Cancer baby

"I have been reading your posts... how are you doing? Hope things are looking up for you now" ...yeah, what she said.
As for cancer baby boys... As a kid, I was probably the trouble-maker out of my mom's 7 kids. I was the youngest of the first 3 (my birth marked the separation of my parents). My story will probably a little out of the ordinary (as I felt like a loner for most of my youth), but I was always happy in my mother's presence... unless she was feeling down. I have 5 brothers, 1 gem, 1 pis, 1 leo, 1 aqua, 1 libra... and my sister is pis. Ironically (quoting my mother), she is a cap. I was easy to teach (not that I liked/believed this, but I was probably told by more of my family members that I was smart [more so than my siblings], even my brothers and sister continue to tell me this). I always wanted to have company (weird how sometimes I still do), but barely ever had it. I was quiet around strangers. Never wanted to talk to either of my parents about a problem (but I think that was because I felt they didn't have time for me). When I was old enough to realize they did have the time for me... I didn't know how to talk to them (so if I were you, I would build a strong line of communication with him early on). I was the only one of my mother's kids to smoke (or do drugs), the first to drink (and now I'm one of the two that do), I always wandered into dangerous places and situations when I was young (to see what all the hype/fear was about) but never got in too deep, I would never let any problems I got into follow me back to the house (I wouldn't be able to live with myself if my family got hurt because of something I did [I'd rather die in the street]), I got (and still do get) bored with things that are too easy, and when I was 14 I found out some family secrets that have scarred my ability to trust.
Be honest, no matter how bad it hurts your cancer child, that way they will always trust you. Cancer boys are very determined... we're the best at what we do. Which means:
-If we're gonna be liars... you WILL believe us (after enough practice). Keep the trust.
-If we're going to cheat... you'll believe we earned it.
-If we're going to steal... we'll convince you we found it.
-etc. etc. etc. the list could go on (instilling strong morals from the beginning [even if they choose the wrong path at any given time in life] will cause them to see where they are wrong... and they will try their hardest to find their way back)
CONGRATULATIONS Lady!

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