Pisces Female Confused with Virgo Ex
A few weeks ago, virgo boyfriend told me he could not be with me. He was in need to "explore" and date more. He was not ready to settle down. I was totally devastated. There were no indications how he came to this conclusion. Virgo BF is a workaholic and owns his own business. I was helping him with the business to great success. He told me it had nothing to do with me and I was the perfect girlfriend. I felt something fishy was going on. Perfect girlfriends don't get dumped.
While I was taking time apart to go visit my father for a while to get away, he told me he started dating the week I left. He was just looking to casually date some chick. Later he is telling me he could possibly love her, but she is not his GF yet.
We decided before I left that he would join me during election night to watch the elections. This was important to me and like a good virgo, he filled his obligation. I didn't expect us to have a good time, but I have lately have been working on a new attitude of happiness and confidence that I didn't have all the way before. He seemed attracted and felt comfortable with me like old times, except better.
At first he was distant and polite towards me. As the night moved on, he became more attracted to my smiles and happiness to the point that he had to control himself. He told me he would always be attracted to me and he seemed to be flirting with me all night. We laughed, told jokes, shared candy, and acted like everything was perfect. He displayed his innocent child like nature, an indication that he was loosening up around me. He barely wanted to leave when the night was over, he seemed conflicted and quiet. He still was trying to convince himself that we were "friends" only. Some how I don't see that he even believed that. He even mentioned that I will forever be family to him and under his protection. I know sometimes I can get him to express his feelings around me and I know he sees me as some one he trusts. I know virtually everything about him, even his darkest secrets and pains.
He said he would call me sometime this week and I haven't heard from him so far. I have to come back sunday to start making arrangements to move. I really want him back, but I want to be careful about this mystery girl. Do you think that night is an indication he will come back? Either way, I will be moving out to gain strength in my own life. But I absolutely love him and I am sad he is not my BF anymore.
While I was taking time apart to go visit my father for a while to get away, he told me he started dating the week I left. He was just looking to casually date some chick. Later he is telling me he could possibly love her, but she is not his GF yet.
We decided before I left that he would join me during election night to watch the elections. This was important to me and like a good virgo, he filled his obligation. I didn't expect us to have a good time, but I have lately have been working on a new attitude of happiness and confidence that I didn't have all the way before. He seemed attracted and felt comfortable with me like old times, except better.
At first he was distant and polite towards me. As the night moved on, he became more attracted to my smiles and happiness to the point that he had to control himself. He told me he would always be attracted to me and he seemed to be flirting with me all night. We laughed, told jokes, shared candy, and acted like everything was perfect. He displayed his innocent child like nature, an indication that he was loosening up around me. He barely wanted to leave when the night was over, he seemed conflicted and quiet. He still was trying to convince himself that we were "friends" only. Some how I don't see that he even believed that. He even mentioned that I will forever be family to him and under his protection. I know sometimes I can get him to express his feelings around me and I know he sees me as some one he trusts. I know virtually everything about him, even his darkest secrets and pains.
He said he would call me sometime this week and I haven't heard from him so far. I have to come back sunday to start making arrangements to move. I really want him back, but I want to be careful about this mystery girl. Do you think that night is an indication he will come back? Either way, I will be moving out to gain strength in my own life. But I absolutely love him and I am sad he is not my BF anymore.