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Posted by IxiYou haven’t!! It’s the 17th 🤠Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I’m late 🧍🏽♀️ But happy birthday king !!
Appreciate you Empress...hopefully I didn't miss yours!!!click to expand
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Posted by MyStarsShineI love that StarsShinePosted by trinePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by trine
Distance, mainly. We’ve been speaking for a while, but she’s in a different city, with no prospects of moving to mine.
How far away?
400 miles.
Do you drive?
I was seeing someone who lived over 1200 Miles away .... diff country ... we met once a month and it lasted almost five years
Could ye meet halfway maybe?click to expand
You say several times you would never ‘cross that line’ and pursue him because he is engaged.
You may not have a physical relationship, you do have an emotional relationship. The flirtation, the constant communication, assigning value to him using gas to commute and spend time with you…buying you lunch…etc.
Ask yourself, if your fiancé was spending time with another female, flirting with her, constant communication, lunch dates, and encouraging a connection that leads her to imagine a potential relationship… is that cheating? And how would you, the fiancé, feel about that.
You can’t say you “don’t want to ruin a family” but then also transfer all the responsibility on him by saying in the next breath “he is the one coming to me”.
You know his situation and are an active participant in accepting and encouraging his attention.
Either go all in or back away completely. Pretending to be a passive participant who has no control over what is happening is not fair to him, her, and more importantly yourself.
You may not have a physical relationship, you do have an emotional relationship. The flirtation, the constant communication, assigning value to him using gas to commute and spend time with you…buying you lunch…etc.
Ask yourself, if your fiancé was spending time with another female, flirting with her, constant communication, lunch dates, and encouraging a connection that leads her to imagine a potential relationship… is that cheating? And how would you, the fiancé, feel about that.
You can’t say you “don’t want to ruin a family” but then also transfer all the responsibility on him by saying in the next breath “he is the one coming to me”.
You know his situation and are an active participant in accepting and encouraging his attention.
Either go all in or back away completely. Pretending to be a passive participant who has no control over what is happening is not fair to him, her, and more importantly yourself.
Posted by DMVLife changing! ❤️Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by trinePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by trine
Distance, mainly. We’ve been speaking for a while, but she’s in a different city, with no prospects of moving to mine.
How far away?
400 miles.
Do you drive?
I was seeing someone who lived over 1200 Miles away .... diff country ... we met once a month and it lasted almost five years
Could ye meet halfway maybe?
I love that StarsShineclick to expand
We have both been here D for more than 10 yrs so i’d have posted about him then. Aries/Scorp Moon. We’d meet up in several European cities and often he’d catch two planes and a train to see me. It was like something from a film. The synastry was off the planet. Will never forget that time in my life. It changed me forever. He used to say “wild horses couldn’t drag me away from you”
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Posted by dontgiveupPosted by LadyNeptune
You say several times you would never ‘cross that line’ and pursue him because he is engaged.
You may not have a physical relationship, you do have an emotional relationship. The flirtation, the constant communication, assigning value to him using gas to commute and spend time with you…buying you lunch…etc.
Ask yourself, if your fiancé was spending time with another female, flirting with her, constant communication, lunch dates, and encouraging a connection that leads her to imagine a potential relationship… is that cheating? And how would you, the fiancé, feel about that.
You can’t say you “don’t want to ruin a family” but then also transfer all the responsibility on him by saying in the next breath “he is the one coming to me”.
You know his situation and are an active participant in accepting and encouraging his attention.
Either go all in or back away completely. Pretending to be a passive participant who has no control over what is happening is not fair to him, her, and more importantly yourself.
I never claimed i have no control, by all means I still agree to meet him and reply to his messages so yes I do engage.
And you are right I would be hurt and upset and it would feel like emotionally cheating.
I guess I never thought of it like that because its not like we express feelings to eachother verbally so it didnt necessairly feel that way but in the end its all the same.
I do own up to my end.
And by crossing that line yes i meant physically.
I by no means am saying Im not to blame for any of this i guess maybe it makes me feel better when I say i wont cross the physical boundary
Thanks for you inputclick to expand
Which is certainly respectable. But the longer you engage the more your feelings will be entwined and the more tempted you will be.
Obviously its not fair to her, of course.
But also its not fair to you. Because you are, even unconsciously, putting your life on hold and waiting to see where its gonna go.
Would you ever just tell him straight up your developing feelings? Like maybe your reading too much into things and his flirtation and all this really is coming from a place of friendship for him. He can set the record straight for you and keep things platonic.
Or if he really is unhappy in his relationship and the feelings are mutual you can at least have some clarity from him.
Ha at coming at to your bf for respect! He knew what he was doing
If he really had respect for you n your relationship he would be flirting n engaging as such
I would ask directly about his relationship status: "Hey, how is your engagement?". Seems like a valid a question.
Do you see the red flags??? No character this Leo he has a fiancé n disrespect his relationship n yours.
"He never crosses the line, he is respectful. But, I can see it in his eyes too."
Even if you don't let this go anywhere, I feel like the friendship would hold. The Leo-Aqua axis make for lasting friendships, find them most loyal in this aspect.
Even if you don't let this go anywhere, I feel like the friendship would hold. The Leo-Aqua axis make for lasting friendships, find them most loyal in this aspect.
Posted by TruemaraThat's called one foot in a gravePosted by TaureancosmicPosted by LadyNeptune
Ultimately it doesn't matter if he is estranged from the wife or not. She is still higher up on his priorities then you, his gf.
Fucking you is the only place where you win out over her (allegedly). But overall the scales swing in her favor.
Thing is if you accept him back you accept him as he is. And you accept that he will continue to put his ex wife higher then you unfair as that is.
Yeah, thats why I haven't contacted him since he unblocked me. I think he also worries because of her age! But you are right, 100%
How old is she? And what’s her sign ?
I mean if she mid 40 s to 50 I got to crack up’ she’s not an invalid. Age to worry is 70-80s lol
Did she dump him?click to expand
