yeah you can....when he pops up in your head, get up and do something, grab a book, make a cake, work out, when he comes into your mind, lovingly look at him and simply turn away as your turning away, you can actually say to him, I am turning away and letting you go and just walk away and do that until you don't have to do it again, YOU HAVE OPTIONS, your not helpless, when you begin to shift your focus you will feel some relief, right now your torturing yourself...STOP IT...you will also notice that all the time wasted thinking about him and you will really feel silly....start being present, meaning stop thinking and start feeling, wipe your brain free and pay attention to whats directly in front of you and throw yourself into it, so if you are with your kids, stop thinking and focus on them and when you find yourself drifting off then you snap your fingers or put a rubber band around your wrist and pop it on your wrist to remind you to stop DAY DREAMING and get back into REALITY
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errr, virgo women kinda gets on my nerves when they start critizing. I don't get along with the ones I know and the men are just werid to me. But I thought virgos are really compatible with cappys??? whats up with that...??
Thank You HSD for your answer.I know there are soo many things I have to do right now and I am trying my best to stay sane.I am looking for professional help/therapist.It may help put some order in my thoughts .I'm trying to take some actions and not to become a victim of everything .I let myself be a victim for too many years even tough I always had a choice,just that fear in ruling my life .I know I have to start loving myself,respecting myself,trusting myself otherwise nobody else will.There are too many things going against me or maybe it's just my mind.I'm trying to take actions and I want to show him I'm not that vulnerable ,I don't need a savior but I do need help witch I probably won't get from him and I don't blame him,everybody has their problems.I guess I'm overwhelmed by my life situation right now ,and this anxiety doesn't help.I really want him for him and I am afraid to do anything cause I'll probably do something stupid again .He could.ve left me alone when I told him I won't bother him anymore but he didn't and he knows that my feelings for him are very strong.When I thought I can;t suffer any more than I allready did ..I met him and fell in love with him.I think about him all the time and he is smart enough to contact me just to keep me hanging on...or maybe he is real but is waiting on the side for me to take care of my problems?...I don't know what to do,I'm not very coherent and I'm still waiting for a therapist to contact me to make a first appointment.I have to think what to do w virguy.I don't want to lose him
uuuu...SR...and how you hate it ne? Poor guy!
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no. no es correcto.
you must be passionate about some thing. like, for you, i would gander martial arts.
you must be passionate about some thing. like, for you, i would gander martial arts.
lol gotta love sag honesty hehe
don't fault her. i am the supplier. distributing by the gallons.
I only met like 2 aquas in my life.....where do you guys hide?? must i flip some stones to find you?? LOL
i agree bling. Three sassy girls + one gay guy doesn't provide the pop it once did anymore.
lol @ Evan
the fact is we are all werid, I didn't say I wasn't werid,
virgos are nice but why aren't we compatiable, the ones i meet anyways 
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the fact is we are all werid, I didn't say I wasn't werid,
virgos are nice but why aren't we compatiable, the ones i meet anyways ....