Can you guys understand what is going on here?

Posted by Wizardz
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Wizardz

She's forcing you to make the decision to stay apart because that's what she wants. She is manipulating you - all the "I'm so heartbroken" messages are her way of absolving responsibility so she can walk away feeling like it wasn't her decision


You're gonna have him even more confusedLaughing

She's not walking away at all, and she can't stay apart from him.

These are the type of words he needs to ignore from her, instead of getting hurt by them.

Once he can maneuver through it and see what's what, he will be able to have a solid healthy relationship.


Lol we're saying the opposite thing

You think this relationship has a chance?

To me it sounds like she already has decided that ultimately he's not the one. She's just no good at letting go and moving on so she keeps manipulating him to make him do it instead but he keeps taking her back instead of being firm
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I don't know, this is their cycle. I was just offering up advice to force her into what he wants 😈

You know how unruly you Geminis can beLaughing

I think Geminis cut the cord when they are really done. You guys don't just want attention for attentions sake, like us Sags Big Grin

He's being consistent, which is enough to keep her, he just needs to work on telling her what to do in a way that she's accepting of it, so she can fall in line to what he wants- which is the relationship. Hahaha!

You guys can be such great listeners, and accept what's being told to you, when the time is right! 😇

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Posted by Wizardz
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Wizardz

She's forcing you to make the decision to stay apart because that's what she wants. She is manipulating you - all the "I'm so heartbroken" messages are her way of absolving responsibility so she can walk away feeling like it wasn't her decision


You're gonna have him even more confusedLaughing

She's not walking away at all, and she can't stay apart from him.

These are the type of words he needs to ignore from her, instead of getting hurt by them.

Once he can maneuver through it and see what's what, he will be able to have a solid healthy relationship.


Lol we're saying the opposite thing

You think this relationship has a chance?

To me it sounds like she already has decided that ultimately he's not the one. She's just no good at letting go and moving on so she keeps manipulating him to make him do it instead but he keeps taking her back instead of being firm
click to expand
I don't know, this is their cycle. I was just offering up advice to force her into what he wants ?

You know how unruly you Geminis can beLaughing

I think Geminis cut the cord when they are really done. You guys don't just want attention for attentions sake, like us Sags Big Grin

He's being consistent, which is enough to keep her, he just needs to work on telling her what to do in a way that she's accepting of it, so she can fall in line to what he wants- which is the relationship. Hahaha!

You guys can be such great listeners, when the time is right! ?