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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Axelle

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Axelle

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Axelle

Hi all, I'm back

My first and also last topic was about a Scorpio guy who I felt betrayed by.

And I was right, he asked his friend to check up on me, and in the year we didn't talk he tried to find the courage many times to apologize to ask for forgiveness but thought why should he bother, because I didn't trust him anyway

And rightly so!!! He admitted he was a traitor, liar, cheater and should be hanged on a guillotine! Lol

We did have some conversations, but somehow he still feels I don't trust him

Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

What can I or cannot ask?

Help... I really want it to be like when we first met. Any tips? I really feel he's the one!

Why do you need to trust him?

"He admitted he was a traitor, liar, cheater and should be hanged on a guillotine"

You can ask him whatever you want, he's trying to get back into your good graces. Scorpios respect honesty and direct talking.

The question is how can it go back to what it was before, if he cheated and lied. Why are you willing to accept this behavior?

I can admit, if it was a long marriage, I can see why you would want it to work, for other reasons, but just a relationship?

Are you really willing to lower yourself into accepting whatever excuse he is gonna give for why this happened?

The lying and cheating was a jooooke. He said that to take full responsibility for where we at now, but I didn't explain it well in first post

This is more about establish trust as friends first

We had that when we first met, where we talked about everything and now he feels I don't give off the same energy. And I think its due the unspoken words I still have

Again, he didn't cheat, we were never really together. Its more about a family/friends business situation, but all drama was too much to tell so I left that out for effiency purposes

Just wanted to get my point across to simple ask how get back to basics

Oh wow lol That changes a lot as far as whatever responses you were hoping to get.

Trust is something that both of you should be building with each other. I didn't know Scorpios waited years to pursue someone, I thought they were quicker then that.

Guess you should be thinking about if what he has to offer, is something you will be able to live with and build from in a couple relationship.

Helping a man get on his feet is never a good thing, for a woman, in my opinion. Usually a women build them up and they leave her for someone else that doesn't know of their low points, when they are starting at a low level in finances. It's almost emasculating for the man, and can be a constant reminder of who got him in a better place financially. Some men don't handle this well.

Yeah sorry its just so many years have gone by and it would be a book to explain everything.

We were lovers (not a couple), and now friends, but before life took a turn we talked about how after uni it would be different because he sees that future, but stuff happened and he's not in the position he likes to be now

Life controls him, and not otherway around

He did say in the past he likes to do everything alone, so that can take years !!(this is probably bwhy I don't trust the situation)

I'm not sure what answers I was hoping to get because I explain very very badly hahha

But I truly think I'm taking a small part in this too, not only him

What would be your verdict? Wait it out? Or tell him something is bothering me or really trying to leave it for good? The latter is gonna be very hard

I'm fine with what he has to offer, but he's not fine with what he has to offer . Ego thing

You should talk to him, it's hard to say without knowing all the details. He seems uninterested in a relationship. Anyone saying "it's not the right time" is a person saying that you aren't the right one for them.

If a person wanted to be in a relationship, they would be more worried about losing the person, but that is just my opinion.

Timing being off can be an excuse to back burner you.

Can you be direct and just ask?

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Posted by Axelle

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Axelle

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Axelle

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Axelle

Hi all, I'm back

My first and also last topic was about a Scorpio guy who I felt betrayed by.

And I was right, he asked his friend to check up on me, and in the year we didn't talk he tried to find the courage many times to apologize to ask for forgiveness but thought why should he bother, because I didn't trust him anyway

And rightly so!!! He admitted he was a traitor, liar, cheater and should be hanged on a guillotine! Lol

We did have some conversations, but somehow he still feels I don't trust him

Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

What can I or cannot ask?

Help... I really want it to be like when we first met. Any tips? I really feel he's the one!

Why do you need to trust him?

"He admitted he was a traitor, liar, cheater and should be hanged on a guillotine"

You can ask him whatever you want, he's trying to get back into your good graces. Scorpios respect honesty and direct talking.

The question is how can it go back to what it was before, if he cheated and lied. Why are you willing to accept this behavior?

I can admit, if it was a long marriage, I can see why you would want it to work, for other reasons, but just a relationship?

Are you really willing to lower yourself into accepting whatever excuse he is gonna give for why this happened?

The lying and cheating was a jooooke. He said that to take full responsibility for where we at now, but I didn't explain it well in first post

This is more about establish trust as friends first

We had that when we first met, where we talked about everything and now he feels I don't give off the same energy. And I think its due the unspoken words I still have

Again, he didn't cheat, we were never really together. Its more about a family/friends business situation, but all drama was too much to tell so I left that out for effiency purposes

Just wanted to get my point across to simple ask how get back to basics

Oh wow lol That changes a lot as far as whatever responses you were hoping to get.

Trust is something that both of you should be building with each other. I didn't know Scorpios waited years to pursue someone, I thought they were quicker then that.

Guess you should be thinking about if what he has to offer, is something you will be able to live with and build from in a couple relationship.

Helping a man get on his feet is never a good thing, for a woman, in my opinion. Usually a women build them up and they leave her for someone else that doesn't know of their low points, when they are starting at a low level in finances. It's almost emasculating for the man, and can be a constant reminder of who got him in a better place financially. Some men don't handle this well.

Yeah sorry its just so many years have gone by and it would be a book to explain everything.

We were lovers (not a couple), and now friends, but before life took a turn we talked about how after uni it would be different because he sees that future, but stuff happened and he's not in the position he likes to be now

Life controls him, and not otherway around

He did say in the past he likes to do everything alone, so that can take years !!(this is probably bwhy I don't trust the situation)

I'm not sure what answers I was hoping to get because I explain very very badly hahha

But I truly think I'm taking a small part in this too, not only him

What would be your verdict? Wait it out? Or tell him something is bothering me or really trying to leave it for good? The latter is gonna be very hard

I'm fine with what he has to offer, but he's not fine with what he has to offer . Ego thing

You should talk to him, it's hard to say without knowing all the details. He seems uninterested in a relationship. Anyone saying "it's not the right time" is a person saying that you aren't the right one for them.

If a person wanted to be in a relationship, they would be more worried about losing the person, but that is just my opinion.

Timing being off can be an excuse to back burner you.

Can you be direct and just ask?

We do live in separate continents now, and it's not easy for him to just come here where I am due visa restrictions (even with an invitation)

He has asked me to come visit him many times, but I got stubborn and refused because I thought he would be here by now atleast working. Life happened and he missed many opportunities to come here

But I will be direct and see where he's at

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What is terrible about them? Asking seriously to understand how virgos are perceived.

Well obv they have their good points

and its not every virgo ...

but..

Its more the men than the women.

Virgo men are very controlling ....

They are very regimented ..they don't try new things ...

They can lack ambition...they can be happy with just 'comfortable' and can sometimes fail to live up to potential

They see ambition as 'flashy' etc.

They refuse to acknowledge deep down they lack confidence ....they need a bit more swag.

On the good side ..they are very practical ..and are masters at seeing reality over illusion

That just sounds like bad taste in men in general🙃

indeed

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Posted by saggurl88

LONG DISTANCE? Y'ALL KILL ME WITH THIS!!!

I don't get it at all. But good luck and I hope it works out for you. It would be way easier to move on with someone close to you, with no connected past.

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Posted by saggurl88

LONG DISTANCE? Y'ALL KILL ME WITH THIS!!!

I don't get it at all. But good luck and I hope it works out for you. It would be way easier to move on with someone close to you, with no connected past.

LOL. You now see why the very few Scorps in this thread bailed after page 2.

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Posted by Axelle

Hi all, I'm back

My first and also last topic was about a Scorpio guy who I felt betrayed by.

And I was right, he asked his friend to check up on me, and in the year we didn't talk he tried to find the courage many times to apologize to ask for forgiveness but thought why should he bother, because I didn't trust him anyway

And rightly so!!! He admitted he was a traitor, liar, cheater and should be hanged on a guillotine! Lol

We did have some conversations, but somehow he still feels I don't trust him

Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

What can I or cannot ask?

Help... I really want it to be like when we first met. Any tips? I really feel he's the one!

Posted by _mudra_

Pretty sure Sag doesn't entertain Leo's absolute BS.