted by LostinmyMind11He used to drink a lot when we first met. I remember one time he called me from Texas drunk off his ass and had me on the phone for like 2 hours. It was hilarious. I told him the next day that he asked me to marry him and I said yes....he didn't believe me 😂Posted by SeaLionPosted by LostinmyMind11
Get him drunk and dance sexy with him...then kinda back off and see if it brings it outta him?
We don't drink. He's not aloud to anymore.
Probably a good thing ..Scorp mooners and alcohol don't mix well.click to expand
If u remember me talking about how he got jumped and put in the hospital back in 2019..he was on dialysis for a month. They fucked up his kidneys he still has a huge black scar on his back from it. I dont know If they punched/kicked him there or they stabbed him(I haven't gotten the full story out of him but he claims he can't remember anything) but yeah that's why he doesn't drink anymore. 😔 It is a blessing in disguise tho cause yeah he is not pleasant to be around when he is fucked up. One of the reasons I stopped talking to him for a year and why I just wanted to be FWB when we first met.
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it's too obvious, they'll be all in your face lol
Lol he was then boom he left to see his kids.
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Having no goals to accomplish makes me sad and bored. So i always strive for more.
Get it aries are go getters
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I’m always on the go that I have very little down time or time to do necessary things like clean and cook. I’m gojng to get a cleaning person maybe once a month and think about dropping my laundry off. Doing life alone as an adult sucks. But things will get better in a year or two, im working hard establishing myself in my career and I plan on buying a house in 2 years, once I do that I can breathe more. I don’t feel stable now though, once I do, I can breathe.
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Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by saggurl88Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by saggurl88Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by saggurl88Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by saggurl88Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by saggurl88Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by saggurl88Posted by Brickhouse27Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Brickhouse27
Can someone share some insight please?
depends on the kind of attraction.
That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂
You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?
What is the pattern?
Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?
I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.
Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.
Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)
A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.
Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.
If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.
If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.
I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.
So did you ever pay for at less your half?
He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.
Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.
In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.
So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.
Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.
It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.
I actually did pay for a date and it wasn’t cheap, this last one I was paying for as well. One thing I can say is he is impulsive so he is kind of careless with money. I checked in after the failed date and I will when he gets back just to see but I’m not a taker at all. It’s just never been in me. He kept saying I fell for you, I got to step back?
Really? Well he’s a guy, so that could be the case. Space makes a guy fall harder, when they start catching feelings. Women fall harder in the company of a man and spending time with him.
So if he really did fall, he will come back to chase you down. Sagittarius don’t give up what they want so easily.
We can move on if we think we are wasting time or the other person isn’t interested.
Yep I’ve heard that with guys. I see cause he came back to my job from 2 weeks prior just to talk to me and made up a funny story about he wanted a job there lol. We really have a lot in common. He even jumped the gun and asked me about moving with him down the line. Y’all would move on immediately though right now weeks after weeks after weeks of hanging out?
Moving on really doesn’t mean anything. There’s 7 days in a week right? We make time for important people, the rest are just place holders, so we aren’t bored.
I can not see someone for a month and get right back in line with seeing them twice a week. But pride will keep me from them if I can’t see lots of interest.
Ok I got you, very valuable information. Do you think there is a slight difference between male and females of the same zodiac or it doesn’t matter?
I don’t think so. Sag need consistency and SOME attention but we also like being ignored a little. It gives us a challenge to pursue.
How long has it been since you’ve been in contact?
It’s been almost a week, he left to go see his kids.click to expand
A week isn't anything. and there's a reason why you guys aren't seeing each other. I wouldn't look too much into it. Fall back and let him contact you once he's back. Then you two can pick up like normal.
It's not necessary to keep checking in when he's told you he's busy.
Posted by TomboyyyyThank you!Posted by LostinmyMind11
What deck is the zodiac/planets one?
Arcana of Astrologyclick to expand
They are simple but still pretty...I dig em.
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Can someone share some insight please?
depends on the kind of attraction.
That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂
You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?
What is the pattern?
Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?
I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.
Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.
Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)
A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.
Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.
If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.
If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.
I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.
So did you ever pay for at less your half?
He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.
Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.
In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.
So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.
Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.
It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.
I actually did pay for a date and it wasn’t cheap, this last one I was paying for as well. One thing I can say is he is impulsive so he is kind of careless with money. I checked in after the failed date and I will when he gets back just to see but I’m not a taker at all. It’s just never been in me. He kept saying I fell for you, I got to step back?
Really? Well he’s a guy, so that could be the case. Space makes a guy fall harder, when they start catching feelings. Women fall harder in the company of a man and spending time with him.
So if he really did fall, he will come back to chase you down. Sagittarius don’t give up what they want so easily.
We can move on if we think we are wasting time or the other person isn’t interested.
Yep I’ve heard that with guys. I see cause he came back to my job from 2 weeks prior just to talk to me and made up a funny story about he wanted a job there lol. We really have a lot in common. He even jumped the gun and asked me about moving with him down the line. Y’all would move on immediately though right now weeks after weeks after weeks of hanging out?
Moving on really doesn’t mean anything. There’s 7 days in a week right? We make time for important people, the rest are just place holders, so we aren’t bored.
I can not see someone for a month and get right back in line with seeing them twice a week. But pride will keep me from them if I can’t see lots of interest.
Ok I got you, very valuable information. Do you think there is a slight difference between male and females of the same zodiac or it doesn’t matter?
I don’t think so. Sag need consistency and SOME attention but we also like being ignored a little. It gives us a challenge to pursue.
How long has it been since you’ve been in contact?
It’s been almost a week, he left to go see his kids.
A week isn't anything. and there's a reason why you guys aren't seeing each other. I wouldn't look too much into it. Fall back and let him contact you once he's back. Then you two can pick up like normal.
It's not necessary to keep checking in when he's told you he's busy.click to expand
Yeah you right and I haven’t checked in and I won’t cause like you said he told me what it was. I think he knows what it is and is just handling his business simple as that.
Posted by TomboyyyyOhhh...that kinda sucks but I like that it also has the houses etc too.Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by TomboyyyyPosted by LostinmyMind11
What deck is the zodiac/planets one?
Arcana of Astrology
Thank you!
They are simple but still pretty...I dig em.
The card quality isn’t that great in terms of holding up from shuffling. I split the deck because there are houses and asteroids and moon phases too.click to expand
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