Can you guys understand what is going on here?

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Centaur12

Posted by saggurl88

My opinion

She is trying to have the relationship her way and you are trying to have the relationship your way.

You guys are still in a relationship though.

I don't know why you two keep pretending that it's ending. I think you know by now that it's not.

The energy you two put into breaking up and being confused should be the same energy you put into trying something different and seeing if changing up things will work.

Her fake friendship is trying to force you into going with the flow. I told you from the beginning that she wasn't gonna let you go. Why can't you see that?

You two seem to enjoy the turmoil of playing these hurtful love games though, cause neither of you changes enough to fix it.

Is her moon sign fixed as well?

Her moon is a virgo

Oh lol My ex was a Gemini with a Virgo moon.

I seriously think things would work out better if you stopped asking about the title for a lil bit. You two need to build back up the relationship and get back on solid ground, if there ever was a solid ground.

She is yours and has been yours. She knows you're in love with her, she most likely feels the same way. Proof is that she isn't letting you go and keeps trying to have you any way she can get you.

Can you tell that she loves you?

You base a lot on words that you need to hear and some people don't work like that. She seems to be showing you with actions. But both of you don't compromise well- which is something you both should be working on.

The "breaking up to make up cycle" will probably never get old for you unless she actually starts dating other men. There has to be something substantial in order for you to be able to justify breaking it off for good.

But I believe as long as she stays loyal to you, you will continue to keep doing this. You're in for a lot of years of unnecessary drama.

Sometimes love isn't enough. You guys seriously don't understand each other and are super stubborn about it.

And neither of you know the words to communicate properly to stop one upping the other for control.

Sorry I know I always point out what's wrong, but it's because these are areas that I see as lacking when I read the things that you write. I don't mean to come off super harsh. I just can't understand why you still don't understand her and it's been so many years.

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